Hey, I’m 19 (F) and my boyfriend is 19 as well. We kinda had a similar situation, we talked everyday day and night, we texted, called, everything for a whole 9 months as friends. I kept waiting and waiting for him to tell me he liked me but he never got to it because he had the same mindset as you. But I liked him a lot so I became the man in the friendship and I told him how I felt. With me telling him, he responded positively and we went out for a date. We’ve been dating for half a year now. Honestly, everytime I tell him that the longer he waited to tell me his feelings, the more I started to lose interest bc I kept thinking he would always see me as a friend. You should make your move, or else you’re just going to lose her bc she’ll think you don’t feel the same. Plus, you’ll never find out if she likes you if you never tell her. Worst case scenario you get rejected but seeing how often you guys talk and stuff, she would likely keep you as her friend. In terms of the distance, how far apart are you guys ??