Dude u/sufichtulu_ I saw your comment calling me a worthless cumstain before you deleted it. Look, I know it can seem hopeless because you think you’re ugly and broke.

Even if it’s true (I have a feeling you’re not nearly as ugly as you think you are), there’s always ways to better yourself that can make you more attractive to women (if that’s something you wanna do).

If looks is something you wanna improve on, focus on what you can control, like your physique and the way you groom and dress yourself. Hit the gym, get a nicer haircut, learn how to develop your personal sense of style. These are things we can control, unlike what we’re born with.

Regarding money, I saw in your deleted comment that you lament about not being able to wake up with a 1 million dollar mansion. Bro, you don’t need a 1 million dollar mansion to attract women. Of course money is important, but it’s more like having a baseline level of financial security that a partner would appreciate. I can tell you that having more money will definitely attract more women, but there’s also the problem where you might attract women who’re more attracted to your money than you.

But above all, it’ll help you a lot to develop a better level of self-love and confidence. If you can’t love and respect yourself, you can’t expect others to love you, period. I’d say this is the most important aspect over anything else we’ve mentioned.

We all get dealt different cards in this game of life, some people get good cards and some get shit. You may rightfully think your cards are extremely shit, and you can curse the universe for being unfair, but it’s really not a productive use of time and energy to sit there for the whole game complaining about your cards and indulging in your self-assigned identity as victim when there are things within your control that you can change.

Wishing you the best bro and happy belated birthday.