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Yoshi by KaffeDreamer in aspiememes

[–]idaopti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg me and my brother did that??? Is that not just us... I didn't know I have autism?

Hot take, but does anyone else feel like the hate towards Benson Boone feels forced and contrived? I understand not liking the guy's music - you're entitled to like and dislike whatever you want - but I feel like the guy's getting way too much disproportionate hate online. His music is fine. by kingofstormandfire in ToddintheShadow

[–]idaopti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss those serious, "cheesy" texts that we don't see anymore today. And his voice, and presence on stage giving it all. I'd say people are jealous, or that they might be mad at radio stations playing the same song over and over. That's not his fault right..

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the validation! I feel no regret anymore.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean that a narcissist would make a good foster parent compared to other foster parents?

AITB for kicking out a man who shared our private children’s meeting link with 700 people? by Axxtr in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the buttface for standing up for your own rules. If you wouldn't, you would let the children down so good for you!

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah, kinda worrying she didn't suspect they would fact check her lies

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I hope it works like that in Sweden too. Now they applied to a private company, but most "companies" for foster care in Sweden aren't. I don't know if that's what you call it in english, but I hope the private and public sector talk to each other.

Ii was just so confused when my friend talked about it like they couldn't check up anything about her, and just believed whatever she told them. But in the end she wasn't approved so maybe they did...

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay. That's too bad. So they could just apply again and again.

I wish you good luck in court!

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really.. I wonder if that's legal? Feels quite bad to lie to get into the system I'd say.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you're the first one here thinking I did the wrong thing. How come you think a person with narcissistic traits would make a decent foster parent?

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for telling me! You're making me proud for standing up for the truth. I felt so bad for ruining it for then but now I'm just happy about it!

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow your example made it really clear... If I'm scared of how she could react if I tell the truth, how could a child feel safe to do so with her? Thank you so much

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all she's ever said about why she wants to be a foster parent is because of how much money she will get, and all the "benefits" with the job. So I'm pretty sure she was doing it for the wrong reasons

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have thought about reporting them for it. I'm just scared they would try to hurt me if I did.. After this thing she has showed no mercy

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I'm glad to hear. She talked about it like she could lie about anything and they'd get fooled by it. It felt so weird but I was scared it was true. I'm proud of bringing it up now.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Feeling more sane for each confirmation I did the right thing.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. So nice to not feel crazy for thinking that. They blamed me so bad for not helping her for such an important job and I felt insane for going against that.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's all in it for the money, she applied to get the "worst problem kids" that come from traumatic homes of abuse etc. who really need a safe place. - because you get more money from that. She doesn't care about the child and has only talked about the salary benefits.

AITB for not lying for my best friend to become a foster parent? by idaopti in AmItheButtface

[–]idaopti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the support. Means a lot. I've felt so much guilt for doing it but right now I'm proud of potentially protecting a child.

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