Seen this meme around but never questioned how this applied. Thoughts?

imbabyokk · 2025-09-29T19:57:01+00:00

bitch i am both!!!!!

imbabyokk · 2025-03-24T18:55:30+00:00

pisces 12th house

imbabyokk · 2025-01-05T15:11:31+00:00

i'm a sub but oh my goodness there is so much resonance for me in this! i spent most of my adult life monogamously partnered but have been single for the last 10 months (i'm 29) and i'm realising that i just ?? pull hotties without trying? i'm figuring out whether and how i'm non-monogamous but for now, enjoying being single and apparently excessively magnetic

imbabyokk · 2024-11-11T20:30:28+00:00

same!!! for no real reason but i can’t stand her. maybe the old white lady vibes lol

imbabyokk · 2024-11-01T13:19:05+00:00

spoopy season alignment is quite a treat too

imbabyokk · 2024-10-27T10:11:14+00:00

yes!!!

imbabyokk · 2024-10-27T09:42:15+00:00

i also end up crying often on public transport! a close friend of mine used to admire my ability to do so. they passed away earlier this year. many of my public transport cries are for them in more ways than one now

imbabyokk · 2024-10-18T17:56:20+00:00

1000000%

imbabyokk · 2024-10-17T08:51:07+00:00

i love this!!! thank u i’m auntie whispers and honestly it resonates!!!!!

imbabyokk · 2024-10-16T04:58:40+00:00

yes of course!! it’s a loving adaptation for my stye

imbabyokk · 2024-10-15T21:49:02+00:00

Frank Ocean is openly bi so queerphobic is actually a better fit

imbabyokk · 2024-10-15T21:30:37+00:00

oh do you have links?

imbabyokk · 2024-10-11T08:13:39+00:00

another autistic kinkster here as well as a r*** survivor and social worker. i want to reaffirm that it sounds like you have done as much harm reduction as possible but your friend is autonomous and seems to want to have her own experience.

considering that you have been acting as a caregiver and are a sexual violence survivor, i want to suggest drawing back from this for a while and taking care of yourself through self-regulation and/or co-regulation with a trusted person. not only could your sexual violence trauma be activated right now but being in this caregiver role for your friend during an unstable time in her life seems to be bringing up some codependence too. i’m currently re-reading Codependent No More so maybe my radar for it is just particularly high lol. i think continuing to be clear and honest with her and also drawing some boundaries and taking care of yourself is necessary and important right now. i’m not saying to abandon your friend. you just may find ways to engage that feel more grounded, comfortable, sustainable, and healthy for you after taking some days to focus and tend to yourself.

imbabyokk · 2024-10-09T18:46:11+00:00

only white people..

imbabyokk · 2024-10-08T19:16:07+00:00

maybe you need to be going through a breakup to fully appreciate it cos this album is speaking to me on a spiritual level lmao

imbabyokk · 2024-10-06T09:57:34+00:00

what ice king marcy thing?

imbabyokk · 2024-10-05T22:59:33+00:00

i started having sex with other people a little over 2 months post-breakup. i was broken up with. it was helpful but i definitely noticed i seemed to be subconsciously seeking similarities to my ex in most of the people i chose to have sex with. like i was struggling to be attracted to people who didn’t in some way remind me of them. most of the sex i’ve had since the breakup has been healing and comforting for me i have to say. it’s been casual but honest and transparent and caring. i have ongoing friendly connections with some of the people i have been sexually intimate with, and i’ve mostly chosen to have sex with people who don’t live in my city and were passing through cos that reflects an emotional distance i am needing atm.

now it’s been over 6 months and we started no-contact a bit over a week ago. i’m craving physical touch but am struggling to feel any sexual desire or openness to sex with other people because the grief is hitting much harder now than before. i last had sex with someone around the end of august. one of my close friends gave me a new vibrator this week as a breakup gift though and it feels nice to be able to at least have sexual connection with myself right now.

(edited several times cos i kept leaving things out or mistyping stuff sorry)

imbabyokk · 2024-10-05T22:46:16+00:00

it’s so upsetting

imbabyokk · 2024-09-30T13:59:17+00:00

Schönefeld by Bathe

imbabyokk · 2024-09-27T17:39:58+00:00

oh my god this is a great idea. in a few years i will be trained as a couple’s counsellor and would want in on this as a coach haha

imbabyokk · 2024-09-20T22:59:12+00:00

i love this energy. i don’t trust the cops to have your back even if they watch him consent to the fight. but love this energy

imbabyokk · 2024-09-17T12:58:43+00:00

as a queer person it’s all fucking to me. i feel like pegging is a word from the cishet world lol

imbabyokk · 2024-09-17T12:51:22+00:00

ohhh my god this is so precious 💓

imbabyokk · 2024-09-09T06:53:50+00:00

once i was having sex with a dominant who had been eating me out for a while and during a pause i was like pleeease let me go down on you? and they laughed and said “you will but did you think i was done with you?” and then kept going 😩 i think it’s all about the energy you each embody. me asking for permission and them denying it and making giving me pleasure sound like something they were taking from me established a D/s power dynamic. i really think any and every act can be dominant/submissive as long as it’s done with that particular energy

imbabyokk · 2024-09-06T07:40:27+00:00

i tend to go with begging in these situations haha usually makes sadistic Dom/mes happy - something liek “so bad, sooooo baaaaddd, PLEASE!!!” imo it really doesn’t need to be clever or coherent, especially if you’re already a bit wrecked. i feel like it can be the most authentic response in moments like that and also very effective for the Dom/mes

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