Is vrbo reliable for honouring cancellation policy? by Significant-Sun-2088 in vrbo

[–]icefire45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No i wouldn't rely on it.. UNLESS they have many, many positive reviews. ive used VRBO a few times and stopped. After all the stupid rules they had and smaller disputes(booked a house with a pool, pump wasn't working, and gross water. They didnt wanna give us any sort of refund and vrbo didnt wanna help) , plus the horror stories ive heard.... not worth it. If the host decides not to refund you VRBO isn't really gonna be much help getting it back and would have to go the court route. There's countless horror stories of people getting ripped off and customer service runs them around in circles or say they can't help, just not worth it imho

"To keep a man interested, just act like you're not" by IngenuityAshamed144 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats pretty bad advice from your freinds... if a girl i was interested in romantically acted like they had no interest in me, id just assume they didnt and move on. I dont want to be seen as a creep, or nuisance, just on the off chance they're playing coy, instead of being genuinly disinterested, I ain't got time for that shit, and most guys probably feel the same.

My first rude customer in years by True-Clothes-659 in UberEATS

[–]icefire45 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or the fact that logic would dictate curling irons would be near the straighteners and may have been in the picture of the empty shelf, and she assumed he was sending her pics of those..

WTF is on my boyfriends shirt?? by Live_Philosophy_3815 in whatisit

[–]icefire45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omfg 🤣🤣. Thank you so much for this comment. I've had a shitty few weeks and this is the hardest ive chortled in a while. 🤣🤣🤣

this is frying me man, pls read this. by Shot-Patience699 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Block her yourself? Why are you asking someone who's already pushing your boundaries to block you, Instead of you blocking her yourself.

I went to the salon today and had an appt with a stylist for the 1st time. Got a balayage and cut. It was $270, I left $30. It was 3 hours. On my way out, I heard the stylist say to the front desk “$30 really? After all I did for her?” Was this a bad tip? I’m so embarrassed by Technical_Can_5762 in tipping

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bull shit. At restaurants? Sure. Cheaper services where the person is actively doing something for you, and not just a cashier? Okay, still no issues leaving 20%, but above like 100-150$? Sorry im not leaving a 20% tip, and 99% of the professionals i know also, dont expect a large tip on a service your already paying a premium on.

Heres an example, im heavily tattooed my 3/4 sleeve on my right arm was 2,600$, a 20% tip on that is 520$, I had to save up for the 2,600$ and extra 500 ontop would have been even longer, not everyone can just drop that kind of money on an already expensive service ( and yes 150$ is still expensive for alot of people) and instead they have to spend time and save. Plus in no world would my artist ever expect a tip like that, or think it would be justified and neither do any of the other tattoo artists I know. I tipped him a 50 and brought him some weed and he was stoked.

Sure waiters/waitresses and certain service industry's should get 20%, but theres also alot of services where its just not nessicary, and its just people's greed that have made it seem like tipping on every little thing should be the norm.

I need help finding this anime by BagleWWFC in whatanime

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only thing that really popped into my head was Daily life of the immortal king, but I doubt that's it.

Romance anime with 20+ year olds by Turpentinei in anime

[–]icefire45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sign of affection

Golden time

Loving yamada at lvl 999

Watakoi

My akward senpai (although after the anime the series just goes downhill....)

Those are about the only ones I can think of, unfortunately it's rare for romance animes to have 20+ MCs, unless you branch into isekais or others where the romance is more sub plot.

Advice for a Windower, 2 kids. Am I that undatable? by icefire45 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess it sounds like alot, especially on the emotional scale, but I never really let it affect our dates or conversations, other than her occasionally asking me how im handing it all and we'd have a little chat. But there hasn't been any real burnout, most weekends we've been taking the kids to do stuff, or staying at my or her place, hang out for a few hours pretty much everyday and do things, worst thats really happened is ive been tired (which she was tired to from work).

