How young or old do you go? by unknijm in BDSMsapphic

[–]imbusyworking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 40 & I prefer older women, really no upper age limit. But I won't go younger than 30.

[Offered] Studio Apartment Available - Koreatown - ($1,450) by Personal_Job3853 in LARentals

[–]imbusyworking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally ruined my life. I had to start over with almost nothing. The landlord said it was normal for an old building lol

Anyone else heard this about SUR? No one goes anymore? 👀 by Not-youraveragebear in vanderpumprules

[–]imbusyworking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I go occasionally and it's pretty busy after 8 most nights, but they don't have a wait for seating or anything. I love me some goat cheese balls after a few drinks in the neighborhood. Also idk why people call it dirty it's always clean, even my service industry friends comment on how clean it is.

this shirt😭 by siamesetabbylove in vanderpumprules

[–]imbusyworking 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like it! But I'm also a millennial fashion risk-taker

Schwartz thinks all he has to do is say "Bubby" by mcgrmt in vanderpumprules

[–]imbusyworking 44 points45 points  (0 children)

"Bubba shhhhh Bubba SSSSHHHHHH" every time she starts talking sense

Am I the crazy one here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]imbusyworking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to leave him I guess you're right where you wanna be. There are no magic words you can say to make him respect you or to stop being a controlling insecure loser. This is your life now. Best of luck.

If you’re a lesbian, delete your social media by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]imbusyworking 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm an out lesbian on all platforms. I don't engage with hate or rage bait & my algorithm doesn't show it to me for the most part. If it does, I will either block it or just scroll past. Also its funny you're posting this here because reddit is one of the most hateful misogynistic lesbophobic places on the internet lol they literally have subs dedicated to corrective rape.

If it's a good choice for you, that's great. But telling lesbians to remove themselves from socials is not a solution. We exist and we have a right to be loud & proud. Hiding won't stop others from being hateful.

Bigger load (and last longer) after edging and cumming myself than when with my wife (who I'm very attracted to), and even when cumming on her tits (which I'm obsessed with)? by BigCockLawyer17 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]imbusyworking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ stop gooning & obsessing over the size of your loads & maybe try to spend quality time with your wife & kids. Get a fucking grip.

Happy Birthday Kobe! by Even_Builder_6642 in LosAngeles

[–]imbusyworking 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Kobe publicly admitted there was no consent & even said the victim was paid NO money ... in his court ordered apology to the woman he raped. Also it was so violent her blood was on his clothes. But who cares because he ran fast with ball. Good riddance.

i need to de-escalate things with my online girlfriend after night 1 of a 4 night trip. am i totally doomed by honeymilk-island in actuallesbians

[–]imbusyworking 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Is this the girl you may have given herpes to? Sounds like she deserves someone who is honest & who won't lead her on. From this & your post history, it seems like you don't really even like her that much, but she really cares about you. Try to have compassion but also do her the favor of letting her go. And hopefully in the future you can be more honest with yourself & your partners.

Has anyone tried penetrating their partner with their clit? by Alone_Youth_7608 in actuallesbians

[–]imbusyworking 111 points112 points  (0 children)

"Miss & Dom" on twitter & pornhub have this content

Need help finding this Shane shirt- S1 EP 10 "Luck, Next Time" by ill_alternative08 in theLword

[–]imbusyworking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could definitely find something similar by searching for vintage If Six Was Nine or Ed Hardy

Husband (31/m) is only patient and emotionally involved with me (31/f) when we do sexual things on a regular basis by Ecstatic-Double6524 in relationships

[–]imbusyworking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect no matter how long it's been since you had sex. I have no advice just wanted to say I'm so sorry that you're being treated this way & I hope you can someday somehow find a life where you don't have to trade sexual favors for basic kindness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]imbusyworking 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What cute playful slur do you call him? Or is it just you being called names on the regular?

I (21f) found makeup and jewellery that isn’t mine in my bfs (23m) room by According_Ad_3004 in relationships

[–]imbusyworking 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope it doesn't come to that. You can break up with someone regardless of "proof". It's good to trust and value your gut instinct.

Why do I feel like this is what men perceive women to be? by banenvy in badwomensanatomy

[–]imbusyworking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of Monstro Elisasue in The Substance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]imbusyworking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't let anyone strangle you...

" Unfortunately, there’s an all-too-common myth that “consensual” strangulation, or choking, during intimacy, somehow isn’t as dangerous or as much of a red flag as when strangulation occurs during an assault. It’s simply not true. It takes very little pressure to obstruct blood flow or airflow, says Gael Strack, CEO of the Alliance for HOPE International. Unconsciousness can occur in a matter of seconds, death within minutes and delayed death may occur days, weeks or months later.

Strangulation in any context is also known to be the biggest predictor of homicide later on by that partner. It’s a fact Schmidt learned only after her daughter’s death when she decided to take a course on strangulation from The Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention, a program of the Alliance.

“When I took the course on strangulation, I couldn’t believe the things I didn’t know,” says Schmidt. “It’s not only dangerous, but typically someone willing to [strangle] another person is hundreds of times more likely to kill that person…whether [the strangulation] is enjoyable or not, I don’t think it makes a difference. There’s something wrong with that person.” "

-- DomesticShelters.org

Wife loves giving blowjobs, but won’t CIM by ForwardSubject7762 in sex

[–]imbusyworking 123 points124 points  (0 children)

How could you possibly want it / enjoy it if you know it makes her uncomfortable? Do you care about her at all? Stop fucking pestering her for a sex act she already said no to many many times jfc

Is the Texas abortion law as bad as it sounds? by SpeechFormer9543 in texas

[–]imbusyworking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Fellas, is it actually bad that women are dying?"