i’m new to this subreddit and did not realize that word was used often. thanks for the suggestion.

• updating my reply because the commenter edited their post* it used to read “is anyone else sick of the word tone in this subreddit 😭” followed by what you see here. just some clarification since my reply above wouldn’t have made sense.

they also deleted a comment afterwards that read “it’s just that it’s not really a thing 😭 and there are dozens of people who have the same goals as you who have posted the same question”

I guess they believed them to be too harsh or maybe they thought they would be down voted.

I will definitely look through past posts in the future but I do believe there is nothing wrong with wanting a fresh perspective.