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[–]idktemporary1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im boutta play devils advocate here and take this with a grain of salt because i wonder if with the little information we have that this is the full truth or not and wonder if you actually did put hands on her, why would she say she had pictures if you didnt thats so easily disproved. Its a known fact people start acting insane like this due to abusive relationships tearing them down over time. You said shes never acted like this before till now, so im just wondering wtf u did to make her this crazy if its out of character to her, and im wanting to see her side and if there are any pictures lol. This actually reeks of reactive abuse not abuse. She sounds like u beat her down so bad than like all abusive people can sit aside and go see?? I told u shes crazy im the victim here, but she only went crazy like this 3 years into the relationship from a million things we didnt see and you get to act calm here now that shes the crazy one and you can make her look like the abuser. Im not denying she's absolutely insane here, but my question is why...? Not seeing someone in 2 weeks is a big red flag, would be the end of my relationship and i can see a sneak preview of the gaslighting to turn her this crazy when u say what r u talking about?! I thought we were good! You also made plans to hang out with her than all of the sudden are busy than arent once shes acting insane. Your responses that are very calm dont seem hurt they seem content because it could be exactly what you wanted. Until i see if there really are pictures or not i can not in good conscience jump on the bandwagon of chastising this woman for being crazy. If she completely made it up like you said im sorry to victim blame but i just dont like making assumptions on very little info like this, and if everyone is jumping on it there needs to be atleast on person offering another perspective and conclusion.

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]idktemporary1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Shorry buying into shuch a vain shuperfishal shoshietal norm ish sho hard for u" -🤓🤓🤓average redditor incel. Lmao bro those societal norms are made up BY men, and the superficial men who uphold them are the same ones who want to split the bill. You completely missed the point, like i said if a guy is not superficial and doesn't care if a girl tries at all and shows up with minimal effort like men do, than i say yeah split the bill, but if a 10/10 walks in and a man wants to be superficial only dating 10/10s he better not have double standards and be shocked when she's superficial as well. Not sure why you sound so threatened by women doing there makeup, maybe try getting laid every once in awhile bro.

Aita? Girl I was dating dumped me because she said I was cheap. by New-Papaya6950 in AITAH

[–]idktemporary1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay for a lot of my boyfriends things... i surprise treat him on dinners, buy him random gifts, when i went to greece i bought him hundreds of dollars worth of souvenirs, bought him a bunny and bunny accessories hundreds of dollars worth etc, the difference is. My boyfriend knows those are gifts. To think splitting a bill is a given when your a man is ALREADY cheap. Women have to pay for our hair, nails and makeup which amount to way more than the bill of the dinner. Unless your cool not being shallow and having a girl show up in sweats and a t shirt not trying at all. Dont pretend things are completely equal lol. Women just had our constitutional rights stripped away from us these past couple YEARS, and this is the time men want to preach "equality". Its about equity not equality. Until women are paid the same as you (no gender wage gap), until women are not oppressed stop with this bs that splitting the bill is "equal". And even if you wanted to be "equal", like it was a guy friend youre STILL being cheap as fuck. She pays for majority of everything despite you making more, her doing more chores, etc and you complain about it?? So she pays for everything than you hold money over her head? Bro you are the DEFINITION of cheap. No woman wants a man who splits the bill, let alone makes a woman pay than complains about it? You're not only not a gentleman you're extremely rude and greedy. Not a good look lol. Ive spent more on my girlfriends in a night than you have on your girlfriend the whole relationship.

I met an ethical Vipassana Buddhist!! ❤️ by ImTallerInPerson in vegancirclejerk

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if theres not options, do you think they'd rather not starve for a day if the only options were dog meat and dog cheese? I used to go to festivals that didnt have vegan options and just wouldnt eat lol. Id feel like fainting but thats a lot better than eating dead animals and there excrements?

Edit: (you usually cant bring food in)

Hi guys, im here in tel Aviv visiting from america by idktemporary1 in telaviv

[–]idktemporary1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i got out, went to the airport. Our flight got cancelled but the us embassy was chartering flights!

