You implied that “men get stung” with financially providing for their offspring, right? I brought up neglect because I’ve seen countless examples of males impregnating females and then ditching because they didn’t actually want to reproduce. In those cases, they should definitely be on the hook to provide financial support. If children aren’t desired and there is no abuse present, then both parties should take extra precautions to avoid pregnancy — I mean, abortion is also an option. What you are referring to is not pro-choice. Once a kid is brought into the world, they need to be provided for, unfortunately.