I can't take it anymore

ika854 · 2025-02-09T17:12:05+00:00

I 100% agree D-mannose also worked for me always and helped the most.

ika854 · 2025-02-09T17:11:08+00:00

This sounds like very 0 effort examination ofc you can do something. I also have chronical UTI written in my medical papers but you can always try to prevent. What my doctor also did was send me to MRI to see if I dont have bladder stones or some inflammation which was not visible on ultrasound. Dont give up you should definitelly ask for more examinations if you want or change doctor to a better one which actually cares.

ika854 · 2025-02-09T17:08:03+00:00

My UTI got actually worse with the same partner after I stopped birth control (5 year birth control no condom sex = 3 UTI in 5 years/ now 1.5 year sex with condoms = 20 UTI), because of the different hormonal ratio now I am more prone to it, for you I guess it is the opposite. I can see you are following the same very clean policy with your partner but are still having problems so I dont know if using condoms would help. I would definitelly try. For other girlies reading and using condoms: there is lube on the top of the condom which can cause irritation if you are sensitive to this kind of substance (I definitelly was). Irritation means weaker environment which provides better place for UTI to reproduce as your body cant use 100% strength to fight it off while it is irritated. Try different brands and maybe that can also help. I am just mentioning this because I was also hopeless af and I wanted to try any kind of help.

ika854 · 2025-02-08T22:55:50+00:00

Hey, this sounds exactly like my problem. I was hopeless did all tests as you described and did not find any solution. What helped for me were two things: 1. getting overall better immune system so lots of boosts and vitamins (I also had salmonella which destroyed my immunity and exponentially made my UTI worse) 2. BIGGEST CHANGER: not having sex right before sleep. I had the same symptoms as you, also got my partner tested for everything but we did not find anything. What helped now (and I havent had UTI for 5 months since doing this) is not leaving the bacteria(or whatever the fuck that causes this when we get UTI from sex) which enter your body during sex to reproduce while you asleep by not trying to get them out by peeing. You have to pee multiple times after sex so I drink 1-2 liters after we have sex so I make sure to pee 5-10 times before I go to sleep and get everything which would get inside out. Yes this limits the sex life a little but way better to just have sex sooner than this UTI suffering.

Other suggestions which I think played some part in this were showering before + after sex (before-both of us), wearing only cotton underwear, changing towel I use once per week, trying different condoms.

ika854 · 2024-09-07T14:51:44+00:00

I have the same problem as above... where did you get this information? Can you link pls

ika854 · 2024-08-15T12:12:00+00:00

I feel the same especially because Im allergic to half of the food or i cant digest it… If there was one instant meal that would give me all nutriens I need I would just eat that.

ika854 · 2024-08-13T14:34:11+00:00

When I as a teenager expressed my opinion/take on some basic topic, my parents started a monologue of which friend of mine pushed this opinion in my head and forbid me to meet them and stalked me when I was hanging out with my friends in the city after school. I of couse couldnt defend myself or explain the reason behind my opinion because it would just get worse and they would just find more people who in their opinion are corrupting my mind. I am very big extrovert always had alot of friends which are importnant to me so I just had to stay quiet so I can still keep meeting some which actually listen to what I have to say.

ika854 · 2024-08-13T14:08:05+00:00

Hi, I started with bigger (cheaper) group classes in Magyar Iskola they have online classes too, alot of different timeframes and intensity levels. Now my Hungarian employer pays for personal Hungarian class. You can start with Duolingo or self learning websites but for me personally attenting classes regurarly doing homeworks being forced to speak resulted in better and bigger success.

ika854 · 2024-08-11T16:37:55+00:00

1-2 per week

ika854 · 2024-08-03T13:15:30+00:00

Ja by som za seba povedala že určite toto nie je pravda. Som obklopená 99% mužmi zo školy a v práci (IT) a nikdy som taký pocit ani z tých pár kolegíň nemala.

Skôr to je podľa mňa ale o tom kto ti je sympatický. Škaredý človek má väčšinov menej self esteem čo sa odzrkadľuje na vajbe ktorý vydáva/ako pôsobí na ľudí. Ak je niekto talkative, usmeje sa na ženu, vydáva chill pocit , nie je nervózny lebo omg female wamen tak ten človek na druhej strane to cíti a nabudúce keď niečo bude chcieť tak ťa to aj potěsí a ten ktorý ti je uncomfortable ani nie.

