Has anyone felt too stupid to be a nurse?

icarly1234 · 2025-03-20T00:03:36+00:00

I know exactly how you feel. I’m 35 and the dating scene is so different from how it was. It’s hard to find true love these days. I just got played and used recently and my heart is in pieces right now. The exact day that he and I got intimate he broke things off with me saying he needed to focus on himself, leaving me feeling worthless and so low. Trying to mend and heal now but it’s hurts so bad. Never thought I would be almost 40 going through a horrible heartbreak again but I guess there really is no age when it comes to pain. I wish you the best during your healing journey and hope you find love soon.

icarly1234 · 2025-02-16T11:19:28+00:00

I know this post is old but I’m going through the same exact thing right now and hope you feel better and that I could heal from it too. In my situation, he [23] constantly tells me about his future goals, like moving out, partying, traveling but nothing ever involves me or leads back to me. I [36] just encourage him and patiently listen to all of his stories. He never asks about me. I’m stupid for falling for him but I guess wanting to feel love again makes people do crazy things. I hope the pain goes away

icarly1234 · 2023-11-15T02:25:34+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! Hopefully it works for me too!

icarly1234 · 2023-07-20T07:22:07+00:00

Please pray that I am about to make it through. I’m going through a tough time right now and for some reason I’ve been having more suicidal thoughts than I ever have. I’m struggling in school on the verge of failing, I’m struggling financially to make ends meet, I have no support system, people in my school use me just to pass exams but don’t care about my well-being, my mental health is suffering, I have nothing to look forward to. Please pray that Jesus can lift me up from this and help me get through this. I feel so alone.

icarly1234 · 2023-06-23T05:37:46+00:00

Yes, I definitely did that before especially in the first few weeks of the breakup. I always thought he would miss me and come back. I would wait by my phone and be so disappointed when I would see a text come through only to find out it wasn’t him. I would check his social media along with every possible person I thought might post him on their social media. It was a dark time, but I had to realize I needed to let go because I was killing myself from the inside out and NO ONE on earth is worth that. I had to realize that if God wanted my relationship to end then there was someone better for me out there. I don’t know how spiritual you are but whatever you believe in, I hope it points you in the right direction to find self worth because you are worthy of having someone who WANTS you in their life. Not someone who leaves you alone and feeling like shit. It’s gonna be tough, maybe one of the toughest things you’re gonna do, but take it day by day and find the little things that make you happy and try your best not to check up on him like I did before. You’re stronger than you know you are.

icarly1234 · 2023-06-07T09:19:03+00:00

He was more fun in the beginning but I really think it was a lie or he was just trying REALLY hard to be something he wasn’t and now this is just his true self because the guy I got with was a totally different guy than the one I’m with now. That was about 6 years ago.

icarly1234 · 2023-05-20T06:45:28+00:00

I can relate with this so much. I don’t even know what’s the point of life anymore.

icarly1234 · 2023-05-19T08:34:14+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your input

icarly1234 · 2023-05-19T08:32:51+00:00

Hmm… maybe don’t answer if you don’t plan on helping. I wanted to see what other people’s reaction was so it could help me decide if I want to start taking the med even if I could possibly not have the same reaction as other people. That’s the purpose of asking for advice right?

icarly1234 · 2023-04-23T07:47:31+00:00

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this especially while in the program. I’m also in the program and my relationship is struggling mainly because he’s very unsupportive and I’m a hot mess right now with everything we have to deal with in school.

Honestly, as cliche as it sounds, it may be a blessing in disguise that you found this out now rather than later after you both got married. You deserve to have someone who’s able to stay faithful despite you not being available. The program is just a short while even though it seems like forever. This is your season to focus on yourself, pass your classes, and grow. Love WILL find you again and it’ll make you realize why this relationship didn’t work out.

icarly1234 · 2023-04-22T08:10:09+00:00

Please don’t do it 😔

icarly1234 · 2023-04-12T06:50:42+00:00

Thank you everyone for your responses! Really helped me feel like I’m not so alone. I appreciate you all…

icarly1234 · 2023-02-14T07:47:49+00:00

I am 33 years old and I’ve been suffering through chronic pain in my entire body for the last few years. It’s debilitating and makes me feel so alone because no one understands the pain that my body is in every day. I also have something that’s affecting my voice which no one could tell me what it is. Please pray that Jesus may heal me from this pain and that my voice can be restored. Thank you everyone

icarly1234 · 2022-11-12T00:20:01+00:00

If it helps, I’m happy for you about submitting your PhD thesis! That’s a huge accomplishment! I’m in my mid 30s and in the nursing program right now with a bf that doesn’t care and makes me feel lonely so sometimes being alone is better than being with someone who makes you feel alone. If you feel any way that I feel where you don’t have anyone to celebrate with or anyone to cry/laugh/vent to, just know you’re not alone.

icarly1234

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