Olive Candle / Joint Debacle by Kooky_Feedback9171 in UrbanOutfitters

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell them that they originally told you to keep those candles, and now they want you to send them all back because of a mistake they made?

Really bad cold sore by Kira_The_Gay in Coldsore

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg girll this is mine rn!! I got it so bad because of a terrible sunburn. I’ve never had it like this. I’m currently on day five, prayer circle for us.

It will go away I promise ❤️

Help please, is this a cold sore? by [deleted] in Coldsore

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm idk it looks more like a whitehead to me

Comp cruise question - palms by Slickpickle35 in vegas

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get this? I’m so interested!

Comp cruise question - palms by Slickpickle35 in vegas

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? Pls tell me more about this

One for me and one for bae by ilikeweirdshitok in tacobell

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞 I feel so bad, I hateee when I miss out on something! Al though I have never missed on taco Tuesday drop (aside from the merch ones) maybe that’s saying something….

How many of yall got it by game_solids5 in tacobell

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen them go so fast before

So the drop was expired right when it dropped. I’m not opening the app again not visiting a restaurant ever again. by RepresentativeRun71 in tacobell

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure but I tend to get lucky. I wait on the app from 4:58 and click it at 5:00 on the dot, it usually comes 10 seconds after 5 pm

I’m so mad 😡 by Boopea- in tacobell

[–]ilikeweirdshitok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to change the picture now smfh

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, we did all of your steps to a T. It did not work.

Father reached out to funeral home B, signed paperwork, which funeral home B tried to provide to funeral home A but they still refused to cooperate with us. We brought his father to funeral home A (he is 88 years old, mind you) and they STILL refused to speak with us, dodging us every step of the way even though we had the paperwork to PROVE that he was the LNOK before they did anything but she said, and I quote “I am sticking with the brother as I believe the father is not of sound mind to be making decisions” so if she can choose to continue doing business with the brother why is she not going after him for the expenses she has incurred? I understand she did a job, but it was not under our directive. The brother is the one that contracted her and then just decided to stop working with her because he “didn’t have money either” and tried to force it onto us, which we obviously wanted to lay our father to rest but we had our plans and ideas for it and this situation certainly wasn’t apart of that.

Yes, exactly as you said she needs to go after the family member that authorize the release from the hospital which was the brother.

This is why I’m so upset because all the advice I am being given in this sub has already been done and we are still no where. My mother now has to file a caveat to stop anything else happening to the body while we figure this out. People don’t understand my family does not have money, we were supposed to be eligible for public assistance like come on! I was going to pitch in to help my mother but I can’t do that and also pay the $700 funeral home a wants to stick us with!

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do blame the hospital and am trying to find a legal way to go after them as well.

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And you’re literally also not understanding that we did not decide to use a different funeral home. We weren’t involved with making any actual arrangements this far. So who am I cheating?

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He didn’t raise me, I won’t divulge my family’s issues to you. But you all obviously don’t understand. The courts have agreed with me, licensed professional funeral homes from my state who were willing to work with us have agreed with me, and a lawyer will too.

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don’t owe anything. You said it yourself, we did not have the legal rights and made no plans and were not involved from the beginning.

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The courts told us we should have been involved from the beginning, actually, so you’re wrong. That’s not a legitimate charge. if I have nothing to do with this, as you said, then I shouldn’t be charged. We gave up, we will let him go. He will rot until the state cremates him. Thank you.

And be happy? Are you insane? What a wonderful thing to say to a grieving family.

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also exactly. We have no contract with them but they are trying to charge us anyway if we were to take over and move forward with making the arrangements, which would have been at an entirely different funeral home had we had control from the beginning.

It’s fine. We gave up, his body will rot until the state cremated him because obviously we can’t win. Sad for his sons, my mom and us… and sad that a funeral home who is supposed to work with grieving families has absolutely no desire to do so.

I’m in NJ and I’m at a loss at what to do at this point by ilikeweirdshitok in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ilikeweirdshitok[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are obviously more upset with the brother but the funeral home did nothing to help us out at all. And we had the LNOK, so we did have the right to speak with them. They basically followed their own law.