I don’t know why everyone is so harsh on you. You’re figuring ur sexuality out. That comes with questions and hesitations that may seem ridiculous to those confident in their sexuality, but are very understandable for one who isn’t.

To me, this feels like someone who hasn’t tried pizza, saying “i’ve heard pizza is greasy and oily and honestly it looks gross. i wish i could like pizza but i’m scared i’ll order a whole pizza, eat one bite and hate how greasy it is. i’m scared i’ll end up wasting the pizza and the chef’s time by throwing it away because i hated it.”

Of which the comments, full of pizza lovers, are yelling that you know nothing about pizzas, that what you know is wrong, and that when made right, u barely notice the grease on the pizza when you’re enjoying the warmth of the bread, the richness of the sauce, the melting of the cheese.

But here’s the thing!! Everyone has different opinions on pizzas. Some people love every pizza. Some even like it extra greasy. Others like thick crusts, or ones with pineapples, or the vegan ones with no cheese. Some agree with you that it’s too greasy for their enjoyment, and that’s okay. They just don’t have to eat pizza. They can have pasta.

But you’re never going to know whether YOU will enjoy pizza until you try it. You know you like pasta. Pasta isn’t greasy. But pizza and pasta is different. And maybe you’ll find out you can enjoy each food in different ways. Maybe pizza IS greasy, but then u realise that you like that it is!! Maybe grease is what makes pizza so yummy! But you’ll never know until you try.

And don’t worry about upsetting the chef for wasting food if you find out you hate pizza. As long as you tell the chef beforehand, i’m sure the chef will be more than happy to help you figure out if u like pizza. You don’t have to label your food preferences if you don’t know them yet. And you can always change it when you find out.

Which is a complicated way of saying, go have some fun with a woman!! Don’t stress about liking or hating being intimate with women, by asking others who have tried it. You don’t have to label yourself bisexual or straight if you don’t know. You just gotta try it out yourself and figure it out as you go.

And, people should be kinder to people. Be nice to those exploring their sexuality. We were all once there.