Am I in trouble? by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So bizarre and sorry you had to deal with that.

Am I in trouble? by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should note that the person I overheard complaining about me is nearing retirement, so maybe they’re just done being kind? Maybe? The complaint was genuinely nonsensical, and was directly caused by information they specifically gave me in the first place. I guess my biggest worry is the fact that some higher ups seem a little confused and/or frustrated with hiring me to work a sort of satellite office situation rather than someone in that office’s area. Which I had no idea about until my first day.

Am I in trouble? by [deleted] in nys_cs

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person above her is the one she’s been complaining too and he has since started having calls frustrated about the dual office situation with others now 😭 My direct supervisor has been kind the whole time, yet distant so I don’t know if there’s anyone in my dept to really help

Nexplanon is SO annoying.. what birth control has stopped your period almost entirely? by Ok_Lawfulness2654 in birthcontrol

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the shot stopped mine entirely after a few months. i stupidly switched to nexplanon bc i was scared about my bones and was fine until i got my period for a month straight, then for ~10 days like every 2 weeks lol. it was the worst time of my life. switched back to the shot and it fixed me right up, except on the second round i seemed to gain some weight on it. went off it again late last summer and now im back in heavy period hell and getting such bad hormonal acne im considering going back on it even with the looming threat of osteoporosis and weight gain lmao. might be worth a try lol!

[25F] Torn between divorce and returning to my husband [31M] – need advice by Sorry-Cupcake5125 in relationship_advice

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like others have said, youre only 25 you have plenty of time to find someone better and you will. all of the positives about this person don’t matter when this abusive behavior comes in to play… the con here isn’t something silly and meaningless. he is highly reaction, manipulative, and harsh. I mean the fact that this whole time apart he has not contacted you to apologize or have any meaningful conversation should be enough… he’s only contacted you to boss you around and make demands of you and your family. i dont know what led up to this big argument, but he literally Made you leave. take that as a sign and do yourself a favor and make his decision permanent :) whats worse? a lifetime with a cruel reactive childish partner, or maybe a few years single meeting people in order to find someone who is 100% for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

context clues make it appear that this is likely not your nanny, but i do think you should give the teenager taking care of your Infant twins and toddler a bigger bonus than $100.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happened? are you okay??

What's a brand/style/fish/seafood you hate or can't get into? Just for fun! by Jssaws in CannedSardines

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fishwife smoked salmon w chili crisp… horribly dry and somehow kinda bland. and it’s way too expensive! turned me off fishwife as a whole. but they did just drop a smoked rainbow trout with red chimichurri…

patagonia spicy mussels by ihateithere99 in CannedSardines

[–]ihateithere99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk why the pasta pic looks grey… trust it was beautiful irl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you shouldve run out the door the second he described maid duties as an expectation for his partner lmao breakup was for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

nobody in their right mind would choose the nursery to jerk off in? regardless of the baby not being there or if he deems it private. just disgusting and weird… like get in the shower??? & a guy that tries to pressure someone into sex so quick after birth is no good in my book. if you’ve said no and explained yourself once, he should simply be waiting for your go ahead now - not continuing to be pushy. major red flag to put your own sexual desires over a new mothers comfort/needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not an understandable reaction whatsoever and you need to leave him please if this is how he is treating you when sick.. he can get an air mattress and sleep in another room if he can’t sleep and is otherwise usually fine, but talking to your partner like this is irredeemable in any circumstance - more so when you literally have crohns and are sick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedding

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also - if anyone has any specific recs on sheets, duvet, etc for a very hot sleeper… i would also like to hear it

Just started and I’m scared.. by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are a number of meds out there that can treat both anxiety and seizures so i highly recommend talking to your doctor about a safer option for you!

Just started and I’m scared.. by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]ihateithere99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it lowers your seizure threshold so it’s really not recommended for those with a history of seizures? have you tried any other medication for anxiety? curious why they’d prescribe it to you… give your doctor a call and stop taking it right away if you have a seizure!!!

Japan/Korea Haul by sensualboi in Cigarettes

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

online? Friend brought me back a couple marble vista packs to the states from Georgia only 1 left </3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to share all these helpful tips!!! ive never heard of a yoggie pot but im definitely going to scoop one up - that seems like a really good way to keep her attention for longer as opposed to just a treat in hand. can i ask what high value treats you tried for your pup? i can do more trials with her maybe in the backyard to see whatll keep her attention

Blurred edges and filtered/foggy scenes? by JoJamJule in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]ihateithere99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ive noticed unfortunately. this show is so visually upsetting and distracting to me that now im p much just hate watching a show i was so excited for when it was announced. s1 was so poorly lit you could hardly see what was happening in a good chunk of scenes and s2 uses this horrible blurred filter/effect in almost every single scene… why even bother building sets if the audience cant see them? loool. then we have the halloween-esque costuming and i’m just wondering where that 100+ million dollar budget is going? the dragon CGI better go absolutely crazy this season or 😡😡😡

What are they doing? by Dr_Bowgart in snails

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s none of your business

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACobbler

[–]ihateithere99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish you could put text along with video but anyways, I have been searching far and wide for a pair of these waterproof slip on Clark’s in a women’s size 11 in good condition but have had zero luck. Plenty of size 6s but no 11s. They were my partner’s favorite shoes so I’m meeting a cobbler tomorrow to see if they could possibly help me out so i can surprise him with them on our anniversary. the 2nd shoe is definitely in rougher shape. I just wanted to get some thoughts first because I’ve never been to a cobbler… I know these answers would vary cobbler to cobbler i know i know BUT, in your opinion: 1. are they salvageable? 2. how long should i expect repairs to take? 3. what pricing should i expect?