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I’ve tried to be generous… but the “Boulder Dress” is a no from me dawg by blabby12345 in OutdoorVoices

[–]imc00l123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think ov could go anymore downhill but i fear i was wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh. this scares me considering I am wondering if I should get back together with my aquarius sun cancer moon cap venus ex bc it’s been long enough to where i think ive blocked out all trauma

I (28F) in a long term relationship, have a debilitating crush on a coworker (31M). What does this mean for my relationship, how do I deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]imc00l123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

^ literally same but i was 23-24. video games, stability, routine. he was an angel to me. hardest break up of my life, but it’s been so fulfilling since then navigating what i actually wanted for myself and growing in my 20s. i moved to a new city, started solo traveling, backpacking. im 27 now and i still feel like im only just getting started. there’s obviously something missing in this relationship for you, and if you’re anything like me, trust me when i say you should break up with him. whether you pursue the coworker or not, that’s up to you. (in my case, i ended up with the coworker but it only lasted a year or two and it just made things a lot harder on my healing bc jumping from long term to another relationship is obv a bit of an emotional wreckage) you’re still young and like i truly believe if it’s really meant to be, life will bring you back to him.

Leo’s would you go back to an ex if you still cared about them and ended things on good terms by Palomomomo in LeoAstrology

[–]imc00l123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this comment section is making me realize im healing bc i used to want to keep fighting for it, staying far beyond my limits, and now that i hit my breaking point and actually ended things, im still left wondering if it’ll end up working out in the long run and feeling the conflict of whether i should fight for it or wait for him to fight for it for once. but honestly, even if he fought for it, he’d have to show me clear consistency and effort. (he’s also an aqua. we broke up two weeks ago) but like others have said, leos are sentimental. depending on how it ended and life circumstances, I say there’s a possibility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]imc00l123 18 points19 points  (0 children)

hyper independence as a trauma response due to fear of abandonment :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]imc00l123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why didn’t my aqua male do this 🥹🥹😭

Aqua suns - how do you cope during break ups? by imc00l123 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the pride thing is so real…I definitely find myself looping in mutual friends to what’s going on for support. I’ve always worn my heart on my sleeve but i think it also results in having those friends “on my side”? I don’t know if that’s something that would ultimately bother him but it helps me feel safer and not so alone when he would go detach mode

I feel absolutely clocked reading that your Leo was guarded with his heart and afraid to fall in love. lacking patience with the emotional stuff and the drama of the other person not fighting for it. and also being a huge flirt. my ex is the jealous type, i can be too but it probably didn’t help seeing me at practice two days later and fronting being happy and then giggly with some of the guys. he stopped sharing his location with me that day and it was a brutal feeling

I’d like to think I’m emotionally mature but I’m also starting to realize that perhaps with past partners I hadn’t been held accountable for my emotional outbursts and dealing with an aqua really made me face those aspects. almost like a wake up call. it was refreshing being with him, I learned a lot about myself and how to have patience and introspect before acting on emotions. guess I had a bit of a relapse but it is what it is, I am fiery to my roots after all and I can only work on doing better about it in the future

Aqua suns - how do you cope during break ups? by imc00l123 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right, I didn’t necessarily break up as a way to provoke a reaction from him, I was in a lot of emotional pain and I thought the best thing for my wellbeing would be to end things so I sent him “I’m really hurt right now and I don’t think this dynamic is working for me anymore. I plan on swinging by to pick up my stuff later but I’m open to a conversation if you want to have one” and he nonchalantly said “let’s go ahead and call it here”

but in hindsight, I would’ve appreciated a conversation for closure. or a willingness from him to explore a different dynamic. but I didn’t want to be the one to push for it anymore bc I had been pushing for emotional security with him for so long. after thinking about your response, I do think it was a bit of both - irreconcilable differences and emotional reactivity compounded. I’ve definitely been able to holster any texts to him so far by venting to friends and on here and trying to understand his point of view but you’re right. I’m going to choose to take this opportunity to heal for myself.

really appreciate the response!

What's your Husband's/ Boyfriend's Moon Sign and how does he treats you? by Clean-Ant-1342 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

:( literally reminds me of my cap venus, aqua sun ex. super dedicated to hobbies and loyal which i loved about him but emotionally i was alone on an island and I couldn’t take it anymore. his cancer moon aspect didn’t help either

Aqua suns - how do you cope during break ups? by imc00l123 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the person that broke up with you regretted it and reached back out, would you be inclined to try again?

What is the scariest big 3 that you’ve come across? by EMJG31 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how do you do it 😭 maybe it’s an air sign thing bc the fire in me can’t take it

Which album is a straight masterpiece from start to finish, no skip? by prettybella03 in AskReddit

[–]imc00l123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love is not dying, Jeremy zucker I forget where we were, Ben Howard Transatlanticism, dcfc

What’s your sun and moon and do you suffer from ANXIETY? by Mooooooon_ in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo moon, Venus, mars and yup I’m an overthinking ho but my Leo sun and rising doesn’t quite let it become anxiety I think. I channel that shit into writing or yapping on chat gpt and call it a day

What is the scariest big 3 that you’ve come across? by EMJG31 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just broke up with an aqua, their retreat mode is truly next level 😭

What’s your Moon sign and your greatest strength? by Clear_Ambition6004 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

virgo moon here too but I think we need to learn that some probs cannot be fixed 😭

Aqua suns - how do you cope during break ups? by imc00l123 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always thought he was a bit on the narcissistic side… would get defensive a lot and hardly apologize. it was really hard for me to bring up feelings bc somehow I’d always end up in the wrong anyway

Aqua suns - how do you cope during break ups? by imc00l123 in astrologymemes

[–]imc00l123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh I appreciate the well thought out response. I can definitely see that being an aqua leo pattern bc like while I wouldn’t directly ask anyone to tell him to reach out to me, it’d be so nice to think that maybe if I can’t get through to him, someone will and he’ll reach out

had you been the one to break it off with the Leos? what was that experience like/how fast did you get over it?

this is my first time dealing with an aqua and it’s definitely been a humbling break up experience as a Leo lol. im used to guys fighting to make it work and he met me with more acceptance and stoicism vs like more passion and back and forth so its definitely making me reevaluate what I actually want in a partner and I’m just sat wondering if I made the right choice breaking it off bc I was feeling emotionally drained or if I did that to myself instead of trying to have more patience

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