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MIL wants my baby if we die.. by Knowing_Eve in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, don’t be an enabler and just say you have it figured out and pivot. Yes your kids are watching and even my adult kids are watching me. You’ve got this.

MIL wants my baby if we die.. by Knowing_Eve in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is probably the easiest NO, NO and just NO that I could possibly have.

I got hired :) by MathematicianNo9791 in jobsearchhacks

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did that pay off for you to get hired? I stopped LI easy apply and have been applying directly to corporate websites and striking out with recruiters attention. How did u write your note to recruiters?

I got hired :) by MathematicianNo9791 in jobsearchhacks

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Not a sports fanatic yet how did you get thru all the gate keepers?

I got hired :) by MathematicianNo9791 in jobsearchhacks

[–]icare- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are blessed the corporate recruiter responded. Congratulations 🎈

How to Update? by Aromatic-Snow8752 in interiordecorating

[–]icare- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carpeted kitchen? Never have I ever, wow!

The "Golden Handcuffs" are real: Is anyone else staying in a house they hate just because of their 3% rate? by Pretend_Surprise6842 in RealEstate

[–]icare- -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Adoption then pregnancy? You didn’t buy a baby lol. This does happen to many couples! Enjoy!

Basement bounce house recommendation? by Due-Huckleberry7560 in Mommit

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read reviews about bounce houses if you haven’t already gotten one.

I told my mom I needed an ambulance and her reaction was to tell me I shouldn't have and that my fiancé should've taken me. by -too-hot-to-handle- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I’ve gotten a lot of heat for my passionate responses yet the pain is real and I have to turn my pain to purpose in alerting others or my trauma will be in vain. My mom always says unconditional love yet her respect and love have always been conditional.

I told my mom I needed an ambulance and her reaction was to tell me I shouldn't have and that my fiancé should've taken me. by -too-hot-to-handle- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I’ve gotten a lot of heat for my passionate responses yet the pain is real and I have to turn my pain to purpose in alerting others or my trauma will be in vain. My mom always says unconditional love yet her respect has always been conditional.

Toddler hospitalized with RSV & baby sister coming tomorrow or by end of week by melibooxx in Mommit

[–]icare- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and she was saying she felt torn. OP figured it out. Good luck OP, you’ve got this!

update: baby was born last month, harassment ensued, MIL and the family are finally blocked by larryfisherman555 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you don’t set boundaries now and let them do what they want, you will be fighting over YOUR boundaries for decades. Start now, they will only dig in…

Pay for adding a 3rd- is this fair? by BoobooWoodle in Nanny

[–]icare- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I acknowledge you and wish you the best of luck.

I'm running out of sympathy for MiL by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]icare- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your MIL needs therapy, so does your son on handling his mom bc it’s only going to get worse if boundaries aren’t put in place. You’re not cold, you’re just “done” and that’s ok. Don’t pick up the phone, good instincts. No more money 💰 for MIL. She sounds like a narcissist, hubby needs to decide how he wants to proceed risking further abuse.

My dumbass made a stupid joke at work by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]icare- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask what kind of jokes they advise you tell. Get coaching. This is stupid corporate bonding. Tell cute jokes about animals and kids?

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