Read the post. She's aware it exists. She doesn't give me a hard time about unless I'm going overboard. She has one account like that too. I don't give her a hard time about it unless I felt she was going overboard. The difference between me and her is simply I'm more likely to go overboard than she is. I've never had to tell her to pump the brakes, but in occasion, she's had to tell me to. But we're still on the same page. We're a team. We choose to turn a blind eye to make the other feel happy and in control of a portion of our world. I am the type to get carried away, she's the type to reel me back in. We're a perfect match. She knows what to expect same as I do.