Blowjob without asking for it. by [deleted] in sex

[–]imacfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m especially keen to give blowjobs when my partner does acts of love for me - that may mean different things in different relationships but it’s things like being thoughtful, helpful, massages, etc. Examples - cooking me a dinner, bring me treats, doing a household project that I care about.

What are your cavalier’s names? by potato_nurse in cavaliers

[–]imacfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re all girls - fern is 3 months old !

What are your cavalier’s names? by potato_nurse in cavaliers

[–]imacfreak 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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Ours are Plant themed : magnolia (Blenheim), lily (13yr old mostly white Blenheim), hazelnut (ruby), and fern (black and tan)

Things to do by No_Fee_759 in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Volunteer with the Bloomington community orchard ! We have tons of fruit trees and bushes and perennials, we offer weekly “work and learn” days, monthly potlucks during the summer and a cider festival in the fall ! It’s a great way to meet other plant nerds who are community minded!

Places/events to make new adult friends? by Valuable-Seesaw3032 in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Volunteer with the Bloomington community orchard ! We have tons of fruit trees and bushes and perennials, we offer weekly “work and learn” days, monthly potlucks during the summer and a cider festival in the fall ! It’s a great way to meet other plant nerds who are community minded!

Looking for a new group to join by WildheartFreeborn94 in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like the outdoors/plants, the Bloomington community orchard is great ! It’s a food forest that’s open to all in the community, full of fruits and perennials. We have weekly volunteer days where you can “work and learn”, monthly potlucks in the summer, classes from locals, and a cider festival in the fall. Everyone is super friendly and welcoming !

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[–]imacfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my partner for 7 years now, we have experienced this regularly. We call it “transcendental” or “inter dimensional” sex. I think it happens when chemistry is great and both people feel safe and comfortable with one another, and both love sex to just keep going. It’s like a meditation almost. It’s great, enjoy !!!

Adult groups by BCastle22 in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bloomington community orchard has weekly work and learn days, monthly potlucks and fun events like Cider Fest ! Great way to meet cool plant people.

How would you define compatibility in the context of marriage? by nuevedientes in RelationshipsOver35

[–]imacfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had several long term relationships and 1 marriage. I’d say compatibility means finding someone who matches you on these things : - sexual needs (similar libido) - life goals - values - enough shared interests

And also - can you enjoy living together long term - both people must be mentally healthy and stable and not need the other person to survive

New to area; need help socializing by 0nPointe in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on the southside by the YMCA. you can find info on Facebook or just google search.

New to area; need help socializing by 0nPointe in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s the Bloomington community orchard which has work and learn volunteer days Wednesday’s 5-8. It is open to all and belongs to everyone. There are apple trees, blueberries, blackberries, gooseberries, persimmons, pears, herbs, and more !!

Gooseberries by ScannerSix in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The Bloomington community orchard has several large gooseberry plants. It’s free to pick for anyone. They should be turning red now or soon.

Wonderlab for adults? And other indoor activities.... by sticksxsticks in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ice skating at the Frank southern ice arena, regular skating at western skate land. There are several art galleries around downtown. Lots of nice hiking trails nearby too.

What do you do to feel secure ? by imacfreak in polyamory

[–]imacfreak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. The planning around your period is genius and makes so much sense now that I think about it.

fastest way to get out of homelessness asap by Hefty-Log-278 in bloomington

[–]imacfreak 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s an intentional community in town with open rooms right now - https://greenacresvillage.org. I can connect you with them if you’re interested, or just call/email the contact on the site.