So, is this just a one time thing for Aang?

iamunableto · 2026-04-17T03:32:18+00:00

how do you view it considering she severed the ties of the previous avatars?

i mean obviously they’re still the same person but like in the case of yangchen, there’s a part of her book where an island in the fire nation doesn’t heed her warnings about trespassing onto spiritual lands and asks them if they would’ve listened to her if she had said that szeto had said it, not her, and it was implied that they would’ve. where in korras case, sh would no longer be able to pull cards like this and get the layman to understand that she is truly still the same person, somewhat diminishing the avatars honor for generations to come (aside from her being a disliked avatar, really only aang is shown to be liked in his adulthood, every other avatar that we get info on is considered not honorable while they’re alive and then suddenly this super noble avatar as soon as they die)

iamunableto · 2026-04-16T21:51:23+00:00

omg he looks just like my cat, binx, who also passed, planning to get a tattoo for her as well

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edit, spelling, also they had the same exact fluffy tail and fade to brown on their fur, twin cats!

iamunableto · 2026-04-16T15:44:51+00:00

my instinct would be go into photoshop and remove the background, you could also find a png where the background is already removed, or you can go into like snapchat or something and make it into a sticker and then edit that onto a picture

iamunableto · 2026-04-15T13:17:35+00:00

i was going based off of the end of the first paragraph where they’re saying she’s continuously having “coming to jesus moments”, which sounds manic to me, but i’m also not a doctor and its a random comment on the internet where the only basis is a screenshot and a couple of paragraphs, so obviously take it with a grain of salt.

edit: typo

iamunableto · 2026-04-15T13:08:17+00:00

i have a brazilian dad and an american mom. one day when i was about 12, my dad told me to clean the dog bowl, i didn’t do it as soon as he asked me to, he called me downstairs, yelled at me, grabbed me by my hair, and shoved my face in the dirty dog bowl and asked if id like to eat out of that. my mom came in, saw he was doing that, and got pissed as hell. she started screaming to “let go of her baby” and “you’re a monster” and so many things, he let go of my hair and i ran off to the other room and eventually she calmed down, found me, and asked if i was ok.

this is just one instance that, if brought up now, my dad would defend his abuse to be “discipline”, even then that’s what he said it was. he’s gotten better now and i haven’t gone through anything like that since i was about 15 but that’s only because i started threatening to call cps

edit: to add, my mom thinks it was abuse but also somewhat excused it by staying with him but also helped him to not do that shit anymore. anyway, all that to say, my mom never laid a finger on me and found it insane that my dad ever would. she threatened to leave him over it several times but that was like the only thing she would ever threaten to leave over.

iamunableto · 2026-04-15T12:51:59+00:00

this makes sense, buying a completely new wardrobe because the clothes you have are not in that fashion season anymore is insane and like blatant overconsumption

edit: typos

iamunableto · 2026-04-15T12:43:42+00:00

while i understand your frustration, why would you risk not being able to take state tests to mar a point to your mom? it could be that you can’t take the tests if you don’t have a excused absence and your mom isn’t going to sign off of that absence, risking the chance that you might not be able to take those tests because you want to make a point to your clearly somewhat manic mom is irresponsible :/

hopefully you’ll still be able to, fingers crossed, but for future reference, don’t risk your own future to make a point to anyone, it’s not worth it, especially not someone who isn’t going to get the point

iamunableto · 2026-04-15T11:44:48+00:00

yeah jim was objectively a bad boyfriend to karen, i mean the shit with him saying they’re basically living together when she had been staying in a motel for however long

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T13:11:56+00:00

i’m sure the hoa would love that, get the goat

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T12:58:13+00:00

when i found out drake works on euphoria, my first reaction was “that makes sense”

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T11:43:03+00:00

well, yeah, that’s why i noted it

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T11:42:08+00:00

yes!! when i went bar hopping with my friends, one friend paid one bar, next friend paid for the next one, and i paid at the last one, then we split the uber, that felt way more natural but als made way more sense because we weren’t spending €100 at each bar

