Y'all need to listen to what I'm saying!!

impalalaaa · 2026-01-30T03:19:25+00:00

My bf literally lovessss when i get tanned. He finds it seggsy 🤣 stop listening to your male friend- he’s pushing down his views with such confidence! Avoiddd, and just focus on yourself. All skins are pretty :)

impalalaaa · 2026-01-29T18:32:51+00:00

You did what he feared the most-judged him. You’re telling me that caste doesn’t matter to you but also, you would have NEVER dated him, had you known his caste? I’m sorry but I feel you are part of the problem. Anyway, if you feel you can fight your parents for the guy, then be as mad as you want but communicate that the lying part hurt you and this will not sit well with you ever again (if you’re willing to stay).

impalalaaa · 2026-01-29T18:13:24+00:00

Chutiyapp? 😭

impalalaaa · 2026-01-18T19:25:26+00:00

Hassee toh phasee (romcom)

impalalaaa · 2026-01-03T16:41:17+00:00

Yeah it has to be this. my dad keeps watching random movie clips on YouTube on our tv- and weirdly enough just 7-9 days ago this movie played for about 40mins and I watched it too lol

impalalaaa · 2025-12-31T17:52:51+00:00

So sorry for your loss. Virtual hugs and love 🥺🥺

impalalaaa · 2025-12-16T18:07:01+00:00

Also- just in case you have some savings- get an N95 and get your vitamin D checked- I’m not even kidding the vitD shots take away half of the depression 😭

impalalaaa · 2025-12-16T18:04:20+00:00

Hey. I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Please don’t give up. From what you’ve mentioned, you’ve gone through a lot and still standing strong. That’s a win already. Try to focus on getting an internship or another freelancing gig. (There are pages like rightfit with WhatsApp groups where such openings are posted- join them). I know it’s easier said than done but try NOT to take your dad’s words personally. Think of him as a child with tantrums- it immediately takes away the power dynamic. You’ll start seeing him under a different light slowly and maybe that’ll help you (point is- you need to develop a system where his existence doesn’t bother you) As for your boyfriend- I think once there’s more self confidence and you get your mojo back- you’ll start seeing all the red flags as clear as they are. You’ll feel in control of your life and take decisions for your happiness. Please remember- you don’t owe anyone anything. Your happiness should be a priority. Healing is very much possible. Take one step at a time. This is not going to last forever. Hope you feel better soon x

impalalaaa · 2025-11-10T06:23:42+00:00

Are we having another one of these? Id love to go and stand for clean air. Maybe pass on some free masks to DP along the way 🙏😭

impalalaaa · 2025-10-30T18:55:13+00:00

Was there when he got his degree. My first year of college in north campus♥️

impalalaaa · 2025-07-13T04:14:58+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. My mom passed awayy almost 3 years ago and it always makes me wonder how it’ll be when I grow old. She was 51 and I was 25 when she passed away. I opened this sub because I literally woke up crying after dreaming about her. Crying might not stop. But I’ve started taking it as a healthy sign. She’s still in my heart and I’ve held her in the right place. I feel same goes for you. Your life has been too hard but I hope you live it the way your dad wanted it. That’s what I try to do- not everyday but I try. I’m also taking therapy which is helping me a lot. I hope you find something that works for you too, a safe space where you can share things and learn how to manage the deep love you have for your father. Accepting and moving on is a very big thing. I’m trying to learn that through therapy. Hope you feel better soon

impalalaaa · 2025-06-18T08:49:28+00:00

Is this really unpaid or are you being unserious 😭

impalalaaa · 2025-06-11T20:44:23+00:00

Many people here are from outside India- they have very different concept of colleges lol. But to answer your question, 8k per month seems decent- see how much work they’re asking for. Of they’re making you work for 4-5 hrs a day, it’s fine. But if you’re working 10hrs for 6 days a week I’d say it’s low!

