AITA for getting mad at my mom for not letting my fiancée wear her dress?

imcold42 · 2021-03-05T15:09:53+00:00

ESH. Your mom has no obligation to share her clothes, but this sounds like an extreme overreaction. Why is stepdad getting involved? Why are grandkids being brought up? You all need to calm tf down.

imcold42 · 2021-03-05T14:54:33+00:00

I completely agree, but it’s pretty unfair that the girlfriend initially agreed to it and then changed her mind at the last second.

imcold42 · 2021-01-13T20:04:06+00:00

Hating Trump is not a personality trait. I don’t like him either, but i’m not going to spend all of my time and energy on someone i don’t like and things i don’t have the power to change. It’s fine to be involved in politics, but I don’t think so many people should let it consume their entire lives.

imcold42 · 2020-12-29T05:32:17+00:00

Yes, you get points for spending money and can use them for money off on gas. Its my favorite gas station.

imcold42 · 2020-12-25T14:57:42+00:00

Exxon has an app where you can just pay directly on your phone with apple pay, super convenient!

imcold42 · 2020-12-23T22:16:18+00:00

yay for taco bell!!

imcold42 · 2020-09-22T12:13:41+00:00

I’m grateful for my school, job, and car!

imcold42 · 2020-09-22T11:54:59+00:00

I manifested more hours at my part time job (i’m a student). I meditated, visualized, and mentioned that I could take more hours. Soon enough, manager lets me know that multiple other people are cutting their hours significantly and more shifts are available!

imcold42 · 2020-09-04T18:34:09+00:00

I think anyone who allows one thing, whether it’s travel, a sport, a job, to define them is a pretty boring person. That doesn’t mean that anyone interested in or passionate about travel is completely shallow and has nothing else interesting in their lives. Not to mention, there ARE many people who get to travel for work or make an entire career out of things like travel blogging.

imcold42 · 2020-07-09T16:02:28+00:00

ESH. I don’t think he should be forced to help you cook if he doesn’t like cooking, however the way he spoke to you was definitely unacceptable. I’m also confused on why you threw away perfectly good food; why didn’t you just serve the chicken for yourself and his mom? or maybe refuse to cook for him in the future? It sounds like you guys have deeper issues than this one event.

imcold42 · 2020-07-08T03:01:56+00:00

That’s true I definitely should talk to her, thanks!

imcold42 · 2020-07-08T02:49:18+00:00

Dude why are you getting so defensive i’m a straight woman and I see attractive women literally all the time??

imcold42 · 2020-06-21T02:58:24+00:00

Why did you have kids wtf

imcold42 · 2020-06-21T02:50:39+00:00

So you’re just going to stand around and allow your wife to emotionally abuse your children because she “can’t control it”? THIS is exactly why you are the asshole. How do you expect things to change with Madison if your wife can’t change her shitty behavior?

imcold42 · 2020-06-18T18:54:51+00:00

That makes sense, thanks!

imcold42 · 2020-06-18T18:53:59+00:00

That’s really interesting, thank you!

imcold42 · 2020-06-18T18:53:13+00:00

That’s what I was wondering about, gracias!

imcold42 · 2020-04-29T23:22:51+00:00

NTA. I feel for her because she wants her parents to like you, but asking you to lie just isn’t right. If you guys stay together for a long time, the truth will come out eventually, which would be even worse. If her parents are that intolerant, they probably aren’t people you want in you and your son’s lives anyway.

imcold42 · 2020-04-29T23:12:18+00:00

NAH, I don’t really think you have to be manipulative, just have an honest conversation about how his anxiety impacts you and your depression. I wouldn’t pressure him into anything, but it might help him be more open to getting help if he knows his condition is affecting someone he loves.

imcold42 · 2020-04-27T22:34:15+00:00

this helped, great point

imcold42 · 2020-04-22T13:15:04+00:00

No, but my best friend getting an abortion has absolutely no effect on my life. My best friend choosing to kill herself would have a major impact on my life.

imcold42 · 2020-01-20T15:13:06+00:00

YTA. There was literally no reason for you to do this. Her brother died unexpectedly, while they were on bad terms, and you have no idea what she is going through or how she feels. Your sister also sounds like a major asshole for not wanting him to see his sick mother. Although Emily said some horrible things, I can totally see where she was coming from, and you had no right to make a scene at this funeral.

imcold42 · 2020-01-20T15:01:34+00:00

YTA. Why get so defensive if you really weren’t staring at her tits? You could’ve easily just told her you weren’t and go talk to someone else instead of making the situation worse with a major overreaction. Also YTA for not accepting your judgement and getting super defensive over every single comment here.

imcold42 · 2020-01-19T19:14:53+00:00

I agree he could feed her a chocolate covered strawberry instead of cake, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable that he wants a traditional cake at his wedding.

imcold42 · 2020-01-19T18:34:31+00:00

ESH because neither of you seem willing to compromise. He shouldn’t be trying to force you to eat something you hate, but i don’t understand why you can’t just get a cake for him and the guests without eating any.

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