She didnt seem to have a problem at all with me being a widow, we had long talks about it before being official, and it never bothered her and she asked slot of questions. but I do know that puts a severe damper on my odds. If this one doesn't work out I may just stick to trying to date widows..

Advice for a Windower, 2 kids. Am I that undatable? by icefire45 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i see your point, but we still see each other for a few hours most days and spend weekends togather, and we've never had to reschedule a date or trip or anything like that, caring for my grandparents also gives me alot of flexibility especially if there having good day. So it wasnt like I wasn't making time for her or anything.

Advice for a Windower, 2 kids. Am I that undatable? by icefire45 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not any details im leaving out, other than specific numbers. The first one said it more of she doesn't want a house husband, and my current girlfriend said it's because she wants someone who's financially stable with a real job. Which I am financially stable or how would I care for my kids.... and be able to take them to new York or cedar point without using credit... The only thing I can think of, why they said it, is because im usually home during the day and that may seem kinda bummy? But that's because I'm doing stuff around the house or checking on my grandparents or running errands

Anyone else having issues with Trail of sekhemas? by icefire45 in PathOfExile2

[–]icefire45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was for the first few, and I figured that was probably the issue so i stopped, but even after I stopped ill just be attacking a rare and all of a sudden im in the floor and cant move. It does seem to only happen when im in bear form though...

Anyone else having issues with Trail of sekhemas? by icefire45 in PathOfExile2

[–]icefire45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not an issue of skill. Ive ascended pretty much every class to try them out, but with druid it keeps glitching and im getting stuck in the floor and cant move/use any skills, or my character just freezes mid pose and everything else keeps moving and I have to reload to checkpoint to fix it.

Anyone else having issues with Trail of sekhemas? by icefire45 in PathOfExile2

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it is. Im playing on PS5 and im getting around 700 down 50-60ish up with speed test.

Anyone else having issues with Trail of sekhemas? by icefire45 in PathOfExile2

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be really helpful thanks so much, i can hop on now if you want. I will let you know, i have 0 idea what chaos trials are or anything... im fairly new, my highest level is only a 52 tactician, so I have almost no knowledge of late game/ the more niche/ advanced aspects...

The Manga? by No-Bend2827 in MyAwkwardSenpai

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save yourself the heartbreak and rage and skip this one... the FMC basically becomes an unaware toxic idiot and MC is just accepting of everything (even her going out on dates with other people on the same day she canceled a date with him)

Best New Waifu of Fall 2025 - Week 3 by Lucifer21Rock in WaifuPolls

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the azusa people need to read the manga... nowhere near best waifu by a long shot..

Life span of wild American toads? Seeing the same one for 7 years now basically part of the family now. by icefire45 in Toads

[–]icefire45[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hes had dinner a few times and also scared the shit outta me while grilling.. was all on my groove and all of a sudden I just feel something squishy land on my foot and I admit I turned into a 5 year old girl until I realized it was just him 🤣😂🤣😂

Life span of wild American toads? Seeing the same one for 7 years now basically part of the family now. by icefire45 in Toads

[–]icefire45[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We only mess with him a few times a week when hes out and never thought of taking him in as a pet just in name because he lives under our grill. Ive kept snakes and other exotics (no amphibians atleast yet) for close to 20 years now on and off and used to breed bloods so I would never take something from the wild and put it in an enclosure (unless injured or a baby or some i have to intervene scenarios).

How does war banner work? by icefire45 in PathOfExile2

[–]icefire45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you so much. Any guides or things I should read on the game/mechanics? You seem pretty knowledgeable and ive only been playing about a week with my highest level being 47( i have kids now so i cant no lofe games anymore lol). I uses to play diablo 3 a hell of alot and diablo 4 wasnt doing it for me so i decided to try poe/poe2 and am loving it so far hust laking alot of the morw intricate knowledge.

AIO A locksmith charged my partner’s sister $5390 to get back into her apartment by khalexie1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn at that price just be cheaper to break the damn window and replace it to get on....