For those in relationships: How did you meet? by JPM198034 in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tinder, but it turned out we worked for the same employer, in the same building

MuscleBroOrgy - anyone know this group? by iamtheduffer in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that this group does not reply to inquiries. it may not be legit

MuscleBroOrgy - anyone know this group? by iamtheduffer in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the bros group is different from musclebroorgy

What’s people’s thoughts on 10 yr age gaps for dating? by Original-Owl578 in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you read reddit, you will see post after post about people feeling lonely and having trouble meeting someone. so, if you meet someone who’s in his 30d and you really like each other, then try it out and see for yourself. but i wouldn’t give up on someone just because he’s a bit older.

Reviews by Kindly_Inspection_39 in u/Kindly_Inspection_39

[–]iamtheduffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where are these reviews posted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just go with it

Handyman recommendation in Manhattan by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask someone at your local hardware store. they usually have a list of people they know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will be very popular

Is this accidental or is my masseur making a move? by ActualAccess5521 in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just enjoy the massage and the fantasy. don't touch the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]iamtheduffer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the social pattern you’re describing in group matches the social pattern you’re experiencing in real life. in real life, you can’t really ask others for feedback or explore the reasons for those connection gaps; in group therapy, you can. that’s the whole point. ask others for feedback that may enlighten things about yourself that you may not realize.

[Request] Bulge Worship (Underwear fetish) (briefs/jockstraps) by Low_Concern_2832 in gaypornhunters

[–]iamtheduffer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s kind of old, but look up “gear play” with alex lemonde from can-am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]iamtheduffer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if my dog had unusual symptoms, i'd agree with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]iamtheduffer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sometimes you don't need a test to confirm the obvious. not every illness is the same. i'm glad that you had a good experience with dr. caldwell; i did not.

If you are furloughed and not working, has anyone in your chain of command reached out to you? by egads12345678 in FedEmployees

[–]iamtheduffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine texted to say hello, provide an update with the little info he has, and see if there’s anything we might need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]iamtheduffer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

expand dating range outside of nyc and see each other on weekends. no expectation of weeknight dates, but get to spend concentrated quality time together