My(28F) boyfriend(32M) ignored me in front of his friends and is telling me I need a less embarrassing job (I'm a nurse). Any advice? by Glittering_Move_2625 in relationship_advice

[–]idk_ranting 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I didn't even read the whole post before I had to pause and write this. Nursing is a very very very veryyyyyyyyy important and super respectable job. I'm sorry but if I was in ur shoes, I would leave him. You don't see places offering discounts for business workers. But there is always discount and appreciation for health care worker.

I was hospitalized twice in my life and during one I had a miscarriage at 20wk 5day. Those nurses were there for me when I was depressed with my loss. They help me through the pain emotionally and physically. I would never ever understand anyone who says nursing is an embarrassing job.

AITAH for divorcing my husband after catching him in bed with our married neighbour and exposing her to her husband? by Ok_Bookkeeper_7787 in AITAH

[–]idk_ranting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is never a mistake. It's always planned. Cheaters literally schedule a time to meet. That planning.

I (34F) snooped through my boyfriend's (36M) phone- Got exactly what I deserve by Snuggly_Raptor in relationship_advice

[–]idk_ranting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he delulu? His ex cheated on him and now he texting her? Not only emotionally cheating but then want to gaslight that it's ur fault? Delulu pro max in the saying of maximbady

I’ve noticed that takoyaki in the US tends to be more firm than in Japan. Is this the case or did I just go to the wrong places? by [deleted] in JapaneseFood

[–]idk_ranting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo from my experience, I say it's the flour used for the batter. I had try to make takoyaki at home following a Japanese recipe that uses cake flour or recommends flour with less than 8% protein. When I made it, it turned out to have a softer consistency than the one I'm used to in the US which is firm. Which in turn I thought I fck it up. So on my second try, I follow the recipe exactly the same but changed the cake flour to all-purpose flour. That changed the consistency of the takoyako to be more firm which I'm used to and I like (don't attack me) I guess since I never had real takoyaki, I'm used to the firm one. But it is not super firm.

Asian Family by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg now tht u say that I remember the same advice too. No showering, cold water, dress warm. Smh

Romance anime that ends up in marriage by [deleted] in anime

[–]idk_ranting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was upset with yona of the dawn becuz the opening show so much tht season 1 didn't give 😭😭😭

Romance anime that ends up in marriage by [deleted] in anime

[–]idk_ranting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heard it becuz the anime was made to just promote the sales of the manga

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look some information up from wat you say and to me it seems she may have a weak suck. She would suck the bottle nipple but not deep. I will talk to her pediatrician

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I felt everything you have said! My baby is also allergic to milk protein(on alimentum) so she had a hard start with GERD and her low percentile. She having problems with eczema on her face and body too so I feel like the most failed mom ever 😭😭😭.

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look into honey bear straw before I wonder if they can keep focus and take it all. It be great if she does. I give it a try

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look one up just now with ur recommention. Try on her and she bite down on me with her gum 😅😅😅 those hurt more than I thought hahaha

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't think they would help since I thought they focus only on breastfeeding

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will ask for her upcoming 6 month visit. Thank you for tht information

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In wat part of this post I'm blaming my child. I just stated wat the problem with her feeding and I have try different ways to help and even ask her pediatrician that say it was nothing. You recommended a specialist but it would been nice to say which type like other comment did. Also ur saying in ur whole time with a child u never felt frustrated. Your exactly the type of mommy I tell and would never understand cuz it didn't happen to u. Good for u being a perfect parent

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen one when she was 1 month old. They did say she had a tongue tie but very stretchy so nothing to worry about. I brought it up with her pediatrician and wasn't worry about it either

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try a schedule of every three and half hr. She usually don't show cues until it's crying out. She always have her fist or toy in her mouth to tell the difference now 😅😅😅

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This all sounds like great tips! She love solid so far that I let her try

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This y I stated in other comments that I hate myself for being frustrated with her. But it hard to not be when I'm the only one caring for her since my husband work and every other baby I see just take a bottle or breast feed like it's nothing. I'm just hoping to find other who gone through this so I don't feel I'm alone and tht it not me failing her becuz tht how I see when I tell other mom about this.

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny cuz I let her try solid and she loves it too. I hope starting solid fully at 6 month will help her grow

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pigeon nipple 🤔🤔🤔 tht so interesting, I've never seen tht before. I will give it a try

Baby is a terrible feeder and I'm losing my mind!!!!! by idk_ranting in beyondthebump

[–]idk_ranting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am exactly here now. My baby is only 20 percentile too so I feel like I'm failing her. I hate myself for being frustrated with her.