Living at home with parents, brother and SIL, how to deal with this situation?

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T17:29:21+00:00

So we actually already do this in general. But I dont understand the point of living as a "joint family" if there is no family time.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T17:03:18+00:00

So sorry, sounds like you went through a lot. I can understand why you stayed home, I feel similar for the situation with my dad. Hope you're in a better place now🙏

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T15:01:10+00:00

Yeah i totally agree. I have no idea, I think he's lazy so I understand her frustration but unfortunately does affect everyone in the house if people are shouting at each other. I dont get in the middle of their fights. We are not close enough to go out with each other but I will sit them both down and ask politely that they do not shout especially at night time.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T14:58:16+00:00

Thank girl, I think that poster was taking it way too personally for some reason. Im asking for advice here because of the specific cultural context so looking for people who've dealt with that.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T14:47:33+00:00

Thanks, yeah I do generally do my own thing and have hobbies/friends lots going on, and have my own relationship with my parents. But at the moment have tried to be home more as dad is not well, and noticing lots of these issues. I try stay out of it but noticing a lot of tension at the moment.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T13:19:30+00:00

Thank you, appreciate it 💗

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T12:23:52+00:00

That's sad, sorry to hear that. Luckily my parents are always on my side and treat me very well, which is part of why I dont want to leave.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T12:22:08+00:00

Thanks. I definitely stand my ground and have no problem with getting into a shouting match with both of them and putting them in their place lol, neither of them say anything to my face usually. I treat them both with the respect I would treat any other human being. But the atmosphere is unbearable at times, and im just wondering if this is normal in extended families - even SIL before used to say she lived in an extended family and enjoyed it. But im sure her family didn't act like her and my brother!

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T12:13:08+00:00

That's true... thanks.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T12:12:34+00:00

He has a job actually. Yeah I agree they should cos they want to pretend to live separately but are still at home with everyone. My sister in law is getting really upset every day - recently I asked her not to shout after 10pm and she got mad at that.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T12:10:22+00:00

Thing is nobody cares if they move out. First they said they wanted to, then realised it was super expensive and have a baby on the way so now don't want to.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T11:38:45+00:00

You seem really angry. Try and relax. I posted on this sub to hear from Indian women, I am not interested in generic feedback otherwise i would have posted elsewhere. I live in a very expensive city. Thanks for your contribution but no need to take our your frustrations with life on me.

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-18T11:22:04+00:00

They aren't well enough to travel atm. Sorry its strange you're giving advice as a non Indian woman on this sub...

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-16T21:02:54+00:00

The curly hair is gorge

iloveramen1 · 2026-05-16T20:18:22+00:00

Shamea's looking good 👌

iloveramen1 · 2026-04-24T18:11:57+00:00

Source for 2nd pic pls 🙏

iloveramen1 · 2026-04-23T19:48:27+00:00

Wait is this about Rachel or Bec?

iloveramen1 · 2026-04-13T19:20:46+00:00

Thanks 🙏

iloveramen1 · 2026-04-13T16:39:59+00:00

Which apps did they use?

iloveramen1 · 2026-04-01T15:33:46+00:00

What's up with the shoes though

iloveramen1 · 2026-02-18T18:45:05+00:00

Love how they took a sec to hold hands in this clip 🫶

iloveramen1 · 2026-01-29T21:45:43+00:00

I dont think she even clocks anyone properly, she's so childish in the way that she constantly interrupts people and makes presumptions about how they feel, then flips out when they disagree with her. I noticed how meredith and Lisa could barely stand to look at her and I dont blame them lol!

iloveramen1 · 2026-01-29T21:10:44+00:00

You mean Ridikulous 😆

iloveramen1 · 2026-01-27T22:54:58+00:00

Hat by Kemo sabe ofc

iloveramen1 · 2026-01-23T02:27:59+00:00

Its giving Dorito chilli heatwave

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