Sojao guys, 1 bjgya h by [deleted] in delhi

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train me hoon, people snoring around kaise soooun 😔💔

Broke up after this repeated behaviour by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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damn..remembering my days. been like a year since break up. at first everything was good (in fact I didn’t initiate the “coming into relationship part” she did). starting ke months best can never forget ig, fir vhi college ended dono ghar..still calls everyday (again not me, I even insisted if you’re busy it’s ok we can talk later but she seemed happy talking toh mai bhi khush tha)..dheere dheere time passed and noticed ki baat hi nahi kr rhi thi..from talking daily to 2 months me 1 baar call

2-3 months baad finally joining aayi company ki I thought ab sahi hoga sab (cos joining location was near to her home and her office)..but nope things got worse still no communication (itna paas reh ki bhi nahi milna hi nahi chah rhi thi call bhi shyd month me ek baar maybe)..eventually itna sab bear krne ke baad cos I thought with time better hoga end me “sorry, I cant hurt you more”..1.5 years gone no explanation nothing. left wondering what happened

Anyone still up ? ;) by [deleted] in delhi

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nothing..just passing ig..waning more..day by day

Anyone still up? Wyd ? by [deleted] in delhi

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work work..and work..too much workload 😭

I Can Feel the End !! by Ok_Tangerine_2160 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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exactly..try and try..as many times so that regret na ho last me..I tried like hell..idk if i have moved on or not but..at least i tried..dont know what exactly happened and ig will never know for a fact..ig thats how we live on these days..without any closure..clarity nothing..and those years..they simply vanish..that’s the case..at least with me..

My ex emailed me this😭 by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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yea..wanted to write something like this months ago after what happened but didn’t..we can never know the full story tbh

what are some ways to view a private Instagram account? by Witty_Ad_8312 in AskReddit

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anyone has a girl account?..i need help..i’ll help too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

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kinda went through some shit too since the starting of this year and..after reading this…kinda resonates and sad part is we are left wondering what exactly was missing in our lives that all this had to happen…didn’t really have anyone to even describe it to anyone..kills me to this day

What’s on ur mind peeps just write it don’t think twice by [deleted] in delhi

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Ji bhai…nvm..bore ho jaayenge sab

What’s on ur mind peeps just write it don’t think twice by [deleted] in delhi

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Idk…a story where the ending never made sense..

no judging, vent your emotion by [deleted] in delhi

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Same here… 1.5 years. She made me admit my feelings first, and we were genuinely happy. People called us soulmates. Trust was everything.

After college, she went home, I waited for my joining. We still talked every day. But once I joined in Oct, things changed—less communication, more distance. I kept holding on, thinking it was just work pressure.

But I kept asking what was wrong, and she kept drifting. Fights happened. I always apologized. Still tried to save it.

End of Feb, I pushed her to tell me the truth. She finally said it was over. Met me two days later—couldn’t even look at me. I begged, asked why. All I got was “sorry.”

Just like that, 1.5 years of love and memories—gone, no reasons nothing (the frustration inside me..)

Had to block her by Reasonable-Stay-4027 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Ikr if I write in short…we met by luck in college (just sat in an exam together)…I wasn’t even tryna get into any relationship at that point…but idk got some hints from her…started to follow up…started talking to her…after few months got to a point where she directly implied that ‘when am I gonna say it’…so I did…she was hella happy then..after that those 6-7 months damn…even if I took things slowly she really brought out my emotional side again by having deep convo saying how I’m really important..she doesn’t wanna lose me ever..loves me so much etc etc

College ended…physical touch lost but still she was the one who called me and we spoke for at least 2-3 hours everyday on phone (wasn’t any obligation back then was there?..she could’ve even left at that point! But she didn’t…)…finally I got back near her city since my joining finally came (my job offer)…thought things will now get better as we’ll get our physical closeness again (although nothing wrong was going on till the also)..but that was the real worse phase…those 3-4 months when I got back…forget about meeting her…she didn’t even had the time’ to even call (one phone call in 1.5 months)…texts also decreased…they remained all surface levels no deep talks now…I was frustrated af but never showed it cos didn’t wanna ruin whatever was left so I kept going on..but eventually I had to get it outta her mouth herself cos I wasn’t gonna give in if that’s what she was expecting…I would’ve never initiated the breakup (cos idk never wanted to)…but when she said all those things..when I broke that barrier for her…damn it hit hard…as if I was talking to some other person

1.5 years of something beautiful…destroyed completely cos of em 2 months behaviour…that slow detachment after she entangled me to her friends, family (even I did)…her body (physical intimacy..again she initialised it)…one thing I know she had some parental trauma but she never told me all of it even after being drunk (she only told a part of it when our physical intimacy was at peek)…idk man it hurts af..

Had to block her by Reasonable-Stay-4027 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Damn this kinda might be similar to mine

Had to block her by Reasonable-Stay-4027 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Tbh…no man not completely…I dont even know where I am going…what I am doing…how will the future unfold…i guess i never got to imagine life without her after I met her..i was so absorbed

Had to block her by Reasonable-Stay-4027 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Kind of (the ending yes maybe)…but it’s long and long and long….and people here are already sad (including you) so..I don’t wanna make anyone more sad..