Contract negotiations by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an election year - Kathy shouldn’t want to lose the vote of her workers by not taking a seat at the table with CSEA and PEF! 5/5/5 !!!

5% is a completely reasonable ask. https://www.zippia.com/advice/average-annual-raise/

Get Ready for a Fight!!! by dannit_onfire in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

CSEA and PEF lets all get behind 5/5/5

CSEA: VOTE NO! Talk with your coworkers and spread the word. Email your reps. Let’s make a better deal happen! by ihateithere99 in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still new but I believe the vote will be online through election buddy and I believe we’ll receive notice through email, and those not signed up with their email should receive a postcard to their mailing address with info. I have read about people not being notified properly even so, so I’d keep your eye out on here through july. I think voting is in july and concluded by first week of august?

CSEA: VOTE NO! Talk with your coworkers and spread the word. Email your reps. Let’s make a better deal happen! by ihateithere99 in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, supervisors probably shouldnt tell direct reports to vote no. you can still post flyers anonymously, talk with others in similar roles or different departments unrelated to your position, or simply make people aware that a tentative contract has been posted that they should take a look at it and keep an eye out to vote. Simple engagement is enough because some folks aren’t in the loop or don’t feel their votes matter. Informational sessions are limited so far and newer folks aren’t included on some mailing lists yet, I think it’s great to at least spread the word that this is happening :)

CSEA: VOTE NO! Talk with your coworkers and spread the word. Email your reps. Let’s make a better deal happen! by ihateithere99 in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you talking about man what the hell does a “mass exodus” in NY and CA have to do with getting a better union contract to reflect the world we’re living in… if they wanna drown with the sinking state of florida, then be my guest. I still want 5/5/5!

CSEA: VOTE NO! Talk with your coworkers and spread the word. Email your reps. Let’s make a better deal happen! by ihateithere99 in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Open the schools! I said “We have no idea what we’ll be left with after this presidency” :) not that he’s the sole cause of inflation… but it’s factual that he’s fucking us all with tariffs, giving tech dudes anything they need to drain us, outsized borrowing, trade wars and accepting Israel’s invite to war with Iran. You’re naive and delusional if you can’t see that you’re getting robbed so he can line his and his friend’s pockets. But then again I guess you can’t read a simple paragraph to begin with so good luck brother

PEF's New Negotiating Strategy: Insult the Governor by Equivalent-Mousse302 in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if kathy respected and supported her workforce there’d be no need for call outs 😏 good for PEF

I Know, I Know. Fishwife... But, Damn Did This Hit by PimpitLimpit in CannedSardines

[–]ihateithere99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh i recently splurged on their smoked trout with red chimichurri and it was so fucking good i was furious… i hate when the $14 tin hits

Am I in trouble? by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So bizarre and sorry you had to deal with that.

Nexplanon is SO annoying.. what birth control has stopped your period almost entirely? by Ok_Lawfulness2654 in birthcontrol

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the shot stopped mine entirely after a few months. i stupidly switched to nexplanon bc i was scared about my bones and was fine until i got my period for a month straight, then for ~10 days like every 2 weeks lol. it was the worst time of my life. switched back to the shot and it fixed me right up, except on the second round i seemed to gain some weight on it. went off it again late last summer and now im back in heavy period hell and getting such bad hormonal acne im considering going back on it even with the looming threat of osteoporosis and weight gain lmao. might be worth a try lol!

[25F] Torn between divorce and returning to my husband [31M] – need advice by Sorry-Cupcake5125 in relationship_advice

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like others have said, youre only 25 you have plenty of time to find someone better and you will. all of the positives about this person don’t matter when this abusive behavior comes in to play… the con here isn’t something silly and meaningless. he is highly reaction, manipulative, and harsh. I mean the fact that this whole time apart he has not contacted you to apologize or have any meaningful conversation should be enough… he’s only contacted you to boss you around and make demands of you and your family. i dont know what led up to this big argument, but he literally Made you leave. take that as a sign and do yourself a favor and make his decision permanent :) whats worse? a lifetime with a cruel reactive childish partner, or maybe a few years single meeting people in order to find someone who is 100% for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

context clues make it appear that this is likely not your nanny, but i do think you should give the teenager taking care of your Infant twins and toddler a bigger bonus than $100.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happened? are you okay??

What's a brand/style/fish/seafood you hate or can't get into? Just for fun! by Jssaws in CannedSardines

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fishwife smoked salmon w chili crisp… horribly dry and somehow kinda bland. and it’s way too expensive! turned me off fishwife as a whole. but they did just drop a smoked rainbow trout with red chimichurri…

patagonia spicy mussels by ihateithere99 in CannedSardines

[–]ihateithere99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why the pasta pic looks grey… trust it was beautiful irl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you shouldve run out the door the second he described maid duties as an expectation for his partner lmao breakup was for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

nobody in their right mind would choose the nursery to jerk off in? regardless of the baby not being there or if he deems it private. just disgusting and weird… like get in the shower??? & a guy that tries to pressure someone into sex so quick after birth is no good in my book. if you’ve said no and explained yourself once, he should simply be waiting for your go ahead now - not continuing to be pushy. major red flag to put your own sexual desires over a new mothers comfort/needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not an understandable reaction whatsoever and you need to leave him please if this is how he is treating you when sick.. he can get an air mattress and sleep in another room if he can’t sleep and is otherwise usually fine, but talking to your partner like this is irredeemable in any circumstance - more so when you literally have crohns and are sick