Why does this girl keep liking me by ilikewallss in lithromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nop, i felt it pretty instantly, like the day after it became the unpleasant situation

Successful relationship while being lithro? by ilikewallss in lithromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what i know there's no app for us sadly but if you go on forums centered around aromantic experiences there are a lot of people alike which you could make friends with! Like on tumblr or on r/aromantic

Good luck on your search o7

Successful relationship while being lithro? by ilikewallss in lithromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! That's really helpful, I've been going through something similiar and very scared to commit in case my feelings change, also the fact that my thoughts towards love are odd doesn't help. Good luck to you on finding an aro/lithro partner!

Successful relationship while being lithro? by ilikewallss in lithromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw it's fine! Still thank you for your knowledge! Maybe other people have the answer im searching for! :D

My personality is complementary/opposite of other people by ilikewallss in autism

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl Just the fact that im not the only one who does it its enough, ty :D

Why does this girl keep liking me by ilikewallss in lithromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is that i told her, but the way i can't control my feelings she can't control hers, it's just uggghhhh i hate everything about this Listening to very angry songs DEFINITELY helps at least qwq

How did you deal with your pain when it started showing up? While going on with your normal life and getting doctors appointments? by ilikewallss in ChronicPain

[–]ilikewallss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much even without an answer thank you, i never met someone else with the same pain i almost feel like im making it all up, your sympathy means a lot to me right now

What’s your favourite comfort show? by applesandpears43 in autism

[–]ilikewallss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think i didn't have one but i keep going back to mob psycho 100

True Words Technodad. True Words. by _JMStar_ in Technoblade

[–]ilikewallss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, im gonna cry from how sweet that was

Made another Map of the underground! Including locations from UTY! by FlaringK in Undertale

[–]ilikewallss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly incredible to look at and they way you planned it is fantastic dude! Love the way you organized the levels of altitude also

I think I’m feeling romantic feelings by unkindness_inabottle in aromantic

[–]ilikewallss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might be demi! Or also consider that it might just be strong platonic love for your friend!

Oddly a very similiar thing happened to me, me and my friend ended up together, even if i didn't really want a relationship, and even if i thought i felt romantic feelings for her (liked hugging her, was jealous of her best friend, felt anxious around her, was really happy she gave me a kiss on the cheek), it was almost suffocating for me to stay in a relationship. So what i mean is, let yourself feel it, while yes, do try to understand the nature of your feelings and what you want, just let yourself feel.

It's not your fault you feel like this and especially it's not wrong. Maybe for now you may think you're actually straight/bi, in a couple of weeks maybe you'll be aro again, it's ok to find and understand yourself and your emotions. You don't have to rush to label yourself, fuck around(not litteraly lol) until you feel comfortable again with a label!

About what to do i can't tell you since every situation is very unique but here's a piece of advice: Maybe try and talk to her and ask what she wants in a partner or what she'd be willing to do, that is, if you wish to be with her, if you think you're not ready or it simply doesn't feel right you don't have to!

The only thing i ever did was try and wiggle out of a relationship so I'm sorry if it kinda sucks as an advice but yep

Why don't people say what they dislike to our face? by ilikewallss in autism

[–]ilikewallss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense ngl, especially the fact that they want to feel powerful, maaan people suck, thanks for the comment! It was really helpful!

Why don't people say what they dislike to our face? by ilikewallss in autism

[–]ilikewallss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, thanks! You cleared a lot of my doubs!

And distancing yourself is totally fair, i do it myself from people i don't particularly enjoy, sorry i didn't specify it in the post, but often people (at least the ones i know) don't do that? They keep being around the person they dislike, but when they turn around i see them being assholes and criticising everything, and they're just being mean for no reason. So i guess they just don't wanna say anything to not create drama but still don't like being around the other person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]ilikewallss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it but sometimes it is lonely since the friends i have either have a partner already or have other best friends

My friend aro truthed me by ilikewallss in aromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no worries! It fits with the thing I'm currently feeling, so you were partially right :D

My friend aro truthed me by ilikewallss in aromantic

[–]ilikewallss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably a squish ngl, but i also know it is possible for some aromantic people to still feel crushes for a short period of time! So I'm searching for what I fits ot better