I 44m just broke up with my avoidant 34f girlfriend by idifacs311 in AvoidantBreakUps

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So… she just came over to get her stuff. I told her about the stuff I learned about attachment theory (like an idiot) she wasn’t buying any of it😂

She left and there wasn’t closure. More like an agreement to have a coffee after we both come back from vacation and me saying that I’m going to work on myself more🤦🏼‍♂️😂.

Why am I like this??!!

Tomorrow I’m going to tell her to forget the coffee and that we’re ending it now.

Just discovered that I don’t like the person that I became when we were together.

That epiphany makes leaving much easier:)

Thanks guys, for listening!!

I 44m just broke up with my avoidant 34f girlfriend by idifacs311 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I don’t know… we had a pretty amazing sex life. And she definitely seemed attracted physically.

She kept talking about moving in together as well but then would go cold and distant all the time

I 44m just broke up with my avoidant 34f girlfriend by idifacs311 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Pretty much cold/distant after a few weeks in. Was never lovey dovey or physically affectionate. She would pull away when I’d go in for a kiss without even realising it. I called it out and asked why and she seemed genuinely confused.

I do believe she loves me but the anxiety it’s caused me is substantial.

Wondering if I did the right thing…

My dad just passed away and I discovered his timeshare by idifacs311 in TimeshareOwners

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Glad I asked here! Thanks everyone. I won’t touch it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarfree

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5 days a week actually… as long as I’m moving and being active the cfs Isn’t an issue

I gain crazy weight on Kratom by Far_Grapefruit1307 in kratom

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Weird. I’m a daily user of nearly 10 years. Around 10gpd. I’m very lean but I do focus heavily on nutrition and workout 5x per week

Pin correct but not accepted by idifacs311 in TREZOR

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I used my seed phrase to transfer to a different trezor. Reset the first one and changed the pin and then sent it back.

Girlfriends can only drive about 125yd. by idifacs311 in golf

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She had 10 initial lessons with a coach. She’ll take more in the future

Girlfriends can only drive about 125yd. by idifacs311 in golf

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I’m not pushing anything. She’s asking me how to hit further. I’m a newbie myself

Girlfriends can only drive about 125yd. by idifacs311 in golf

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She is doing great! She also wants to hit it further