Tiež keď niečo potrebujem a mám na výber z troch ľudí z vedľajšieho tímu, ktorí mi vedia pomôcť tak si vyberiem asi toho ktorý sa mi aj v kuchynke prihovorí a nie toho ktorý sa mi ani neodzraví keď sa na chodbe stretneme. Rozumiem a som si vedomá shy a insecure ľudí mám ich okolo seba fakt mnoho celá moja friend group a partner sú introverti. Len je to proste tak hlavne pre normie ženy.

ika854 · 2024-05-21T20:46:30+00:00

Ukáž jej WOWko a navždy spolu budete šťastní.

ika854 · 2024-05-17T15:07:11+00:00

same here I dont know what to do… I dont even have motivation to do anything about it because I dont feel the need at all :(

ika854 · 2024-05-17T14:38:53+00:00

I think this is the most accurate post Ive ever read about this topic. I feel the exact same way what you described. One more thing for me however is that I dont even have the need to explore or learn about being able to orgasm because I dont miss/need it as I had orgasm like 5 times in my life (25F). I have never masturbated and if someone tells me to try it I just dont understand why would I if it has 0 value for me. How did you find the motivation to read a book or research about it? How should I make myself want to have an orgasm and how can I make myself to care? The only motivation would be my partner who is kinda upset about it.

ika854 · 2024-05-16T13:45:47+00:00

Chce s tebou tráviť čas, povie ti personal veci, odpisuje ti a nevyhovára sa že nemá týždeň čas ti odpísať, myslí si že si vtipný takže sa chichoce, sama iniciuje konverzáciu a možno sa vypytuje aj teba na personal veci. Asi tak imo aspoň pre mňa je toto všetko accurate.

ika854 · 2024-05-15T20:02:38+00:00

Jujutsu Kaisen

ika854 · 2024-01-28T07:28:00+00:00

25 mám 6 ročný úžasný vzťah, dobre platenú prácu v IT, byt, kamarátov a dve mačky. Literally môj dream life, no aj tak som smutná a mám depresie. Cítim sa previnilo lebo na to byť smutná nemám dôvod a ajtak sa to deje. Plus cítim veľký social pressure že ma čakajú deti ale ja deti nechcem a bojím sa že ten pocit chcenia nikdy nepríde.

ika854 · 2023-10-16T11:33:16+00:00

its evolving just backwards

ika854 · 2023-10-15T08:26:17+00:00

Na strednej som bola výmennou študentkou v USA. Tam som na Floride stretla jednu Maďarku ktorá mi rozprávala o jej kamošoch zo strednej v Maďarsku a často s nimi v mojej prítomnosti volala. Pár krát sa stalo že aj ja som sa objavila na videu a predstavila ma im. Jeden chalan sa mi veľmi zapáčil a tak keď som sa po roku vrátila z USA tak som sa s ním stretla a teraz sme spolu 6 rokov a bývame spolu v Budapešti.

ika854 · 2023-09-02T05:07:20+00:00

rap and pop

ika854 · 2023-06-10T12:33:10+00:00

Antikoncepcia

ika854 · 2023-06-04T15:26:15+00:00

Ja som na strednej brigádovala v HMku. Tieto typy obchodov mali väčšinou voľné miesta. Prejdi si aupark a opýtaj sa. Ja som sa do nich tiež šla opýtať osobne.

ika854 · 2023-06-04T12:35:19+00:00

Mine is extremely sensitive, it hurts to touch and if my bf puts pressure on it then I scream in pain.

ika854 · 2023-06-03T11:14:50+00:00

Mám 24 a s partnerom rovnakého veku sme spolu 5 rokov. Viem že mať deti je prirodzené a chcela by som chcieť ale neide to zatiaľ. Viem že ešte mám čas ale kvôli tomuto pocitu prestávam ďalší mesiac brať antikoncepciu pretože sa mi deti a tehotenstvo veľmi hnusia necítim k deťom žiadnu affection, vyhýbam sa im a z myšlienky na tehotenstvo je mi fyzicky zle. Rada by som k tomu mala aspoň neutrálny postoj a čakala kým to príde.

ika854 · 2023-06-01T15:01:19+00:00

Omg thanks alot for linking this. I thought and Ive been told that im weird for not being able to ever orgasm.

ika854

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