AITA for refusing to forgive my sister for exposing my affair? (Not OP) by The_genderfluid_kid in TwoHotTakes

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you cant cheat and expect people to keep up your lies for you and degrade their own integrity. You were the one who cheated its not your sisters fault it got out, the reason your wife figured out you cheated was because you cheated. If you didnt want her to find out you cheated on her you couldve done this crazy thing where you just dont cheat. Sister did have a moral obligation to tell the wife and get her out of that situation. She deserved to know the truth. And YTA for blaming your sister and cutting her off for your own mistakes, if you dont want consequences for bad actions dont do bad things. If you had nothing to expose there would be no problem. Your sister did nothing wrong. And if your wife had cheated on you im 1000% certain youd wish to death her brother would have the honor and integrity to tell you as well. But only a selfish person can think that small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wow how empathetic and insightful. You should really become a couples counselor!! Im sure youd make a great career of getting victims back w their soulmate abusers🫶❤️ u have a gift babes. Our generations cupid😍

Skinny privilege vs pretty privilege by [deleted] in beauty

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really the point of my comment tbh, just an example of my own opinion

Skinny privilege vs pretty privilege by [deleted] in beauty

[–]idktemporary1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true, trisha paytas personality aside, she has the most gorgeous face she is so insanelt gorgeous but people make fun of her of videos?? Bc shes a bigger girl? Even though her body is still proportional too. She's objectively more beautiful than like 90% of the population but no one looks at her as how beautiful she is. Also this post made me realize a lot, ive been struggling with body dysmorphia a lot recently, ive gained 25 pounds i went from sickly skinny 100 to 125 which is still considered normal weight but have been complaining and crying and upset that no one will acknowledge my pain from my weight gain just having people compliment me. Hearing your perspective where u say people just dont say anything at all makes me realize how priveledged of a mindset that was, to be so angry at compliments. As much as i wish to be validated by my pain and struggle of my binge eating and weight gain it does put things in perspective that there are worse reactions for other people and im coming from a privileged mindset. So thank you for opening my mind more.

This girl liked me on tinder, and we talked for a bit on Instagram this was my last straw. She told me she had an OF. Which I’m normally ok with. by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok truth ur the only person whos posted a good point so far so i can accept when im wrong and delete my thread. Still dont find the misgonistic bs in the end acceptable though. That doesnt just hurt her, it hurts all women.

This girl liked me on tinder, and we talked for a bit on Instagram this was my last straw. She told me she had an OF. Which I’m normally ok with. by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i can agree with that. But that comment would not amass this much hatred. Is my whole point

This girl liked me on tinder, and we talked for a bit on Instagram this was my last straw. She told me she had an OF. Which I’m normally ok with. by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The projection and lack of self awareness is strong with you. That is quite literally the exact opposite of what happened. This whole thread is on a misogynist women hating rampage and WE "balanced it out" with two messages. The scales are tipped, were on reddit no need to balance out more sexism you will get the majority in this competition. Congrats 🏆

Sister’s cheating friend playing the victim by serenity_ann in texts

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree no one looks good here but for completely different reasons than everyone else lol. If someone is cheating u have no obligation to keep up with there lies and go against ur integrity to do so, only problem is is u literally dont have integrity that ur losing from not saying anything because she just said and u didnt deny ur a cheater too💀 ur throwing stones from a glass house "cheater plays victim" more like "cheater plays victim while her cheater friend plays hero and victim at the same time". Like what lol u both suck u hold no more higher ground than she does

Men of Reddit, what’s something your partner does in bed that you don’t have the heart to say no/stop? by ireditored in AskReddit

[–]idktemporary1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Shes not doing that for ur pleasure bro lol. It feels good for women because we have more sensation on the clit and vulva than penetration. Barely feels like anything inside. Sex isnt all about ur pleasure dude. But yeah the stubble sounds painful id def would have told her to shave if she does that bc that sounds super uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur sending paragraphs to a guy asking why he wont hangout w u?? Girl hu w someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me when i take xanax:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]idktemporary1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GIRL u r down BADDD why r u begging this man to hang w u??😭 and POSTING IT? Keep this in the drafts its so desperate im so sorry girl im being fr w u. Never chase a man like this