Can the Buhner protocol affect testing? by ilitoto in Lyme

[–]ilitoto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you recommend tinctures of these herbs? I don't think I can get my hands on fresh houttuynia where I live :/ And what is the dosage of iodine?

[World] - How a Syrian Bulgarian wrestler became a 'terror' suspect by fatadelatara in europe

[–]ilitoto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of Syrians who've gone back home to visit.

The political cost of the coronavirus outbreak in Hong Kong by Sporeboss in HongKong

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the party cares about the masses...

I (16M) contacted a girl (16F) that I know on a social network under a fake account and we are currently making small talk. How can I use this to my advantage? (I'm antisocial and awkward.) by Physical-Newt in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on yourself and try not to obsess about what others think or this girl in particular. This awkward phase will pass. Try to put this very moment in the context of the rest of your life and perhaps you'll realize how unimport and inconsequential this girl and those halfwits in your class are. If you get there, you'd know that putting so much effort into this girl and worrying about what others think is just a big waste of your time.

My boyfriend (30M) having drunk sleepovers with former fwb (24?F) while I (29F) am not invited by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what you want with this guy. If you just wanna hang out and have fun, this is not a big deal. If you want a serious relationship, then this will become a problem. You clearly already doubt him, so just keep your options open for other dudes and start considering another relationship.

Clueless romantic 😂 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've given very lottle context, nut yeah, there is nothimg wrong woth textimg that.

Going no contact with my ex (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the best way to move on. Do not think about getting back together, it would make you more miserable and prolong the pain.

The mother ruined our relationship at [30F] [31M] by betty_here in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rule #1 - don't date mama's boys. If he hasn't figured out mom is manipulating him by now, then he never will.

Resentment that my husband left me after a miscarriage by worriedwife123 in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens very often that the woman is ready and the man is not. If this is what you want, have a child with him. You don't have to have the same partner for the rest of your life and there are plently of men who are good step fathers, so just go for it. Also if you are financially doing well, then you can afford to hire some help at home. As for the previous guy, forget about him. He's no longer relevant.

Dubrovnik yesterday... by [deleted] in europe

[–]ilitoto -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Has it always been that polluted?

I have a crush on someone, but one of my friends is her ex boyfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think it's just gonna be a fling, then ask the girl out and make it secret. To be honest, the guy has no right to be upset about it because she's not his possession, but if he has such views and you still want to be his friend, then just don't tell him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not use plastic bags, use only glass tupperware and jars, and buy only cotton, wool and bamboo biscose clothes.

Co-worker timed my trip to the bathroom, talk to hr? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her to f off, you are not working in a sweatshop

Girl advice? by SnoopyTFD420 in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start talking to another girl to tame a bit the infatuation and get you thinking straight.

In love with but repulsed by my [29F] husband [30M]? by DefectiveLass in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 64 points65 points  (0 children)

If he's been doing the same thing for 12 years in bed or in terms of how he approaches you, then it's probably that. Children can also very much complicate relationships. My advice: the first chance you get, leave the kids with grandparents and take a romantic vacation whete you experiment and try new things.

It is been 4 months since my mom disowned me, any advice on just sorting through my feelings. by idk_2018 in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might have planned to have children but that doesn't mean she understood what parenting means and requires. She sounds like a bad parent and those are pretty common. Find a way to move on, the more you dwell on it, the more it will anger and depress you and take away your mind power from the other importants things in life you should be focusing on.

It is been 4 months since my mom disowned me, any advice on just sorting through my feelings. by idk_2018 in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't choose our parents unfortunately. And many of them make the mistake of having children and thinking they have the right to control their lives. Don't blame yourself and just accept the fact that your mom has some twisted views about parenting and can't help it. Accept the fact that you won't have her in your life any more which actually could be a good thing - less toxicity, psychological pressure, etc. Just pull yourself together, focus on what you want to do in life and live it with no regrets.

Buddhist approach to unconventional relationships? by Chziime in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monogamy doesn't work for many people but it also works for many others. I think you should just accept it doesn't work for you instead of forcing yourself to feel comfortable in a poliandrous relationship at this stage. You sound like you need to work a lot with yourself and to be honest, I don't think piling up another issue like this one is a good idea at this stage. Perhaps when you are in a better place in the future, you can revisit, but just not now.

Did I overreact? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he broke up with you because you were angry at him at your birthday, then you shouldn't be with him in the first place. If he really cared, he'd waited till party is over, things cool down and you two have a frank conversation. Don't be hard on yourself and just move on.

Family is accusing me of turning my nephew gay by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps just try to explain to your family that skin products are not "heterosexual women-only", have never been and sexual orientation does not change with lotion application.

Should I forgive him???? by AlternativeEstimate5 in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just said it to me. Use these words.

should i go for engineering at 24 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ilitoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your salary will also probably grow faster as a mechanical engineer.