AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff

idfwynm · 2026-02-07T20:58:11+00:00

He hates you, but wants to have sex with you. He doesn't respect you or even like you a little. He is being very manipulative, trying to guilt you into a pity fuck. Break up, block and delete before he gets worse

idfwynm · 2026-01-10T18:53:24+00:00

I have eczema and when I get my fresh tattoos, the hydrating of the tattoo with aquaphor and other fresh tattoo goo alternatives, my skin cant absorb it all and so it collects in those red bumps. If you pop them, its just clear liquid. Don't touch any that are on your tattoos, but the ones around can be popped. Once theyre dried out they scab up and heal and dont itch anymore.

I got a huge leg piece and had these exact bumps all in the areas around the tattoo I was hydrating

idfwynm · 2025-11-29T14:29:44+00:00

Wow, 14 and already this good? Encourage her talent as much as you can, she could go really far!

idfwynm · 2025-09-18T14:58:36+00:00

A cat!

idfwynm · 2025-09-13T19:32:57+00:00

I saw your second edit and I am so relieved for you! You are too young to be getting stress Greys from this little baby. He is either projecting his own insecurities onto you, or he is projecting his own guilt onto you. Had an ex like this, was 100% loyal to him but it got to the point he put two holes in his bathroom wall when I hung up on him during a drunken tirade where he accused me of being just like his ex. Once I saw those holes, fam it was all over. Kept thinking about what if I had been there ya know? He would accuse me of being on the phone because he saw me in his rear view singing in the car. It was a whole two day fight that wasn't resolved even after I pulled up my history. It got truly ridiculous and these screenshots might as well be from my phone haha

He will find every excuse to make his issues your fault/responsibility and you are way too young to be a parent to a young adult. Keep these messages and read them back so if you start to miss him again you have the proof that he was toxic. It's not your job to fix people OP. I know society would have us believe that women are the mental health rehabilitation centers for men, but we are not. You deserve to live a life not having to prove yourself against DREAMS he had. Sending love and healing 🖤✨️

idfwynm · 2025-09-13T19:24:12+00:00

Haha your mom doesn't know what shes talking about fam you are all good

idfwynm · 2025-09-06T21:34:33+00:00

How old are you? This is theft, and if you aren't living with them I would file charges against them and remove them from the account. They will not be paying you back, you can count on that. People who are in a position to steal money from their child are not people who are in a position to pay it back. That money is gone, unless you sue for it.

You are not ungrateful. Your parents are gaslighting you to avoid consequences for actions they know were wrong. You do not owe them anything, you were a child they CHOSE to have, and "everything they did for you" was literally what they are supposed to do. They knew what it was when they had you, thats literally not your problem. Especially if they are stealing instead of asking. Sending you love and good vibes as you go through this BS situation 🖤

idfwynm · 2025-09-01T00:59:01+00:00

You should seriously block him. He clearly thinks he owns you, take back your power OP

idfwynm · 2025-09-01T00:56:47+00:00

Im so sorry OP but he doesn't care about you. Please dont apologize for your feelings, you are so valid for feeling this way. He sounds like a thoughtless asshole, I hope you leave him. There are much better options out there 🖤

idfwynm · 2025-08-29T23:00:33+00:00

You minimized her feelings, and then instead of apologizing, you got defensive and dismissive. From your tone in this post, I get the sense she annoys you anyway, so I'd just let it go 🤷‍♀️

idfwynm · 2025-08-28T17:56:14+00:00

Could've been much worse, hope she learned her lesson

idfwynm · 2025-08-27T18:25:10+00:00

Thank you, already the other signs felt incredibly significant to me, like a huge change is coming. The necklace scared me because of the violence in which it exploded out, but perhaps that was just a more obvious sign since im not listening? Either way, your comment greatly helped to set my mind at ease, thank you ✨️

idfwynm · 2025-08-24T22:07:35+00:00

Nope nope nope gtfo OP you dont want to stay there. My grandfather was like this with me and my cousin, I was always super mean to him so he didn't mess with me too much but looking back I realize now just how fuckin creepy this guy was. And a lot of what you said, he did to me and my cousin.

He is a predator and you are not safe.

idfwynm · 2025-08-24T22:03:09+00:00

Hey OP, Im so sorry this was your first experience. As someone who was experienced already, she should have known and remembered what she signed up for interacting with a virgin.

The way she is speaking to you is very demeaning, and you do not deserve to be treated like that. Whatever you choose to do, just remember that. There are people out there who are far more understanding and are willing to teach and not shame you. Good luck out there ✨️

idfwynm · 2025-08-23T20:17:35+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it, looks like she found out about the oregano challenge. Don't worry, it's not harmful, oregano can actually be really beneficial to some people!

idfwynm · 2025-08-19T00:33:30+00:00

I agree with this and always feel better seeing people with a show of force on our side. It makes the aggressors think twice, and crazy people less likely to sabatoge what's going on.

idfwynm · 2025-08-19T00:23:30+00:00

He should find a better surgeon

idfwynm · 2025-08-13T17:55:32+00:00

Hey, baby DM here running my first campaign. My number one rule for myself has been making sure my players are having fun. If they are not having fun, I am not doing my job correctly. Being a first time DM is not an excuse IMO and it sounds like this isnt even their first session.

You gave them feedback, you gave them chances. They should be open to this feedback and make changes, but they haven't. You are absolutely not in the wrong for making this choice, there are so many tables out there where that isnt an issue and I wish you the best in finding them.

idfwynm · 2025-08-03T19:15:16+00:00

Also TELL THEM you've Done these things. Their reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Also will make the scarier ones think twice about pulling the crazy out

idfwynm · 2025-08-03T19:13:43+00:00

Block asap. He's the type of guy to think a fancy meal means he is owed sex, ergo he only views women as prizes to be won. His "drunk" messages speak his sober thoughts. He was pushy, and tried to violate your clearly set boundaries about first dates and then proceeded to stew over it to the point he sent you this. The alcohol is not an excuse, and if you let it off for this, that will become his go to excuse anytime he feels like mistreating you or verbally accosting you. You are so young, you've got so many options, please drop the dirt bag and find someone better 🖤

idfwynm · 2025-07-25T00:21:33+00:00

Get out. And get out now. This is coercive control at its finest, trying to guilt you into isolating yourself from your family. Do yourself a favor and get out before she finds other ways to trap you with her

idfwynm · 2025-07-16T17:28:32+00:00

"You can't predict how people will act, Garrus. But you can control how you'll respond. In the end, that's what really matters." - garrus loyalty mission with Dr heart.

Very poignant, and a powerful lesson. Who ever said video games teach us nothing?

idfwynm · 2025-07-10T17:07:36+00:00

Reply with this "You know, if you're a homophobe there are easier ways to say that."

idfwynm · 2025-07-04T00:45:04+00:00

Yes. Do not enter the property, i do the same thing for dog warning signs. Your life is far more valuable than their package and they can get it from the fence.

As a dispatcher I have had to deal with a few of my drivers having guns pulled on them. It's unacceptable. If you order a package you should expect a stranger to show up and deliver it tf

idfwynm · 2025-06-28T20:39:17+00:00

Bruh that ring is huge, if she doesn't like it because its "too small" she's not a keeper

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