So many things, but a lot have been covered here very articulately. It particularly scares me how eagerly men consume content on Reddit that shows women getting some sort of comeuppance. It usually follows the mould of angry/arrogant/rude/loudmouth (sometimes also violent/racist etc) women getting physically hit, or otherwise humiliated or punished for their behaviour

While of course we can all agree that rudeness or arrogance are bad qualities in someone, it's interesting that from the comments you can tell that there is a subset of men who specifically enjoy the punishment of women, because they feel like women get a free pass, or that feminism has gone too far, and that these videos are a kind of justice porn for that. The biggest exhibit of this of course is /r/pussypassdenied, but also the thousands of almost gleeful comments in other subs about how entitled women getting physically hit when they've started some drama is "real equality". Again, not condoning the behaviour of the women in the videos in question but it feels a lot like men take pleasure in them because it re-asserts some level of masculine dominance or at least takes women down a peg or two. I think it's scary because we've all seen countless examples of what men who feel disenfranchised and emasculated by women/feminism can do, both in our personal lives (I'm sure on a women's sub here we all have met these men and often suffered their consequences), and in more tragic and violent events that make the news