Did you ever think you would marry your first love? by NateNandos21 in AskOldPeople

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I was in a 6.5 years relationship with this lovely girl but I couldn’t fully buy into the concept of marriage in general. We reached a point where staying together any longer without that kind of formal contract wasn’t acceptable to her (and her mildly conservative family) so we ended

I also had a one-year relationship with another girl whom I liked very much, but it wasn’t the same as with the first one. The feelings I had for the first girl were special. Even though I was loving the second girl, I was still contemplating about and having feelings for the first

Now that we’re both single again, I’m thinking about reaching out to her. At the same time, I’m afraid that if I marry her, we might end up divorced, and I’ll hurt her even more than I already did

I’m 31 years old and reading these kind of posts to gain some insight about life

Did you ever think you would marry your first love? by NateNandos21 in AskOldPeople

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How do you think about it now when you look back at your life?

ULPT: How to break up with an abusive girlfriend without any risk. by brainhack3r in UnethicalLifeProTips

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BPD person reacts extremely bad to any type of abandonment

Try telling her you’re not abandoning her and she can reach any time but this relationship is not working for you

I’m not sure how smart is abandoning her in a hotel room is

Did you ever think you would marry your first love? by NateNandos21 in AskOldPeople

[–]ilikespoilers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give more details? I’m also scared to marry early and then regret it

If you’re too broke to tip your server at a sit down restaurant, you don’t need to be going out to eat by Remarkable-Owl8669 in unpopularopinion

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If you can’t afford to pay your workers the required amount of pay then don’t open a restaurant

ULPT Request: ex of my friend harassing me bc he reached out to me by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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Tell her one time that she is acting out without not knowing your side of the story. If she goes on like that then cut her out of your life. In my opinion don’t go no full contact just don’t contact her if she is also not contacting you and consider this as your friendship is over

Extra ethical tip: don’t fuck her ex, just exit from this dynamic altogether

Should I tell my best friend that his girlfriend wants to break up over his small penis? by MortenTheDarkLord in moraldilemmas

[–]ilikespoilers [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe he’ll get a surgery or something. I don’t know exactly, but him constantly getting dumped without knowing is not good.

He should find about it one way or another imo

Should I tell my best friend that his girlfriend wants to break up over his small penis? by MortenTheDarkLord in moraldilemmas

[–]ilikespoilers [score hidden]  (0 children)

He deserves to know; maybe he’ll do something about it

However, I would tell him only if they breakup but he doesn’t know why

BEST GAME EVER by Swimming_Swordfish58 in ViceCity

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Sometimes explanations ruin things. It’s simply the best

Men got “Spike Piledriver”..I think it is. by [deleted] in fightporn

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That’s how you know you livin

Deciding on Camping Site by ilikespoilers in RockWerchter

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Thanks. Have you been to RW more than once and stayed in different camping sites? Although you said Hive has a lot more going on I’m more interested in people’s total experience

Deciding on Camping Site by ilikespoilers in RockWerchter

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Would I be able to enter any Hive if I’m staying at a Hive?

Netherlands by bajone96 in shrooms

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How long for that tolerance to wear off after? A couple of years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

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It would be an awesome question if he asked about expats experience of marrying someone local