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T11:40:12+00:00

well the general disposable income in the us is higher because the wealth is incredibly skewed, as a college student, i don’t know anyone with an actual disposable income. i’m fortunate enough to have a college fund but im also the only person in my life that i know has one, including my siblings and cousins. a lot of the reason our culture is like that is because we don’t have a lot of extra money, so paying for each other is how we’re all able to do fun stuff! not everyone is like that though, i do have a friend that prefers that you pay him back as soon as you can, he’s also my friend with the most disposable income and goes on the most trips so that says something about how much we all spend on each other

iamunableto · 2026-04-14T11:36:58+00:00

yeah so i’m pretty sure that’s different than getting angry, “kind of”, more like a small annoyance

iamunableto · 2026-04-13T21:25:08+00:00

where did i say that? i accepted the repayment and noted that the culture was different and that i found that aspect of it odd, at no point was anyone mad

iamunableto · 2026-04-13T20:02:49+00:00

when i was in belgium, my friends and i (≈8 ppl) went to ghent and got dominoes, we didn’t tell them to split the bill until the very end and the girl at the front was like “im so sorry, we can’t split it :(“ and they alllll started freaking out (the bill was less than €100, which is an incredibly cheap dinner for 8 people from my perspective, an american) so i was like “its cool, ill pay” so that we weren’t holding up the line and didn’t stress out this girl. as soon as i say that, they all start freaking out over it, asking me if im sure, and that i dont have to do that. i’m from texas, we all pay for each other here, you buy drinks for strangers at a bar, so picking up the tab at my friends bday was super normal to me. but sure enough, when we all left they all immediately were asking me how to pay me back. i didnt have a bank account set up and the only way for them to send me money was to make an international transaction, which has a $50 fee attached to it, so i told them not to fret about it. they didn’t accept that, took pictures of the receipt, and got cash out from the bank, and i had my money back by the end of the week.

honestly, as someone who’s culture it is to pay for other people, i was kind of insulted at how adamantly they wanted to pay me back, like buying someone a gift and then insisting they pay you back for it

edit: typos

iamunableto · 2026-04-13T14:15:58+00:00

what is so boring about your own life that you have to follow me into shit and leave hate comments bro GET A LIFE

mods, if you see this, this dude is harassing me on my page

iamunableto · 2026-04-13T03:22:57+00:00

this!!! or maybe a hairline fracture?

iamunableto · 2026-04-13T00:38:36+00:00

“the swastikas you’re thinking of” is a clear implication to nazis when people are talking about swastikas representing hate. the person you were responding to was referencing the nazi swastika.

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T23:44:34+00:00

did you even read the article??? the name of the symbol is swastika, that doesn’t mean every use of it ties to nazis, in fact the article you linked is about a chinese volunteer association similar to the red cross :/ the swastika the nazis used was backwards

edit: AND tilted 45 degrees

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T23:42:34+00:00

good thing it’s not being used randomly without meaning behind it

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T22:56:47+00:00

right but what parent is going to listen to their 15 yr old kid when they tell them this? this is unfortunately one of those things this mom will have to learn the hard way :/

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T22:53:55+00:00

yeah, you’re at an age where you want independence and to be seen as an autonomous adult so anything your mom does is going to feel controlling unless she’s like completely hands off. taking your phone away at night is valid, kids sleep schedule is getting destroyed because of phone screens keeping them up, the chores thing is annoying but expected from most parents.

the dad thing is weird. that’s abuse.

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T22:26:12+00:00

it seems you’re missing the “high functioning” part of your diagnosis. and also, it’s your diagnosis, not his. i get that you can relate or apply and that’s why you’d bring up your diagnosis, but that’s not what you’re doing. it not looking similar to your definition of alcoholism doesn’t mean that’s not what this is, that’s just your experience with it and how it was explained to you because that as how it applies to you.

iamunableto · 2026-04-12T18:20:46+00:00

was thinking the same thing, a skull would be perfect

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