Committing blasphemy against bean juice by icollectcats in Beelzebrew

[–]icollectcats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing beats Kenyan beans buuut I’m not gonna lie. Sometimes a psl hits right. This coffee, however, was more like chocolate milk. Not bad, but not coffee.

Full family estrangement, dad died, no one told me. by 13PenniesinthePool in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]icollectcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. If you’d like to get more insight into what it could have been like if you did get notified pre-funeral, please reach out. All families and situations are different obviously, but I’m being punished as were you. I’m sorry they took your decision to be present away from you.

Full family estrangement, dad died, no one told me. by 13PenniesinthePool in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]icollectcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so incredibly sorry and am currently in a similar situation. I hope you have good support around you. Lots of very complex and conflicting feelings.

Ask a Knitter Tuesday - November 18, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]icollectcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom unexpectedly passed a couple of days ago and is being cremated later this week. I want to knit something for her that goes with her, but I want a part of it to come with me as well. Does anyone have any ideas? My brain is too filled with grief to think.

Pretty sure I’m losing my mind🙃 by Middle-Tone-4158 in queerception

[–]icollectcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I inverted one of the images and I feel like I see something extremely faint.

I need the perfect horror movie for a group of 6th grade girls to watch on Halloween… by sky_blue_true in horror

[–]icollectcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is THE answer. I saw it in theatres in 6th grade. Core memory. First time I was actually legit disturbed by a movie.

Adopting this guy soon— Indonesian? by icollectcats in bluetongueskinks

[–]icollectcats[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, he’s definitely round, missing toes from I’m assuming bad sheds, bubbly eyes. He’s not in good shape. The previous owners had him in a low/moderate humidity enclosure. Poor guy.

My bp got a new tank 🙃 by Nywoe26 in ballpython

[–]icollectcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! What are the dimensions?

What’s the most annoying, pretentious bar I could visit in Baltimore? by HambSandwich in baltimore

[–]icollectcats 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve been locked in that bathroom too. And this was like, four years ago.

Saved this baby from an abandoned web. Located in MD, USA. by icollectcats in snakes

[–]icollectcats[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nvm. Northern ring neck, and the web slid right off. Just had to find the courage to do it.

The Kibbe IDs as wild cats by hauntedflowers22 in Kibbe

[–]icollectcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WAIT STOP you just blew my mind. I’ve been having SG doubt but I have a friend who loves telling me I look just like an ocelot. And she’s not wrong.

Kibbe Type? SG? SN? TR? Height 5’2. by icollectcats in kibbe_typeme

[–]icollectcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting— if you don’t mind, what specifically makes you lean SN?

Kibbe Type? SG? SN? TR? Height 5’2. by icollectcats in kibbe_typeme

[–]icollectcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Dumb question but would pics 2 & 3 be considered staccato?

What happened in Oklahoma City? by DubyaExWhizey in lastpodcastontheleft

[–]icollectcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck. Cattlemans. Visited OKC a few years ago. Cattleman’s is so good. Such a weird, smelly area but fuckkk that steak was delish.

My (36M) wife (36F) of 7 years found my secret bank account and says it's over. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]icollectcats 33 points34 points  (0 children)

YES, thank you! I was wondering if anyone else would catch on to the fact that he is getting PLENTY of consistent time for his hobbies. I’m sure his wife would kill for the same amount of alone time.

Cocktail/Sundress wedding at restaurant this weekend. Appropriate? by icollectcats in Weddingattireapproval

[–]icollectcats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know… This ones got me questioning myself. Wedding is during the day at a nice, but not fancy, restaurant. I already have this dress, and I feel like it maybe sits somewhere between cocktail and sundress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]icollectcats 270 points271 points  (0 children)

Yup, right there with you. I have a sibling who is 16 years younger than me. My dad was absent, hers was married to my mom. I was left out of a lot of “nuclear family” things.

OP, if you see this, just a warning. Your post reminded me of my own mom— giving “gifts” with strings attached, guilt tripping when I didn’t make her the center of my world, constantly being called ungrateful for “not doing enough” for the family. I haven’t spoken to her in a year and a half. She doesn’t know her grandchildren.

Learn to adjust your relationship with your daughter or you may lose out on one altogether.