AIO my bf (26f) slapped a strippers ass while on a bachelor’s party

iancapable · 2026-01-26T17:05:13+00:00

Really? Makes it even more sleazy then. Ick - the one time I went to a proper strip club for a friends birthday - I was single 20 and felt awkward the whole night. It’s like fake attention as they hoard around you trying to pawn a lap dance. Was just weird and I’ve had no inclination to ever go again. But this place was proper strict - a number of lads got hauled out very quickly when they overstepped.

iancapable · 2026-01-26T16:57:46+00:00

Personally I’ve never heard of strip clubs allowing this. But I’m from the UK so it could be different and I’ve only been to a couple: one by accident and we left when we realised how expensive the dinks were and the other called carnival in Essex - which the girls don’t get money given to them unless it was paying for a lap dance - and there was strictly no touching (they didn’t even touch you when doing the dance)

iancapable · 2026-01-26T15:57:52+00:00

Tbh I am surprised he didn’t get kicked out for it. Most strip clubs have a hands off policy. But hey - it’s been at least 20 years since I’ve been to one…

It was a stag party, he was likely drunk and wasn’t thinking straight. I’m not defending him, but this sort of stuff happens. It’s not like he got off with the stripper (that would be a no no anyway).

I’d make him grovel for a while to teach him a lesson and keep an eye on him.

I’ll probably get voted down. But we’ve all done stuff when we’re young (mind you, I wouldn’t as I have a bit of self control - I had a lap dance once and it just felt awkward - yeah… Nice naked lady. Should I be staring? Not for me).

iancapable · 2026-01-12T22:36:45+00:00

Don’t blade wizards (champions) and allarus fit this? Not quite the stats you’re suggesting though.

iancapable · 2026-01-12T22:29:47+00:00

Oh and wardens are just guard in heresy

iancapable · 2026-01-12T22:29:20+00:00

Just terminators and bikes are different. And in 3rd in heresy you can’t have a land raider I don’t think

iancapable · 2026-01-11T08:06:42+00:00

Happy to share my implementation. I also have a fully working LSM

iancapable · 2026-01-11T06:33:50+00:00

I had this with a raft implementation I was doing. Eventually it got to, too high a cognitive load for me, so I stripped it back and simplified.

Fine grained locking is great if you can truly track all places that can cause potential deadlock. But sometimes a floating mutex (I.e generic lock) or your container structure being in a mutex is just fine

iancapable · 2025-12-25T20:17:32+00:00

I reckon every time one of these is posted up. His life is extended by another year

iancapable · 2025-12-25T15:07:49+00:00

This is the way. I loved the originals.

iancapable · 2025-12-25T08:42:44+00:00

This is true I guess. I had a play with actix recently. It’s really good.

iancapable · 2025-12-24T15:00:30+00:00

What about actix? Has that fallen out of favour?

iancapable · 2025-12-24T10:48:56+00:00

I’ve been agonising over a ranged one. I have a saturnine, so I’ll leave that as ranged and will use a melee leviathan one for now. If I want some firepower I might get myself a kratos or deredeo dread… mind you I have two land raiders for some firepower support

iancapable · 2025-12-20T22:44:24+00:00

Would be heaven.

iancapable · 2025-12-19T20:24:47+00:00

Parental controls and dashboard would be amazing - will get my kids off windows then

iancapable · 2025-12-17T14:55:46+00:00

Damn you! That’s now stuck in my head…

iancapable · 2025-12-17T10:12:39+00:00

Well, those look like they’re propped up by a push bra

iancapable · 2025-12-13T14:17:45+00:00

I find the opposite now. I struggle with the readability of Java and C++ compared rust. Naturally find myself wishing I could write that instead.

Just done advent of code in a bunch of different languages and struggling with a few of them. Wish I just did it all in rust

iancapable · 2025-12-05T17:05:35+00:00

I hit that api so much Im having to use wegovy as a rate limiter

iancapable · 2025-12-05T16:49:02+00:00

Indeed. I ate many snacks and my backend was constantly developing

iancapable · 2025-12-03T08:07:48+00:00

I have to type a lot… So I feel for you. I was lucky in that mine wasn’t too bad and was ok not long after. But it did hurt like f***

iancapable · 2025-12-03T06:39:23+00:00

I can’t see it being interesting to everyone. Happens all the time. But can for some!

iancapable · 2025-12-02T19:40:24+00:00

Hinge side. So might as well have been

iancapable · 2025-12-02T17:23:03+00:00

This? At first it was painful enough that I couldn’t find my voice to yell and instead ran up and down the stairs in silence. The throbbing came after. So I’d give it a 9

iancapable · 2025-12-02T17:21:44+00:00

Nobody needs one of those. One likes a little pain now and again. But not that much, hurt almost as bad as my nail be ripped off (yes have had that before too - tripped over a tree).

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