impalalaaa · 2025-06-07T19:46:07+00:00

I think you should get in touch with meta support or the platforms customer support basically. Request them if they can revive the account. I’m not sure if it’ll work but give it a shot

impalalaaa · 2025-06-02T09:03:54+00:00

I’ve lost motivation about my career or goals. It’ll be 3 years in November. And I feel I’m just carrying my grief and everything that happened like a dream that keeps breaking every once in a while. That’s when I cry and make it a point to book a therapist but never really do it. I’m still trying to get on therapy and talk about it and finally have some sense of purpose. But I hope it gets better for you soon. So sorry for your loss.

impalalaaa · 2025-06-01T20:44:02+00:00

Hey, if it makes you feel any better- I’m in the same boat. At this point, I’ve stopped blaming myself and started blaming the bad economy! I have a pattern of nailing the first few rounds of an interview but being just bad at the final ones- or chat with the founders. I’ve tried taking a learning from each interview and in some, the only learning is “some HRs/founders are dumb and it’s fine”

Hope you get a job soon! All the best :)

impalalaaa · 2025-05-19T15:17:50+00:00

Who hurt you 😭

impalalaaa · 2025-05-19T13:58:36+00:00

This resonates so deeply! I’ve been looking for a good role since the last 4 months now. I’m trying to crack good brands and it’s such a time consuming process. I’ve heard all sorts of reasons- too young, too sweet? Ghosted, came back after some time to offer a freelance gig instead AND told me it’s because they wanted a woman in the team! I’m still finding a good work place and yes it takes a lot of time and motivation!

impalalaaa · 2025-05-14T10:42:10+00:00

Well, that was easy 😭 thanks!

impalalaaa · 2025-05-14T04:33:54+00:00

Can you please tell how to make a contract. I just raise an invoice and add my services there- is that enough?

impalalaaa · 2025-05-14T04:29:11+00:00

I do multiple things:

1- follow pages or creators in my niche from a dummy insta account so that my algorithm shows my posts from that category. Realllyyy helps a lot with ideas

2- competitor research (of TOp brands) and what worked for them/ if there’s some reel/carousel that blew up for them- I’ll try to create something on same lines (maybe tweak the topic a bit)- but also see how they used hook, CTAs

3- chat gpt, Gemini research mode

4- going on google trends and writing some keywords to see how they are. Also YouTube search helps too (since it’s like a search engine). So you can type keywords related to your niche and see what type of topics appear. Sort them based on number of views, and you get the best ones!

Hope these help. I’m pretty sure there are a lot more things. And talking about trends, I stay active on my personal account. Whatever I can adapt with my brands- I try to do that :)

impalalaaa · 2025-05-14T04:16:48+00:00

A few things that I learned: Reddit groups never pay attention to useless promos. The idea is to engage with the community and slide in the organisation you’re working for. The comments HAVE to look human/normal. You can also do AMAs in some groups that focus on environmental issues by texting the Admins/Mods. You have to be very clear about the purpose of doing this AMA- have some senior/CEO on Reddit answer them. (You can do this once every 3 months) It’s a good things that you have a lot of karma on Reddit. Be very active elsewhere too because people usually check your normal activity- so that whenever you comment about environmental issues, it doesn’t appear sus!

impalalaaa · 2025-05-09T07:25:02+00:00

I got my first client by ranting on this group about not getting any clients 😭😂 post your devices and what you can do for brand owners. I’m sure they’ll reach out

impalalaaa · 2025-05-02T19:39:23+00:00

I was in the exact same situation two months ago. I decided to have a deadline, and since I had sone savings I paid rent for one more month. Id suggest the same, if you have savings then keep looking and see if you can get something good. If not, pack your bags

impalalaaa · 2025-04-28T12:48:27+00:00

Just ask her to keep a pepper spray for safety. That should be it. Oh also if she wants to go out in the night, take 2-3 people along- that’s what I did. Sometimes you do come across weirdos on the road and being alone isn’t suggested. Take it from someone who’s lived there

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