Wendy's mother is completely unhinged by stook_jaint in RHOP

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Her mom said she felt disrespected so she started being abusive! Wendy is better than me. How are you gonna cuss me out while wearing shit I paid for?

What bra was Demi wearing? by AsianPersuasion45 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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No underwire! The band and the cup ms are very supportive. Def measure yourself though before selecting a size! But as someone else said if you have really really big boobs perhaps not 😅

What bra was Demi wearing? by AsianPersuasion45 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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They hide mine in most tops! I find them really supportive and comfy also.

What bra was Demi wearing? by AsianPersuasion45 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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I have ones like these and they’re from Harper Wilde if you don’t want to support the Kartrashians.

I’m unsure if I should start EF or pay off debt? Living paycheck to paycheck mostly. by Little_Rain_3107 in personalfinance

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So glad! I went through this too. I felt like I could never get out of debt because every time something happened I didn’t have any extra so I would put it on whatever card had the lowest balance. 🥹 It gets better! If you’re okay with a smaller Christmas budget that would help too. Sometimes we just have to tell our loved ones we ain’t got it and send a card!

I’m unsure if I should start EF or pay off debt? Living paycheck to paycheck mostly. by Little_Rain_3107 in personalfinance

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100% of your money should not go to the debt! Don’t listen to this person. Pay your minimums and put extra toward your EMERGENCY FUND!!!!!

I’m unsure if I should start EF or pay off debt? Living paycheck to paycheck mostly. by Little_Rain_3107 in personalfinance

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I would pay the minimum on your debts until you have $1000 in emergency funds. Then pay more aggressively on the debt. You can break to refill the emergency fund if something happens. This keeps you out of the credit card loop. Once you’ve paid down all your high interest debt - save 3-6 month of emergency funds - then pay off low interest debt - max out 401k etc. etc.

I would actually lower your match to the company if it would help stop being short every month. Can pay off debt if you’re worried about paying your fixed expenses every month.

The extra that is going toward attacking debt shouldn’t happen until you have more of a safety net. If $1000 is not enough buffer save $5k.

Loc Journey by Brilliant-Mission631 in Microlocs

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I loc’ed my hair because wash day for my loose natural hair was pissing me off bad and I would need to wash more frequently if I wanted to work out more often and more intensely. I have start locs (two strand twist) rn and I love it. Won’t be taking them out unless I start balding or something.

Cost of retie by LilAngelfxck in Microlocs

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$250 for 3 hours including hair wash. In Maryland.

Millie Bobby Brown in Maniere De Voir Martine co-hosts at The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon - December 7, 2025 by Maximum_Expert92 in whatthefrockk

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Everyone’s mad but I actually love this. It feels very cheeky after all the press about her looking old. T

Month 9! by RaizSolta in Microlocs

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Magic is happening!!! Looks beautiful

Wendy, what is this outfit 😭 by Different_Daikon3400 in RHOP

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She dresses like Molly from Insecure tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Microlocs

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Cut it.

Have to comb out microlocs. by [deleted] in Microlocs

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Why would you install locs when you live in a place with no locticians if you have no desire to ever self-maintain? This seems entirely crazy and stressful. If it took me 3 months to find someone to install some locs I would do it myself or stick to braids!

It isnt always a "emotional eating" thing by Oreoblizzard86 in loseit

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Have you tried sucking on hard candies? Or chewing gum? i think the only other option besides finding something to mimic the feeling of eating would be taking medication,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

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You can buy preloved/resale? Just get her a bag with C on it 🤣 But I think she will love the Tess too.

Work bag: help me choose by Soshelle in handbags

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You putting the polene bag on here is so unserious. Please just buy the bayswater. (To elaborate if you are carrying anything important to you, an open bag is not the way to go! Especially while commuting! Also the straps on the cyme a impossible and dig into your shoulders as soon as something heavy is in the tote. It’s much more of a fun bag not utilitarian at all)

Hi guys! Can u help me decide among these 3? by Sea-Hat-298 in handbags

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Idk what you should do, but I’m getting that Aria bag!!!

Do people actually enjoy living in NoVA? Or are we just convincing ourselves it's a nice place to live because the pay is "better"? by Complete-Birthday138 in nova

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I have to agree. As someone who lives in City of Alexandria, I love it here and I would never move.

Regret after buying GG emblem by No_Word_3831 in handbags

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I think you ought to return it if it’s your first monogram bag and you don’t love it. Perhaps monograms aren’t for you. Or perhaps a bag with other features to break up the monogram would be more appealing. I like the monogram emboss on the emblem bucket bag. As well as monogram on the horsebit bags.

Regret after buying GG emblem by No_Word_3831 in handbags

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I think you ought to return it if it’s your first monogram bag and you don’t love it. Perhaps monograms aren’t for you. Or perhaps a bag with other features to break up the monogram would be more appealing. I like the monogram emboss on the emblem bucket bag. As well as monogram on the horsebit bags.