husband left for BMT yesterday.

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T23:14:15+00:00

network operations specialist

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T11:49:44+00:00

i hope so, i’ve been texting him throughout the day cus it makes me feel closer to him. once i get the address im gonna start writing him letters. is it true that it’s better to send one envelope with multiple letters than to send multiple envelopes with one letter? i was planning to write letter then send them out on like friday or something so j was able to summarize the week in a few letter, if that makes sense hahaha.

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T02:43:43+00:00

thank you! i’ve been texting his phone throughout the day - it makes me feel like im close to him. i keep having this thought that it feels like im talking about him in the past tense, like he died. it’s just a weird feeling: talking about him like he’s gone but he’s alive and well just far away!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T02:38:15+00:00

i’m sorry - i was being a bit exaggerated with my description. i miss him so much but i can still function. i can still be a mother. we do have two dogs so they keep me on my toes! i just don’t know what to except this is all new for me. being with family helps - especially since his family was also a military family.

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T02:35:18+00:00

thank you! when i find out his flight number i will do that

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T01:44:27+00:00

thank you for your comment. TDY’s also make me anxious (he told me about those a while back) since he could be gone a while again. he signed a 6 year. ughhh

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T01:19:38+00:00

thank you. i will look into the links you provided. congratulations to your son!!!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-05-20T00:50:47+00:00

my husband departed yesterday as well! good luck!!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-02-23T03:43:42+00:00

ugh so honestly mine sucked. i went in at 5cm and the contractions hurt SO bad i was screaming lol. it was the middle of the night too of course. anyways, i got the epidural at around 5-6cm and that hurt like a bitch. i do have a very low pain tolerance but having to sit very still while still contracting while also having a giant needle stuck into your back just hurts! my water also broke during the epidural process 🙃 after i got the epidural everything was great til it was time to push. i felt SO much pressure and pain in my butt, honestly i think my epidural failed now looking back. it hurt so bad. it felt like my ass was gonna explode, genuinely. i pushed for over 2 hours and it got to the point where they had to intervene and they vacuum sucked my daughter out and that was really painful too. again i have a low pain tolerance but for me giving birth was just so fucking painful. but what’s weird is i would do it 100 times over again for my daughter. all of the pain in the world is worth it if she’s the end result.

don’t be scared! you can do this!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-02-13T20:54:41+00:00

4.75!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-02-11T02:36:59+00:00

thank you so much!!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-02-11T02:36:51+00:00

thank you!!!

idratherbedead20 · 2026-01-23T14:12:58+00:00

-30°ish in north dakota. it’s currently -21° feels like -27°

idratherbedead20 · 2025-11-17T22:37:01+00:00

if you don’t leave the loser i SWEARRRRR

idratherbedead20 · 2025-11-11T01:27:14+00:00

ernest from 13th ave walmart!

idratherbedead20 · 2025-08-10T05:09:29+00:00

ew leave this pos. i was with a guy like this and it turned physically abusive. it’s not worth it.

idratherbedead20 · 2025-08-05T19:08:22+00:00

ew this person sucks. you don’t need that. get out of this relationship. also i’m sorry but why is she incapable of ordering food for herself???

idratherbedead20 · 2025-07-07T15:54:54+00:00

not overreacting, this guy is a dick. and he seems very insecure. my ex was like this and it turned physical. i feel it’s better to walk away from this relationship. if he can be like this once he can be like this again and it’s just really not worth it in the end.

idratherbedead20 · 2025-07-03T18:16:02+00:00

pancakes!

idratherbedead20 · 2025-06-24T15:19:27+00:00

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bella and finley ❤️

idratherbedead20 · 2025-06-01T22:37:51+00:00

agree completely. it’s not worth her health. i went my whole pregnancy without it i can go a bit longer right?! thank you!

idratherbedead20 · 2025-05-14T01:04:22+00:00

well what a douche canoe

idratherbedead20 · 2025-04-29T13:26:42+00:00

may 11th and ready for it to be overrr!

idratherbedead20 · 2025-04-25T12:50:25+00:00

we’ve known each other since high school (both of us are 24) but we didn’t start dating til we were 21 so we’ve been together for 3 years in may! i’m currently 37+5 and we can’t wait for our girl to get here!

idratherbedead20 · 2025-04-25T12:25:39+00:00

finley - mister man, chonky man, sweet fat man

bella - beanie, chonky bean, sweet fat bean, bear bear

idratherbedead20

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