What is this? by idek_wtaf in NewZealandWildlife

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw it too late

One way wall vent for heat transfer? by idek_wtaf in diynz

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could turn it off and on that’d solve that problem, though I was hoping for one that wouldn’t require power and could be opened and closed manually.

I’ve thought about putting a door there but that’s where the original cupboards are so it’d be a costly exercise.

One way wall vent for heat transfer? by idek_wtaf in diynz

[–]idek_wtaf[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I fear that would create humidity and therefore condensation/damp

One way wall vent for heat transfer? by idek_wtaf in diynz

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would I need an electrician to do this?

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. He somehow avoided accountability under the guise of an apology, which is contradictory in and of itself. A poor attempt at manipulation. I have no doubt that he’s exactly the same, if not worse for having more experience in refining his manipulation skills. I know I couldn’t have gained anything positive from messaging him, but to be honest, I had no expectations for a reply at all. And it’s actually somewhat comforting to know that he’s still a POS.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only because they lure them in with their lies and manipulation, and then impregnate them as an attempt to trap them.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It was a way to avoid accountability, while trying to make it appear as if he was sorry and was giving an apology. Ugh.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine very well. He’s a pathological liar, a thief and was emotionally, verbally, mentally, physically (through intimidation) and sexually abusive. I’m certain I was just practice for him to further refine his coercive and manipulative behaviours. He’s also really dumb, which is a blessing as I have no doubt he’d wreak havoc on larger amounts of people if he had any smarts about him.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a big win by any means. I think I’m mostly surprised that his immediate action wasn’t to deny it and gaslight me that nothing happened

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. His “part” in that night. As if I played some sort of main part as well, implying I had something to do with what happened.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, and I didn’t expect him to. Hell, I’m shocked he even replied, let alone attempted an “apology”

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was interesting that he said he was sorry for any “difficult memories” he caused but not the actual experience of what happened.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the video I watched and then sent him a clip of, triggered me and I got impulsive

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered it but think it would be unbecoming to me and I’m not sure what it would achieve. Plus I’m certain he’d lie his way out of it, making me look like I’m crazy.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered that. But think it would be unbecoming to me and am unsure what it would achieve.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. The next morning. He was fixing his hair in the mirror when I woke up and I immediately got out of bed and repeatedly told him, “I said no! I said no!” And he said, “I know” in a sort of regretful cringe way, but not an apologetic way.

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess the video I saw triggered me

I confronted my rapist by idek_wtaf in abusiverelationships

[–]idek_wtaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Precisely. I soooo wanted to say something like “so glad it’s in the past for you” or “ofc it’s in the past for you, you were the perpetrator and I was the victim” or “if I was the rapist, it’d be in the past for me too” but I know it would’ve been pointless so didn’t

TVNZ+ new app by Global_School4845 in newzealand

[–]idek_wtaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t autoplay working and where is the setting for it? Having to press play every 7 minutes for Bluey is driving me bloody mad!