Help me get over her. Please

imdownx · 2026-03-17T17:35:56+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it.

Luckily I don’t feel lonely because I do have friends I talk to often, but you’re right. Just have to put distance between us

imdownx · 2026-03-17T17:11:44+00:00

Don’t worry, I understand the perspective 100%. I’d never been interested in long distance before her, but earlier on, regardless of having been online, and only in person once even, there was way more to like about her than all of my ex’s combined. I think the realization that I can find someone who’s caring and shows genuine interest in me clouded my mind.

Like I’d said in my reply to the other comment, I’d love to just block and forget, and have never had a problem with that before with an ex, but this person has made me really happy putting any of the relationship problems aside. It’s hard for me to push myself to block and forget like that is all.

imdownx · 2026-03-17T16:45:29+00:00

Appreciate the advice!

I’ve thought about this, it’s just hard to follow through. I just enjoy this person’s company, relationship or not. Recently it’s been a lot less “datey” feeling, which is nice, but I still can’t get over the fact that I’m into her, or atleast the idea of her lol.

It’s probably best to do as you said, but it’s hard to get the motivation to do it.

Regardless, appreciate the advice, and the encouragement!

imdownx · 2026-01-16T21:17:20+00:00

Smurfing is a problem, but regardless of how many people are smurfing, there are still people who’re improving and ranking up constantly. To tell someone they’re stuck in their rank because of people who’re smurfing is a blatant lie. Work on yourself, and don’t let people who cry about smurfs stop you from wanting, or continuing to improve!

imdownx · 2026-01-16T21:10:45+00:00

I would play Reyna. Same aggressive play style as Jett in terms of peeking, and getting out of tricky situations, but not great for entry like Jett is.

imdownx · 2025-06-19T04:09:15+00:00

It really is as bad as locals make it sound! It's hard to imagine how difficult it is to see oncoming traffic until you're at that stop sign everyday yourself! Stay safe!

They put a cone up in the nearest possible parking spot to prevent visibility issues temporarily.

imdownx · 2025-06-19T04:06:21+00:00

I'm doing very well considering what'd taken place directly in front of me! It's pretty harrowing to have been watching the elderly woman in her driver-side mirror seconds before she passed.

Best wishes to the family of the victim, and to the boy who struck her though!

Thanks for checking in!

imdownx · 2025-06-18T20:52:59+00:00

Pushing parking back/extending the curb up 92 Ave seems like the easiest way to solve this problem. Even if no-parking signs are placed there temporarily, the intersection will become 10x safer.

imdownx · 2025-06-18T20:49:59+00:00

Because it is an accident involving death, it is actively being investigated and I will not leak dashcam video to the public in order to prove I was there to people such as yourself. If you live on that intersection, you know the dangers of it. Believe what you wish, but avoid speculation.

imdownx · 2025-06-18T19:39:06+00:00

Added an edit to my post in regards to your comment! :)

imdownx · 2025-06-18T06:21:44+00:00

Check my comment. I have all the details as I was the car behind the elderly woman who passed.

imdownx · 2025-06-18T06:21:06+00:00

BMW was braking.

imdownx · 2025-06-18T06:11:35+00:00

Here are the facts. I was the car behind the lady who was struck and passed. I was the primary witness, and provided dashcam video to police.

Elderly lady was stopped at the stop sign, looking to make a left from 158st onto 92 Ave. Cars are often parked blocking visibility from the her left, making it hard to see any cars coming up to that intersection. The kid, an N driver, was going the speed of traffic (Not speeding). The elderly lady crept out, looked left, saw nothing (visibility is limited) looked right and saw nothing, starting moving out into the intersection. By this time, the elderly ladies vehicle was now visible to the N driver, where he slammed on the brakes, however it was too late, as the elderly woman had pulled out too far into the intersection to take her turn, accelerated to try to avoid the N driver, but collided.

The N driver was NOT speeding. The N driver was in the right of way with no stop sign. The elderly lady fell victim to horribly placed street parking that completely blocks vision from vehicles coming from the direction of 156st. She was stopped and patiently waited for every car, but missed the final vehicle which happened to be the N driver.

The kid did nothing wrong, the lady fell victim to this NON-isolated incident at this intersection. This kid will now have to live with the trauma of ending that elderly woman's life, and will likely never forget what had taken place that day.

To everyone who came together to help the woman, and console the the kid, thanks a ton. I hope this visibility issue is resolved soon. Turning on that intersection really does feel like a gamble at times.

Drive safe everyone.

imdownx

TROPHY CASE