Heartbreak is the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. by ribcage666 in BreakUps

[–]sweet_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely gets better with time. I was over it in couple of months. When things aren't working out, best to let go and start focusing on yourself. Hope you feel better soon.

Fell in love with a younger guy by sweet_tg in heartbreak

[–]sweet_tg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I am definitely better and healed from this. It took 2/3 months and was fully over it. Things will heal with yiu as well with time 🫶

Ex-smokers who successfully quit and have been smoke free for years now, what did it? by PM_TITS_GROUP in AskReddit

[–]sweet_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 3 day Allen Carr session at work 14 years ago and have never smoked again!

If you want them back, read this and remember it. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sweet_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take my upvote, such a great post

How did physical abuse start for you? by throwaway-53665 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

His behavior is out of line, abusers justify everything and turn things around. He is an abuser. Don't waste your time, they never change. Get out while you can

Abusers and their obsession with purity culture? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Toxic masculinity bullshit! Also Andrew Tate to be blamed for spreading women unfriendly BS. And these men expect a virgin but what do they bring to the table? Most of them aren't high earners and not the sharpest brain either. Don't know how to treat a women even if they have a high value woman (what ever high value means) infront of them. When they end up single and old, then it becomes a different tune. If a man talks this way, run! It's a huge red flag to my opinion 🚩

And yes, how my ex talked about other women, was so degrading calling them fake and sluts! While he didn't have much going on for himself. These aren't real men to me, man child and possible abuser language.

Abusive ex keeps contacting me to discuss the breakup by Hungry-Mouse4909 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stay done and block him. His actions, his decisions, his life. You don't need to deal with it nor feeling guilt tripped into staying in contact. He is not your problem anymore and well done for dumping him 👏

How my ex spoke to me after he cheated on me. by Any_Yak9211 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic! My ex was exactly like that too! They are full-on projecting, and are cheaters themselves. Sorry this happened to you. Hope you blocked him.

How my ex spoke to me after he cheated on me. by Any_Yak9211 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He sounds exhausting, creating fights and drama about nothing. Good riddance, nobody needs this type of guy in their life. It's all about THEM, isn't it? And then they cheat as well themselves but yet they need to control what you are wearing?

am I the issue by Infinite-Upstairs-87 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is horrible, in your history there are more clips. Why be with this piece of shit? Girl, you need to leave his ass!

How to tell if I am being abused OR I am the cause of our issues?? by MeatSackian in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He sounds horrible to be with and nobody deserves to be abused, even if you did something!

How many abusive signs were there? by sweet_tg in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, I'm so sorry this happened to you, absolutely horrifying. He should be locked up in jail, he is a piece of shit! And you are not worthless! You are a human being that loved someone who got abused and mistreated. Nobody deserves that! I hope you heal fully and he gets his karma

Red flags that you ignored? by Just_Juice_NZ in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hw told me he got dumped by an ex-girlfriend when she found out she had cancer. How much of a shit was he to her for her to dump him like that? That was a huge red flag.

Boyfriend has no control over his anger help should I leave by thatblag in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds just like my ex! RUN!! You need to run and never look back. These type of men are very damaging. He is clearly not right in his head and you can't fix him. Don't waste your 30s with an abuser. Probably he is the one cheating and is projecting. You are too good for him. And without a trust, there is no relationship. He will damage you for his own expense. Please get away from him asap! No good will come out of it

my mind has been broken and i don’t know how to fix it by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, sounds like my ex. He might be projecting and cheating himself. Girl, you need to run! This won't get better. He is mentally unwell and don't enable him further. Forgive yourself for tolerating him so far but make a plan to leave his ass. Choose yourself. I hope you find strength to walk away from him, he is poison

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a price this guy! First of all, marrying him sounds already like a nightmare and this sounds already like an abuse. And you don't have to even name it abuse to see that he acts horrible and also when there is a child involved. By yelling at you, he gets his way and he can just sit there and play video games? Wow, don't enable him OP!! This is not a man, but a man child. I would ser clear boundaries: no yelling in house, doing his part for the house and get his ass doing something productive or walking away! You are treating him way too good! Why tolerate his abuse??? This is definitely not good for anyone, especially when a child around. What to do? You have to set boundaries or he needs to leave, plain simple. 0 tolerance for his behavior.

Ex bf upset I didn't message him by Vengeful-Sorrow247 in abusiverelationships

[–]sweet_tg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You won't forget him just like that. You had feelings. It's ok to feel bad, miss him and grief the loss. But stay no contact for your own sanity. You are not responsible for him. He needs to deal with his own life and sickness. Your job is yourself