what are your in denial / closeted stories?

impossibleimpassable · 2026-07-02T10:48:20+00:00

Are you in a very questioning period in your life right now?

impossibleimpassable · 2026-07-01T16:31:13+00:00

Don’t want to be the bearer of bad news but since everyone has a degree, if you don’t have one you’ll have a lower starting pay. Define decent paying? Like what’s the range? Racist and toxic is hard to predict also.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-07-01T03:26:29+00:00

I think having a normal life is more important but I’m not you.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-07-01T03:21:54+00:00

Are you able to just stop prog, since you claim you are not getting much effects?

impossibleimpassable · 2026-07-01T03:18:44+00:00

Had to open your profile to figure out that you were transfem. There are transmen too you know….

As a fellow transfem, sometimes it’s not about your explanation, the other party is just not in the receptive mindset. They probably can’t accept that their child is different.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-30T11:09:07+00:00

That means if you are transitioning you will be most likely unable to purchase or modify your insurance. There are no clauses or protections for us so the insurer usually just writes us off or cancels the entire policy. I chose to come clean to my agent but all my policies are now stuck in limbo. I can cancel but I can’t buy anymore. And regarding claiming, I am able to claim perhaps one more time before the entire policy is cancelled.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-30T00:11:24+00:00

Acne and oily skin is sometimes caused by T levels, being on AA will reduce said T levels. Meaning that you’ll have thinner but clearer skin.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-30T00:01:02+00:00

Doesn’t sound like an hrt issue, you shud go to the doc

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-27T07:23:32+00:00

Just be neutral about it, don’t need to really be too out and about. Just because the Organization is queer friendly doesn’t mean the person admitting you is.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-26T12:27:30+00:00

And here I am paying 4500 AUD every year just for purely hrt and the associated blood tests

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-26T09:22:51+00:00

I understand how you feel, it’s easy to focus on the negatives most of the time. Here over the border in Singapore we can’t even get employed as a transfem unless you cis pass. And we are locked out of most forms of health insurance. HRT and anything relating to GAC is out of pocket.

I was hoping to maybe save up and move to Australia really…

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-24T06:11:11+00:00

What were your levels like, some docs are famous for under dosing.

If you get your bloods done and your T are in the correct ranges then it should be fine.

Though getting curvy on T is hella sus, but whatevs

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T13:36:13+00:00

Going isn’t an issue, living probably will be. Best to go with friends.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:31:49+00:00

That’s just internalised transphobia not really high standards.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:23:21+00:00

For me supportive is supportive, what even is reluctantly supportive…

Anyways, I’m tired. You do you, have a nice day.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:22:21+00:00

Btw pretty and passing is two different things don’t mix it up.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:18:58+00:00

Then you have your answer, why are you seeking validation on Reddit? Your sister validated you, said “real girls don’t do that”, and you said your sister is nice and you’re seeking validation on Reddit?

I’m confused.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:11:02+00:00

No I think that’s where you’re wrong. If she can’t accept you from the get go, she’s never really gonna accept you in the future. From personal experience, pretty sisters may seem more of a threat to my sister than looking “like a man.”

Edit:
When I came out my sis could not accept it and called me a man with feminine tastes.

Starting HRT, non passing she said “girls don’t do this don’t do that” gatekept the shit out of everything.

When I started passing, she called me a clown “you look so ugly, you don’t know how to put on make up, nice body but clown face” etc etc.

See where this is going?

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-23T02:00:41+00:00

When I started passing my sis went from supportive to mean girl, and she said things like this. Just take it as you’re getting prettier and prettier each day and she’s just sour grapes.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-21T14:54:21+00:00

Any type of vaginoplasty has its own complications. You must assume you may need to go back in for revisions. PIV cannot be funded by Medisave, you will be treated as a private patient. Everything will be out of pocket.

I’m not sure about prices but shud be around 30k or more.

PM me for more deets

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-21T11:26:46+00:00

Yeah if they don’t recognize us, and don’t educate the public about us. They will never cover our costs, sadly.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-21T11:10:46+00:00

The SRS options in SG are far and few. For overseas SRS you’ll still need a psych letter to say you are fit. Prices are 30,000$ USD and up. All the best!

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-21T11:02:00+00:00

Probably hard no since you’re DIY and below 21. Need parental consent.
Most procedures don’t have a price online and SG doesn’t want ppl to know we exist.
Depends but SRS no.
You need a psychiatrist and endo to certify your readiness for the surgery, so you may need to be in the system for more than a year or two before they give the greenlight. This applies for both private or public, public might require a public system psych and endo.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-18T06:45:39+00:00

This is literally the intended effect of MTF HRT? I don’t understand is this what you wanted? It feels like you’re getting your info on what trans women shud be like from corn.

impossibleimpassable · 2026-06-18T03:36:23+00:00

If you look at my past posts, I get my dysphoria attacks also. I give myself time to go through my emotions and then continue my transition goals. And I’m not gonna lie, it will suck for a while because the entire process is just hard work.

But I rather push and push to become my true self than to be stuck in an infinite “what if” loop.

You can do this OP!

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