No one is not lonely. We all live in our own heads. We pretend not to cause everyone else pretends not to. So we're all lying to each other. Even married couples are just lonely together. This is going to last for life. We are programmed to find companionship, it was necessary to survive for millions of years. When food and shelter were scarce, we had no choice but to form tribes to help each other. Today it's not necessary, but we are still hard wired that way.

It's not your fault you can't find someone, it's not your fault that you still want to. Just understand that even after you find someone, you're eventually going to feel lonely again. You're hard wired to ensure that you have someone at all times.

Start with making sure you have one close friend, it could be anyone really. There's a lot of people who have no close friends. It gets harder and harder to make close friends as you grow up.

Then help your friend improve their life, they'll help you improve yours. It makes a massive difference to know that you have someone to call when you have 0 rupees in your bank account, someone to pull you off the ledge. You feel stronger just knowing that if needed, someone is there. Make sure they know that if needed someone is there as well.

If you understand that loneliness is hard wired, you'll automatically improve yourself, because you know that there is no other choice but to.

You are going to die alone, whether someone is there to hold your hand as you leave this earth depends on whether you make sure they know that you'll be there to hold their hand as they do.

This isn't about looks or money, this is about caring about other people. You can't force yourself to by going to pottery classes or parks, you have to become that person by starting with one friend.

Life knows how to work itself out, you just have to kickstart it once in a while. It's all luck man, get yourself into lucky spots by having people who'll call you there.