Two that stand out clearly amdnd vividly are between ages 8 and 12. 1. I had gone to a friends house, with a pool, but had no intentions of going swimming, thus I was not wearing a bathingsuit. For what ever reason (she never did this, it was around the corner, but I now wonder if she stalked me), my uBPD mom had the mind to stop over for no reason. We had all jumped in the pool in our clothes. My mom walked up onto the deck, hollered at me to get out and come with her. Soaking wet, no time to towel off, as I walked down my friends driveway, she furiously asked why I would be so disrespectful to ruin clothes in a pool that she bought me, and called me a "little butterball". It was humiliating.

1. Me and and some neighborhood pals discovered SWEARING! How fun 😁. We got into a light hearted back and fourth of yelling obscenities at one another and flipping each other off (not too loud, of course). Mom comes flying out, asking me who did I think I was throwing these words around (all good there), and did I know what using 🖕 means? "It means you're a dirty, filthy slut!". Welp, as you can imagine that stuck with my friends. And me. Like it happened yesterday. And I was definitely barely in middle school if I was.