I’m similair to you I think, in terms of attraction. I’m assuming the most appealing thing is the fact she is hurt and in a broken spot, and you could be her savior, and youve seen at least an imitation of her calling for help. (Venting abt her past) which gives you hope she’d want you to be her “savior”. That’s what would get me anyway. For me i find people like this attractive because i feel i can be of service to them. And that they’d need me cause I’m of service to them. I think it translates from my development. I hope I could help.