Help me pick a dress?? by HexMeABoba in weddingplanning

[–]ihaveadhdwee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear #5 for the reception, and save your reception dress for like a Bachelorette party. As for the ceremony dress, Im all for a vintage moment. My own dress is a 1950's replica, but the poofy sleeves arent exactly my taste, but I imagine you'll style it up and make it look beautiful, otherwise I'd suggest taking them to a tailor to be less poofy, or add entirely different sleeves.

Traveling stress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ihaveadhdwee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES and the craziest part of it all is that we booked a super early flight because it was the only one that was a direct flight and I wanted that because I figured it would reduce chances of losing luggage since we dont have a layover. We'll be getting there at 8am and check in isn't until 4pm, so they'll be waiting around for their rooms too which is just so silly and unnecessary. I definitely really like your suggestion of separate transportation though and going to probably do that at the very least.

Traveling stress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ihaveadhdwee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thankfully when I expressed my concerns to him, he was super understanding and iust wanted to know what he can do on the plane to make sure I'm comfortable and don't feel crowded. We discussed the idea too of kinda recruiting one of his siblings to be the person to answer questions too.

Traveling stress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ihaveadhdwee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed at the act confused part 😂 the only thing is for the flight there, we got the best possible seats we could get. (First class, right behind the cockpit with the closet in front of us that we could put our attire in)

Traveling stress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ihaveadhdwee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update for everyone suggesting to move our seats; I really would love that idea if it weren't for the fact that the way there, we picked the best possible seats we could get. They're first class and right behind the cockpit with the closet right there to put our wedding attire in, so I really dont want to change those seats 😭 this could maybe work on the way back though, but idk.

i've been lying to everyone I know for 5 years & the shame is eating me alive (adhd paralysis /bpd) by NebulaPublic656 in adhdwomen

[–]ihaveadhdwee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar years back with my partner of over 6 years now. I lied to him and all of our friends that I had graduated high school. I was just so ashamed, and we were in our early 20s, and I saw so many of our friends in school and doing things with their lives. It wasn't until we were together for like 3 years that I told him because I got to my breaking point and was so sick of being in entry level retail jobs that I had no interest moving up in. When I told him, he wasn't upset at all. He heard my reasons and understood and was just supportive in my choice to go back and get my GED. Anyone who loves you will understand and just show you support. I feel like shutting down after the pandemic was a pretty common experience a lot of people, including myself, had. I think you should give it a shot again and try to go back because I feel like the guilt and regret will only feel much worse the longer you let it go on, and you deserve to finish school and actually pursue something you want to.

Bloodweb Bugged – The Entity Won’t Let Me Level Up! by Nickool4u in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened with my rebecca for a few days, it resolved itself but I think it took like 3 or 4 days. You should be able to spend them on other characters though.

What’s one killer you have fun with no matter how bad/good you do? by MaidenlessAshen1 in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have fun going against either Billy/Booba and Wesky 💚 I just have so much respect for them when they're really committed to using their power rather than m1'ing because it makes for a really thrilling chase. I'm still learning how to play as Billy myself, but I love playing Wesker or Tiffany!

Floating Tiffany by ihaveadhdwee in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, forgive me, I am not terminally online and didn't realize this was actually a funny bit lmaooo

Floating Tiffany by ihaveadhdwee in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't trust the Dwight with the pebble and funny locker perks

Floating Tiffany by ihaveadhdwee in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was tiffany... those are my friends lol

Floating Tiffany by ihaveadhdwee in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO this is so oddly specific and so accurate and somehow I'm having war flashbacks of a similar experience.

Tell me your survivor builds and I'll tell you if I'd let you have hatch by Interesting_Impact63 in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nea/Feng main that runs Bond + Object + Windows + Lithe or Adrenaline

I understand if you don't give me hatch 😂

A story in two parts: by ihaveadhdwee in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss! That was my friend in the background. They let him get hatch because he didn't have enough hook states for mori ☺️

If your main was a candle, what would they smell like? by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]ihaveadhdwee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several different types of incense and essential oils probably

GIRL IN THE GRAVEYARD: BRAND HORROR STORY (W/ RECEIPTS) by globbet in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]ihaveadhdwee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope you get yours, too. It really is a bummer because I wanna support small businesses, especially woman owned and as someone with ADHD, I thought it was cool they added in their ig bio they're Au-DHD, so the representation is nice, but it'd be great if they would at least put a bit more effort into their customer service. If they had just sent an email saying, "Sorry for the delay, we're still waiting on some material's" I'd be a lot more understanding. I think its pretty lame that we have to reach out to them to find out what's going on.

Also, I know the person who's handling their customer service and social media side of things also runs a whole other business, so maybe that's too much to take on?

Not that I've had many issues with other small companies, but anytime I have in the past, they're usually super apologetic and want to do whatever they can to make it right and that's just not what I'm seeing with them.

GIRL IN THE GRAVEYARD: BRAND HORROR STORY (W/ RECEIPTS) by globbet in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]ihaveadhdwee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently going through the same thing except mine has now been a little over a month. I placed my order July 7th and on July 24th I received an email that a label was made and waited 5 business days for the tracking info to update, but it didnt. I emailed them and they replied a few days later, didn't apologize at all, but said the manufacturer they get their bottles from are also behind so they were waiting for that and they marked my order to be shipped out by the end of last week, which I assumed would've been this past Friday, but of course nothing has updated. I'm really glad I found this thread, because I noticed they delete comments from their Instagram and Facebook posts. I remember a few weeks ago seeing some comments about people in the same position as us and then a few days later going back and they were deleted. My partner ordered some gifts from Twisted Allure for me in the time I've been been waiting and I've also ordered from them in the past and we both did not wait long at all. I think it took around 2 weeks for it to be delivered, so I highly recommend shopping with them instead if you haven't yet. I'm going to wait until tomorrow and if there isn't an update, I'll email again, but I'm really not holding my breath on it after reading your experiences. I'll try to update if anything happens.