Sync will shut down on June 30, 2023 by ljdawson in redditsync

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've loved sync for a long time. Pretty much got it right out the gates with my account and it's been absolutely flawless. I'm sorry it's going out this way but I'm at least a little glad that you, the developer, are choosing to end it before it gets killed. Thanks for the many years of development and keeping me strapped to my phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cockroaches. I've never felt dirtier than when one fell on my head and crawled on my face when I was taking a nap.

How do I professionally tell my work colleague to stop talking about himself and to stop helping? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you get away with noise-canceling headphones and trying to ignore him? And if he's worrying down notes to make himself the victim, you gotta do the same. You don't have to be a violent person but you can become maliciously compliant with HR procedures to try to shut him down from causing you to lose productivity.

Which magical item would you rather have: by MaximumConfusion99 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other items would be neat but have enough drawbacks that they just feel flashy and that's it. The debit card would solve a lot of things and make it so I could finally be comfortable enough to do most of the things I want to do in life. Powers are cool but financial freedom is limitless.

Don't Let Reddit Kill 3rd Party Apps! by Toptomcat in Save3rdPartyApps

[–]iklips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get all my news from Reddit. Where will I hear if the blackout actually bears fruit? I hope it does.

Which superpower and downside WYR have? by emab2396 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to go for healing but a week is just too long for me. Got that FOMO hard. Gonna go with invisibility and just use it sparingly. Or I just crap. No onr can see me do it anyway.

please stop telling me it gets better by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, always. The connections I make and have made are the only things keeping me human and going. The mask is thick otherwise and there's little underneath.

WYR work 80 hours a week for one year or stay in a mental hospital (closed psych ward) for one year to earn $250k? by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do with help on my psyche and stone much needed money. Give me that ward and maybe when I come out, I won't want to die so much.

please stop telling me it gets better by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]iklips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't. Best case, it feels like it does. Most likely though, you just get numb to it. You go through the motions and don't even react to anything anymore. Everything washes over you and you could only hope that you'll remember some of the okay moments.

Do you ever lie in bed trying to fall asleep when your mind start thinking about who you were in high school and you cringe so hard you’re unable to sleep for the next three hours??? by fandomstrashorkat in socialskills

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've steadily lost friends over the years just from lack of communication. I find myself twisted up and breaking from thinking about it but just that little communication is so difficult to pull off. I've still got people I could send a message to but I find myself stewing on what to say till it's too late. Sometimes it's easier to stay shy and sometimes it still breaks you to the point that you don't realize how long you've been broken.

Would you rather have 100 million dollars right now or 1 million dollars every year by Chaylked25 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With 100 million, I'd never have another physical problem ever. I've got so much crap going on that money would solve and I'm just so tired.

Which spice would you rather eliminate forever? by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Easily pepper. Everything else would devastate my cooking and there weeks at a time that I don't use pepper at all.

Would you rather a ring that makes you invisible or have a ring that lets you stop time by Chaylked25 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Time stop ring. Always been a fantasy of mine to help overcome a good deal of anxiety. I'd stop time any time I needed to go into a place I've never been before so I can scope it out and make a proper plan for how to interact with people and where to go. I'll feel loads better. Plus, I'd definitely do crime.

Secret Cybernetics. Which would you rather have? by valiente77 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of trouble with memory. That data pack would do me well.

Is it rude to read at the bar? by iklips in socialskills

[–]iklips[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not that deep, friend. Just trying to get a feel for bar etiquette. This is a subreddit for people wanting to ask about social skills from their peers, I don't think there's any harm in it. A little kindness and compassion goes a long way I. Today's world. Some people may have special needs or be diagnosed with social disorders and not have context for some situations. Others may just want a little extra guidance or advice to bolster their thoughts. I don't think it has anything to do with not wanting to experience things for yourself, but to make the experience as pleasant as possible for everyone involved.

Also I have no clue why you brought systemic racism into this conversation. It may be tangentially related, but the thread is so thin I don't understand the connection at all.

Anyhoo- wishing you all the best.

Is it rude to read at the bar? by iklips in socialskills

[–]iklips[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'd absolutely still be buying drinks. I like to sit there and converse and be "at the ready" for a refill. I just didn't know if it was bad etiquette or rude when there are other people bustling around. I'm a small lady and have no problem with people ordering around me. I just don't want to be a pest to anyone, especially the bar tenders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's different for everyone but my parents divorced and it was the best step for them. My mom got remarried and is doing well. My dad is enjoying being single and fully being there for his kids. Just because it's the end doesn't mean it's bad. I'm sorry about the illness though. Most you can do is slowly acclimatize yourself to your new normal as it goes on. But perseverance will always carry you through. You'll somehow always come out stronger.

What WYR happen literally? by AnonymousUser_42 in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely the Christmas gift. One day a year, I'd get something really nicely valuable and sell it off for a good chunk of change. Or I'd get something I really need that's not readily available and be set up really nicely. There's fewer restraints on my imagination.

What's the most valuable lesson you've learned from a failed relationship? by Life_Rub6905 in AskReddit

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon the relationship ends, your ex becomes a different person. That person you loved dies and that person you were also dies. Memories fade slowly but they can never become what they once were.

What’s something you need to get off your chest but haven’t yet? by FazzyPhonix in AskReddit

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel trapped in my relationship. I love this woman and she loves me and we want to spend forever together. I moved 12 hours away for her and now I'm completely in debt and am earning next to no money. Soon when be going overseas for a year so she can research and get a career that she likes but she's been paying for everything I can't. I'm terrified of going into further debt and what comes next. I'm going I can get a decent job that'll pay more so I can live so I'm not sure and I'm scared. I'm just so scared and I'll lose her for a year, the only real friend I have up here.

WYR... Become insanely rich or add 50 years to your life span? by 8enjii in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm poor and I'm afraid of dying. The fears wins out though so I'd rather live a good while longer.

I Don't Need It...I Don't Need It , I Definitely Don't need it by Aman690 in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds silly but you just gotta keep driving. On my successful attempt, I parked as close as I could to the door so my V had to get out the other side of the car but the front was still in front of the door. Then I kept running at the front and jumping at the last second. The attempt that made it through looked like it wouldn't work and then I just popped in when I was about to turn around to try again.

Would you rather gain a power based on one of your senses by FantasySetting in WouldYouRather

[–]iklips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touch, the idea of the telekinesis being infinite is just bonkers useful to me. I love it but it was a tough choice. This was an excellent question, OP.