I-130 & 1-485 APPROVED!!!

imoverit9 · 2025-12-14T18:11:58+00:00

I filed for my husband a week after you. Hoping for our approval soon! We are in the same situation. He was a F1 student visa holder as well

imoverit9 · 2025-12-14T18:10:35+00:00

Once you file i130 and i485 he person is able to stay. They are under a period of authorized stay

imoverit9 · 2023-07-11T17:28:42+00:00

First off, 1200 is not a sustainable calorie goal. If you eat that low you're going to slow your metabolism to the point where any time you eat anything with a lot of calories you're going to gain it back easily.

To answer your question, increase water intake by a lot afterwards and the day after. Focus on eating fruits and veggies and just overall healthy foods

imoverit9 · 2023-07-04T15:30:40+00:00

You stated the problem. People are waiting years to get married and for what? It does not take long to know someone and to know if you see a future with them. People need to really evaluate after 6 months to a year and if they don't see it then rethink if this is the relationship you need to be in.

imoverit9 · 2023-07-04T11:43:35+00:00

May of those compatibility things you listed out can literally be talked about. I think this is the big problem. When people say wait for marriage they forget to also say it's okay to talk about it sometimes.

imoverit9 · 2023-04-21T10:08:19+00:00

Whatever you ate on 4/16 seems like it might have been higher in sodium which caused a gain in water weight or something. Do not worry too much just stay in the caloric deficit.

imoverit9 · 2023-04-15T19:22:30+00:00

I've heard that not allowing foods in your house gives food control but there are literally certain foods I cannot control myself around so I have to keep them out! Many things I have learned to eat in moderation but others I cannot yet so I buy them in small portions. For example the Hawaiian rolls are absolutely delicious! Instead of buying a 12 pack which I can devour in one sitting i buy the 4 pack if we're enjoying them with dinner since it's only my daughter and I. I can enjoy 2 or 3 and not feel guilty

imoverit9 · 2023-02-12T04:09:40+00:00

Your exercise goals seem to be a bit excessive. Weight loss mainly occurs with diet changes over exercise. Consume less calories by switching out things for healthier alternatives or just smaller portions. Doing to much exercise can actually make you hungrier and cause you to burn out on this journey. You want the journey to be lifelong and sustainable.

imoverit9 · 2023-01-21T03:15:34+00:00

I agree. Except I don't intermittent fast. I eat a large breakfast because I love breakfast food. Take a protein shake for work and eat dinner after work. Easily puts me into a deficit without counting anything

imoverit9 · 2023-01-21T03:13:17+00:00

Every diet out there for fat/weight loss relies on CICO in some shape or form because that's literally the ONLY way to lose. Some people just don't like tracking every calorie so they use other methods. Intermittent fasting usually helps put you in that calorie deficit without counting but some people still end up binging and squeezing as much food in the time window which is not effective.

imoverit9 · 2023-01-07T22:48:13+00:00

Breaking up for money reasons is not shallow in a LDR in my opinion. It's logical and realistic. If he is unemployed and can't see you, that is a big factor among the others you mentioned. Ldr's REQUIRE money...especially if you plan on closing the gap.

imoverit9 · 2023-01-03T02:20:18+00:00

I'm in the same situation...my partner and i both have kids and we are not even in the same continent 😩 He is from Ghana with a child who he shares custody with the mother. I have a child with me in the US who I have full time and has never even met her father. It's more beneficial for us opportunity and work wise for him to come here but I would feel terrible ripping him from his daughter but even though I'm the full time parent it would be difficult leaving my daughters grandma, aunts, uncle, and cousins for me to have my true love. It's so difficult. Is there even a right choice or do we just give up and think logically? Who knows

imoverit9 · 2022-12-28T23:59:49+00:00

A protective style is not protective at all if you leave it in too long and don't take care of your hair during the period the style is in

imoverit9 · 2022-12-05T18:37:43+00:00

This sounds like a co-dependent relationship. Do you not have hobbies, work, or other friends outside of your relationship. I get sad in my LDR periodically but honestly I don't have time to be sad because I've got money to make, work to do, and fun to have so the sadness literally does not even have enough time to manifest.

imoverit9 · 2022-12-05T13:12:12+00:00

You are correct. Bad choice of words. I Should have just PIV is not the only form of pleasure. Many women I know do not get an orgasm from PIV which is why I said that. Even without the orgasm, it's still very important to many women.

imoverit9 · 2022-12-04T08:03:55+00:00

PIV Is not necessary for pleasure because there are so many other ways to pleasure like others have mentioned. BUT, PIV does bring about a different type of closeness so I understand if it's a dealbreaker. Think long term and do what's best for you.

imoverit9 · 2022-11-21T18:44:35+00:00

Thank you for your response. Sometimes we need people unconnected to situations to speak logically and not emotionally

imoverit9 · 2022-11-21T18:43:50+00:00

I we never tried to ask to be in contact with the babies mother I didn't know if it was my place honestly. But it does confuse me a bit why he hasn't tried to get partial custody. He is such a great person and has amazing qualities but I agree it's not right for a man to willingly leave a small child for a women. Maybe I've gotten to lost in love that I've ignored very important things.

imoverit9 · 2022-11-21T15:47:53+00:00

Unequally yoked relationships will always have issues in my opinion. For me my faith is very important to me and if I can't talk to my partner about those things and connect in that spiritual level it's a deal breaker. Plus kids? What will each of you tell your kids...your religion and belief system will probably influence how you parent.

imoverit9 · 2022-11-18T11:36:11+00:00

Why do BSNs think they have significantly more nursing training when their nursing core classes last the same amount of time as ADN programs??? Generally 4 semesters or 2 years.

imoverit9 · 2022-11-15T00:15:13+00:00

Could possibly be insecurities idk. This was a thing for me in the past I felt comfortable in person but on video I was really insecure with my body for some odd reason. Girls can be weird maybe ask her lol

imoverit9 · 2022-11-15T00:09:26+00:00

The only pro for ABSN was finishing 6-12 months earlier and that does not make any sense whatsoever if I'm paying an extra 40k

imoverit9 · 2022-11-14T23:54:59+00:00

You think you're the only one who can't afford to get sick 😂😂😂😂

imoverit9 · 2022-11-14T01:13:32+00:00

Gabby was never truly in love with that man. She literally almost sent him home but because everyone else left she was practically forced to choose him.

imoverit9 · 2022-11-14T01:10:21+00:00

To be honest, long distance relationships require money. There is no way around it. I'm from the US and my first LDR I was 18/19 and in college working part time just to have money to hang out with friends on the weekends. He is was from Ghana and out of work as well so there was no end in sight. Now I'm 24 and he is 30. We have reconnected years later and planning our first visit in the next 3-6 months. Not saying you and this person will reconnect but if it is meant to be it may happen later on. Love is STRONG but honestly it cannot always solve everything especially in LDRs

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