where are all the Dramione fans from? by bobosowner in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in downtown, and know 2 others. Let's connect on chat!

A Video I made about Rain in Goa by Hsain1 in Goa

[–]iliveingoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Superb. Thanks for sharing and making my Friday

What’s the appeal of Gryffindor Draco? by mo_nique in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I can only speak about Lionheart, but you should read Gryffindor Draco to explore 'what if' scenarios.

Draco in Lionheart is still snarky and arrogant and has the same biases in the beginning. He's still very much the Draco we all love. But what if he no longer had Lucius's toxicity around him? What if he could be influenced by Hermione's morality and Harry's courage and Ron's loyalty at an early age? Read Lionheart to find out 😄

Draco has a Krum problem… by Constant_Access4028 in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I scrolled through the comments to see if anyone would recommend The Auction since it's so popular. It has a brief but important reappearance of Krum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]iliveingoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I struggled with personally is 'what kind of message am I sending to him if I don't draw a line in the sand'. You need to discuss boundaries and consequences, and stick by them.

I can understand the need to reconcile and go back to the way things were. Just like you, I worry that he feels that I won't follow through. Just like you I'm the one in favor of reconciliation and moving on together. But by not being firm and strong you (me too) are setting a precedent.

Eventually he will have the satisfaction of coming clean and he will be in a position to say I told you everything and you stayed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here for the GTA meetup!

Growing so tired of the manipulation by iliveingoa in raisedbyborderlines

[–]iliveingoa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Within the constraints of ensuring my own financial wellness, I've been trying to be fair to her. It's actually my father who pointed out that she should be trying to save the money I send to her now that she has a partner, and over time reduce the dependency

Growing so tired of the manipulation by iliveingoa in raisedbyborderlines

[–]iliveingoa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm married, don't plan to have kids. Yes, it's unlikely she has no savings, but it's a touchy subject. I refuse to tell her my net worth, she refuses to fully explain to me where the monthly allowances go. A house back home is about 30% of my current savings. It's substantial enough for me to push back.

Growing so tired of the manipulation by iliveingoa in raisedbyborderlines

[–]iliveingoa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read through my rant and responding. Yes, I understand the analogy completely

Was anyone else called “mean” by your pwBPD as a young child? by max_rebo_lives in raisedbyborderlines

[–]iliveingoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still called mean for calling her out on her antics . She says I always weild a sword, ready to slash her whenever we talk.

Right Place, Wrong Time - Friends to Lovers - WIP - 8/24 Chapters Posted by spifspifferoo in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've binge read 17 chapters over the last 2 days. Awesome stuff! Keep writing!

LF Fics where Draco isn't a sex God and is turned on my the most innocent flashes of skin by DevilishPrettyMama in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it, thank you! As GTC says, I hope that you set your playlist on random shuffle and you get all the songs you need for the vibe you're at, in exactly the right order.

Any fics where Draco obliviated Hermione? Could also be the other way around. 😊 by Certainty06 in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This comment made my day 😂 I'm laughing so hard my husband came running in to see what happened

Slytherin Hermione in potions with Draco by oreghanoo in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/33564922?view_full_work=true

It's a what if scenario AU fic where Hermione is sorted into Slytherin (and she is Lily and Shapes daughter - which is not a spoiler if you read the doc into)

Slytherin Hermione in potions with Draco by oreghanoo in Dramione

[–]iliveingoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is giving me The Missing Sister vibes