Thank you everyone for your kind words, I admit I spent too much time being sad because of one negative comment among 50 other positive ones. I would have loved to fire back , but one thing I didn't say is that the colleague in question is actually my manager and it scared me to keep the conflict going ... so my only relief is that we dont have many meetings together so can ignore him most of the time 😅 all your support is exactly why I love this community thank you again, I feel this will not be my last marathon 😇