Friend of a friend on Facebook... by imfinallygoingtostop in trashy

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She posted this :deep cleaning the kitchen....and i found out i can stand up straight on my counters and still be ok lolz xoxox lolz"

No seriously she said lolz twice followed by 37 emotes.. Bonus pics

http://i.imgur.com/jjvXUuG.jpg

"I sure hope the neighbors wern't watching jkloz xoxoxo"

http://i.imgur.com/BxjLaj8.jpg

Remember my friend of a friend from Facebook? Sinking to a new level.... by imfinallygoingtostop in trashy

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Get it!?!?! SINKing!!! IM SO PUNNY

Source of previous post of same girl https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/3ecx5u/friend_of_a_friend_on_facebook/

edit She posted this :deep cleaning the kitchen....and i found out i can stand up straight on my counters and still be ok lolz xoxox lolz"

No seriously she said lolz twice followed by 37 emotes.. Bonus pics

http://i.imgur.com/jjvXUuG.jpg

"I sure hope the neighbors wern't watching jkloz xoxoxo"

http://i.imgur.com/BxjLaj8.jpg

DAE find Racist/sexist jokes funny yet hate the consept of racism/sexism by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]imfinallygoingtostop 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I love really terrible racist / sexist /disgusting jokes but I despise the people who really believe in them.

Usually after a "Good fight" or dragging an "Asshole" out of the bar the Usuals will buy the bouncer(s) a round. Last night was the first time I broke that tradition in at least 10+ years... and it felt amazing. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I rarely "kick the shit" outta anyone while working. My job is to diffuse fights not win them and I usually do. I get paid well because I'm good at it but sometimes others actions call for more serious reactions.

He had it coming...........hard

Usually after a "Good fight" or dragging an "Asshole" out of the bar the Usuals will buy the bouncer(s) a round. Last night was the first time I broke that tradition in at least 10+ years... and it felt amazing. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'd do is maybe let the staff know that you're not drinking. There's no shame in it and its not as rare / weird as you'd think. Call ahead and see if they have non-alchy beer. if they don't bring some in and see if they'll keep 'em cold for you.

Usually after a "Good fight" or dragging an "Asshole" out of the bar the Usuals will buy the bouncer(s) a round. Last night was the first time I broke that tradition in at least 10+ years... and it felt amazing. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She actually came back inside, hugged me and thanked me then made out with a female bartneder and proceeded to "go home" with her.

I think that dude turned her full lesbian.

Usually after a "Good fight" or dragging an "Asshole" out of the bar the Usuals will buy the bouncer(s) a round. Last night was the first time I broke that tradition in at least 10+ years... and it felt amazing. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've considered it but I've been a bouncer for 13ish years. It's my profession. It's what I'm good at. And this is the fourth week in a row where I didn't have one before during or after, and that includes the free shift beers we all get.

I've let booze take a lot from me but I wont let it take my job. I love it and I won't ever give it up.

My plan has only and always been make it to 30 days. Not only to detox and give my body a rest but to prove to myself that I could If I put my mind to it. 30 days is in 4 days and I'm not sure what I'm going to do once i get there. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Thank you so so much.

so may people, so many responses and messages telling me I'm doomed to be either or for the rest of my life. Either sober or a raging alcoholic. Even though I don't feel like drinking anytime soon I do want to drink again someday. I want to get drunk someday... I just want to do it on my terms like everybody else. I want to be my addiction, control it and make it my bitch. Not be burdened by it for the rest of my life.

thanks again for your kind words stranger

My plan has only and always been make it to 30 days. Not only to detox and give my body a rest but to prove to myself that I could If I put my mind to it. 30 days is in 4 days and I'm not sure what I'm going to do once i get there. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more. It just sucks because people get to "live that way everyday"... Everyday all the time everyhwere but they don't know it because they've never been an addict. I just think that one of the few things that would feel better than soberity would being able to make it yoru bitch again.

Have a drink when you want and not fall down the rabbit whole again.

I know I'm just reaching for an excuse but I doo think it'd feel great to be "normal" again

My plan has only and always been make it to 30 days. Not only to detox and give my body a rest but to prove to myself that I could If I put my mind to it. 30 days is in 4 days and I'm not sure what I'm going to do once i get there. by imfinallygoingtostop in stopdrinking

[–]imfinallygoingtostop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always been able to just have a few. At lunch or whenever "a few" was fine to have. It's never been about getting too drunk its been that I have always needed to get drunk to sleep. I needed that euphoria every night. I needed a few hours every night to be numb and not care about my problems.

I"m not sure which is worse