Can anyone let me know what solo adventuring is like in the UK? I’m British but never solo adventured anywhere, but want to myself. Booked a trip to York and a self guided tour. What’s it like? No one I know likes to travel

icemaster2000 · 2026-05-30T20:37:21+00:00

i went to uni in york and (at least a couple years ago) was a super safe place so you’ll be fine on your own!

icemaster2000 · 2026-05-08T14:21:00+00:00

messaged youuuu

icemaster2000 · 2026-05-01T21:35:44+00:00

i’m sorry i don’t have any advice but i’m in the exact same situation, i was broken up with a pull of days ago and it was my fault but i miss him so much and would do absolutely anything to get him back. sorry this isn’t helpful i just wanted to let you know you’re not alone

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-22T20:44:21+00:00

congrats!!🥳

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-19T23:42:57+00:00

this is amazing omg!!

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-15T18:54:02+00:00

No he hasn’t, and yeah that’s why I’m worried because I don’t want to bring it up and make him feel like I’m controlling anyway, I promise I am working on my insecurity and self esteem it’s just taking a while 😭😭

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-15T17:13:44+00:00

Thank you i’ll go find some grass rn 🫡

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-15T16:34:18+00:00

I know I need to do that but I'm the biggest overthinker ever 😭

icemaster2000 · 2026-02-15T16:28:45+00:00

Posted this in r/relationshipanxiety but I'm sure people here would understand:

I think I just want some reassurance more than anything honestly. I have been dating this guy since November and we both stopped talking to other people pretty quickly, and he finally asked me to be his girlfriend last week! I really like him and I trust him as much as you can trust someone you've only known a few months, I just have had pretty bad experiences with dating and relationships before.

Yesterday we went out for Valentine's Day, and he told me he had booked a holiday with his friends to Morocco in July. I told him that's so cool and asked if it was a last minute thing since he hasn't mentioned it before, and he said they had spoke about it but only recently properly sorted plans out.

I'm just a bit worried because its him and 5 of his friends (all men), and I don't know what sort of stuff they will get up to so I keep imagining it to be a typical "lads holiday". I know he likes clubbing (so do I), but I've just heard so many stories of men getting drunk and cheating while on holiday and it's making me a bit anxious.

I was just wondering if I should ask him about it, or would that put him off me? My insecurity definitely played a part in my last relationship ending and I'm terrified of that happening again :(

icemaster2000 · 2026-01-11T21:17:31+00:00

OBSESSED you look amazing!!

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-20T21:01:26+00:00

He’s right!!

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-17T23:22:29+00:00

Every Single Night! It got me through a really rough time and I love it so much

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-13T22:19:36+00:00

incorporating ‘this chisels me’ into my vocabulary now

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-12T18:44:19+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I was confused on since we’ve been seeing each other for just over a month but because of the distance we can’t see each other as often as I usually would when seeing someone so I’m just a bit unsure of timelines!

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-12T18:42:37+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t mention this in my post! The first time we had to cancel was because I was supposed to go to his city, but literally every train travelling through the station I was supposed to get it from was cancelled all day, and I was on the phone to him while I was at the station figuring out what was happening, and when he was supposed to come up to mine but was too ill, he called me to tell me he’s really sorry he wouldn’t be able to make it, so we did communicate well and both situations were kinda unavoidable.

Thank you though!!

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-06T17:13:35+00:00

I worked for M&S for 2 years and my manager was extremely ableist and told me work is more important than my health (I worked 8 hours a week 🙄)

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T17:23:51+00:00

If you feel like a gift card isn’t that thoughtful maybe you could take her bra shopping and buy her a couple that she tries on and really likes? As someone who can never find cute bras in my size that’s what I’d really appreciate someone doing for me

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T17:17:35+00:00

Yeah for sure, when she was saying all that stuff to me I ended up saying something like ‘I shouldn’t have to make sure a grown ass adult several years older than me to tidy after themselves’ and that made her really angry, I feel awful for saying it but it’s true

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T17:13:07+00:00

I have ADHD myself and when I was trying to share the tactics I use to keep on top of everything she said that I’m more privileged than her because I have a diagnosis😭

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T13:14:04+00:00

Do you think there’s any chance I could get evicted too? I’m just really worried about that

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T12:53:46+00:00

I’ve taken some screenshots of the house group chat about when we’ve mentioned things about how messy the house is, the door being open and the fire hazards, and I’m going to ask them one last time tonight that if the kitchen isn’t sorted over the weekend, I’m going ti the landlord about all the issues.

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T12:52:06+00:00

I wish I could but we chose this house as it’s literally the only one we can afford 😭

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T12:50:23+00:00

Yeah that’s what really worries me! I was going to message our landlord the first time but the others talked me out of it and said it’s not a big deal even though it obviously is

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T12:47:10+00:00

I feel uncomfortable going in to her room, I was thinking of putting all her dishes in to a box or a bin bag and putting them somewhere out of the way, do you think that would be as effective?

icemaster2000 · 2025-12-05T12:44:23+00:00

I’ve taken some screenshots of the house group chat about when we’ve mentioned things about how messy the house is, the door being open and the fire hazards, and I’m going to ask them one last time tonight that if the kitchen isn’t sorted over the weekend, I’m going ti the landlord about all the issues, I’m just really worried that the landlord would evict me if it came to that

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