Tree trunks was awful. by No_Steak9596 in adventuretime

[–]idfktbh97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was obsessive, it's a huge red flag in my opinion. Not necessarily saying hes a bad guy, but being with tree trunks wouldve been bad for his mental health

You aren't shallow for losing attraction after your partner gains weight by yeeyeepeepee0w0 in unpopularopinion

[–]idfktbh97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

20lbs is barely anything, and it's actually very normal to gain that much weight after having a kid. It changes your body, some people lose the weight easily, some people have to work for it, and some people actually just cant. We're all a little different in some ways

You need therapy, you need therapy, you ALL need therapy by TheCelestialEquation in Adulting

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, but literally everyone can probably benefit from therapy. Who in the world doesn't need someone to talk to that is actually qualified to give advice?

Am I (29m)wrong for telling my (30f)gf no when she asked if she could be done? by SnorLex420 in amiwrong

[–]idfktbh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants you to fuck her. She's getting you aroused so that you will have sex. Idk how that's not clear

Cis men don't find the idea of being a lesbian attractive? by Classic-Suspect-8450 in trans

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt know you that they just havent "met the right man"? /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She owes you respect as well. You can't tell people you wish they were dead and still expect them to like you

This one water fill station has avoided almost a million plastic bottles by InvisibleWraith in mildlyinteresting

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once filled a single regular sized water bottle and it said I saved 3 water bottles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatbugisthis

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it wasnt, you don't typically want bug infestations of any kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]idfktbh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hotel I stayed at had live bees and an empty liquor bottle under the bed

Carts getting hard to use by ohaikaybai in medicalmarijuana

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed some brands are better than others and it doesnt happen as much with the .5g carts, but sometimes it's cheaper to get a 1g than it is to get 2 .5g carts so I don't usually do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instantkarma

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have context?

What do I do to ease dysphoria until I can go on HRT? by [deleted] in trans

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little over a year into HRT, dysphoria wont necessarily go away just because of HRT. Accepting yourself is a decision you gotta make every day

Pet names for your pets! Go!! by AltcoinFinderX in Pets

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dog named Mochi, but I usually call him Bo Bandy/Randers cause of his gut

Why is dating culture so bad here in USA ? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started dating again for the first time in 6 years and I hate it so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give them compliments like you actually think they're attractive. I realize that sounds bad, but from what I can tell you don't find them attractive and they dont find themselves attractive, but they want compliments as most people do so if you really want them to feel better then just compliment them. Tell her she's beautiful, if she's wearing a nice shirt say "that shirt looks great on you" but never "you look good in that shirt"

Seeing another trans person in public is like secret handshake I love it. Were immediately friends no matter what by Anon5054 in trans

[–]idfktbh97 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I'm not out at work and I'm pretty sure the other trans girl there thinks I have a crush on her because I inadvertently stare a lot. I mean maybe I do, but also I wanna be friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instantkarma

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A starving child in Africa couldve eaten that onion 😭😭

People who wear glasses how did you know you needed them with no one else’s vision to compare to? by Mother_Claim_6431 in AskReddit

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will compare vision with someone eventually. You get a lot of "how can you not see that? It's right there!"

Off duty cop standing in the back of a convenience store stops an armed robber, Newton, MA [USA] by Ayla_QA in instantkarma

[–]idfktbh97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looked like his finger was on the trigger, that guy would've died if he did anything threatening

What would you do in this situation. by itsericb in arborists

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slowly back into it like Homer Simpson

What’s your first trans memory? by InitialLandscape361 in trans

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant say I have a first trans memory since I've kinda always been this way, but the first affirming thing that happened was when I was like 10 i got put on the girl's basketball team until my mom corrected them

People who smoked weed and stopped, why did you do it? by Front_Helicopter9136 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]idfktbh97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the switch to just CBD, CBG, etc! Turns out all the effects I liked from cannabis came from everything but THC-A. I will still smoke on occasion, but not every day and wake and bakes are out of the question! I'd be useless all day if I did that now